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Posted: 4 years ago
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Anupama nahin change kiya protocol but agar chahe to woh abhi protocol change kar sakti hai

Anupama ne nahin maanga maintain woh baat alag but anupama ab bhi as legally vanraj se paise maagne ki haqdaar hai if apply section 125


To jo tumne poocha ki haq se anupama ka vanraj ka paisa legi to mahine kaha kanooni haq se anupama vanraj ka paisa le sakti hai

But seems ur question is like that like u having objection anupama taking money from vanraj because she is no more wife of vanraj .

But law aisa nahin kehta

Divorcee wife can take money from her divorcee husband

Divorcee wife can legally take maintaince from her divorcee husband

Yes Agar divorce wife ne doosri shaadi kar liya tub wife jisne re marriage ki tub use divorcee husband se maintaince nahin milega

Edited by surabhi01 - 4 years ago
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Posted: 4 years ago
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Kya tumne vanraj ko lawyer ke kheta nahin suna ki mujhe talaq nahin chahiye

Lawyyer clearly said to vanraj ki agar aap is date pe nahin aaye to to divorce ek saal tuk nahin hoga

To vanraj ne kaha ek saal kya 10 year lag jaayen main talaq nahin chahta


Aur vanraj ko anupama ko baad mein divorce lene ke isliye bola taaki ek saal tuk divorce bhi date nahin ho

Aur vanraj ne socha asani se anupama ko is ek saal mein anupama ko divorce nahin ene ko mana lega

Vanraj ka real intention talaq ko delay karne ka yahi tha ki talaq i date 1 year tak rook jaaye and he will convince anupama easily fully not to take divorce in this in 1 year

Yeh bimari to vanraj ke liye excuse hai not to take divorce

Bahut hi cunming selfish and maniupative hai vanraj


To anupama kyon wait kare 1 year ka for divorce?

Edited by surabhi01 - 4 years ago
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Posted: 4 years ago
#23

Originally posted by: surabhi01

Anupama nahin change kiya protocol but agar chahe to woh abhi protocol change kar sakti hai

Anupama ne nahin maanga maintain woh baat alag but anupama ab bhi as legally vanraj se paise maagne ki haqdaar hai if apply section 125


To jo tumne poocha ki haq se anupama ka vanraj ka paisa legi to mahine kaha kanooni haq se anupama vanraj ka paisa le sakti hai

But seems ur question is like that like u having objection anupama taking money from vanraj because she is no more wife of vanraj .

But law aisa nahin kehta

Unke saath divorcee is note again marry to sometime otherwise man

Divorcee wife can legally take maintaince from her divorcee husband

Agar divorce wife ne doosri shaadi kar liya tub wife ko divorcee husband se maintaince nahin milega

Yeah sab general laws pata hai that after divorce divorcee wife can take money from ex husband but ONLY AS A PART OF ALIMONY PROTOCOL. Bina petition and protocol ke koi law husband ko force nahi kar sakta paisa dene ke liye 😆


India mai aisa law abhi tak nahi bana hai jo wife ko bina petition ke husband se paisa de 😆Anupama ke liye bhi koi special law nahi bana hai India ke kanoon mai 😆


Maine kaha ki Kis Haq se vanraj se treatment ka paisa legi to aap ne kaha kanooni haqq se anupama paisa LE SAKTI HAI . Le sakti hai but LENE WALI NAI HAI AS PER HER DECISION ON HER PETITION .


Since alimony nahi lene wali hai to Abhi ex-husband ka paisa ex-husband ki mercy he hua . Le sakti hai ka koi matlab nahi hai jab alimony lene ke against mai hai day 1 se anupama.


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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: sweet_tania


Which kind of woman like to take ex-husband’s financial help after divorce specially when on legal papers she herself has already chosen to mention that she doesn’t want any financial help for herself from ex husband??!


Alimony is complete different thing when it comes to divorce because on legal terms it is every women’s right but alimony is not part of anupama’s divorce protocol and after divorce getting money from ex-husband because of medical treatment can be called as ex-husband’s MERCY.

Who would like to take MERCY of that ex-husband who betrayed you for years?!!! I can die but after divorce I would chose to not accept that man’s single penny.


Technically their divorce day is as same as Samar Nandini’s engagement day. Which child like to get engaged on parent’s divorce day?? Either parents should delay divorce or child should delay engagement day. Here Samar is getting engaged on their divorce day just because of anupama’s wish, why to put Samar in such a tight spot?! What is his fault! It’s his father who did affair.


And today vanraj has not said divorce nahi lete hai , all he said about DELAYING DIVORCE since there are so many other very crucial things are going in their life which deserves much attention but anupama has make her mind and she has all right to not DELAY it any more.

She can take financial help of Toshu and Kinjal, usme toh koi mercy nahi aayegi na. Also Samar ki engagement pehle fix hui amd then date aayi, so it was not ki jaan bujhke uss din ki engagement rakhi hai. Divorce delay karke don't know next date kab aayegi, but ya they can delay engagement by 1 day.

And this delay in divorce is what affecting Anu mentally more than what her illness is affecting her.

Legally I know, she has not claimed alimony, but right Anu and Vanraj's relation is cordial so I don't think of she takes his financial help, it will be termed as mercy, she can return it once she is fine and starts earning again. What I am saying is I did not find his reasons convincing enough to delay the divorce. And too of that woh Kavya ke antics jhelne roz, shouldn't he have spoken to Kavya what he is thinking taken her into confidence? Uska mental torture kam hai kya aaj kal, divorce na ho gaya khilona ho gaya, jo zidd pakad ke baithi hai abhi ke abhi chahiye.

Edited by neo7 - 4 years ago
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Posted: 4 years ago
#25

Originally posted by: surabhi01

Kya tumne vanraj ko lawyer ke kheta nahin suna ki mujhe talaq nahin chahiye

Lawyyer clearly said to vanraj ki agar aap is date pe nahin aaye to to divorce ek saal tuk nahin hoga

To vanraj ne kaha ek saal kya 10 year lag jaayen main talaq nahin chahta


Aur vanraj ko anupama ko baad mein divorce lene ke isliye bola taaki ek saal tuk divorce bhi date nahin ho

Aur vanraj ne socha asani se anupama ko is ek saal mein anupama ko divorce nahin ene ko mana lega

Vanraj ka real intention talaq ko delay karne ka yahi tha ki talaq i date 1 year tak rook jaaye and he will convince anupama easily fully not to take divorce in this in 1 year

Yeh bimari to vanraj ke liye excuse hai not to take divorce

Bahut hi cunming selfish and maniupative hai vanraj


To anupama kyon wait kare 1 year ka for divorce?


Main Aj ke episode ki baat kar rahi hu , Aj ke episode mai I am seeing Vanraj is saying agar tumhe talak chahiye to main tumhe talaq zaroor dunga lekin theek ho jao uske baad so TODAY it was all about delaying divorce not about Cancelling divorce 😆


When I said anupama should wait for divorce? Anupama ki marzi agar usko delay nahi karna hoto na kare. Anupama ki life anupama ki choice 😄

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Posted: 4 years ago
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To tumne lagata ki vanraj ne jo khuch woh anupama se kaha woh sub sach tha

Tumne wakai mein lagta hai ki anupama theek ho jaayegi to woh talaq de dega?

Vanraj safed jhooth bol raha use koi talaq nahin dena tha

Hamesha se vanraj afed jhooth bolta aaya hai

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Posted: 4 years ago
#27

Originally posted by: sweet_tania


Main Aj ke episode ki baat kar rahi hu , Aj ke episode mai I am seeing Vanraj is saying agar tumhe talak chahiye to main tumhe talaq zaroor dunga lekin theek ho jao uske baad so TODAY it was all about delaying divorce not about Cancelling divorce 😆


When I said anupama should wait for divorce? Anupama ki marzi agar usko delay nahi karna hoto na kare. Anupama ki life anupama ki choice 😄

I agree he did not speak about cancelling it, but uski problem ye hai ki har baar woh naya bahana dhundh leta hai ya usko mil jaata hai divorce taalne ke liye and bahana nahi mila toh phir se bhaag jayega, Isliye Anupamaa ko uspe koi bharosa nahi hai😂😂

Also they way he was restless was more bcoz he is not ready for divorce rather than he doesn't want to leave Anupamaa in such situation.

Edited by neo7 - 4 years ago
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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: neo7

She can take financial help of Toshu and Kinjal, usme toh koi mercy nahi aayegi na. Also Samar ki engagement pehle fix hui amd then date aayi, so it was not ki jaan bujhke uss din ki engagement rakhi hai. Divorce delay karke don't know next date kab aayegi, but ya they can delay engagement by 1 day.

And this delay in divorce is what affecting Anu mentally more than what her illness is affecting her.

Legally I know, she has not claimed alimony, but right Anu and Vanraj's relation is cordial so I don't think of she takes his financial help, it will be termed as mercy, she can return it once she is fine and starts earning again. What I am saying is I did not find his reasons convincing enough to delay the divorce. And too of that woh Kavya ke antics jhelne roz, shouldn't he have spoken to Kavya what he is thinking taken her into confidence? Uska mental torture kam hai kya aaj kal, divorce na ho gaya khilona ho gaya, jo zidd pakad ke baithi hai abhi ke abhi chahiye.

Kavya is gone case . The way she is pushing anupama and anupama showing her dhaaga promise is awful to watch 🤢


Anupama has all the rights to take the decisions of not delaying divorce anymore and nobody has right to question her decision but when you are heading towards the divorce day , you should sit and clear the things related to grown up child that since everything is falling on the same day, let’s maturely decide to delay Samar’s engagement for a day . We can expect this much from mature person like anupama. When vanraj was giving reasoning that everything is falling on same day, you can put forward your point that we can delay Samar’s engagement for a day why to leave things like this?! She didn’t say a single word on the mishap about everything falling on same day.


Regarding cordial relations with ex husband, in the case of adultery , mental torcher and divorce , how can they justify taking money from ex-husband is easy? Isse accha to bank se loan lo. Padosi se loan lo. Kinjal and toshu is definitely there and it will look realistic and acceptable to take money from son and daughter-in-law in place of ex -husband.

I put forward my point specifically on taking money from ex-husband because I read people were saying even after divorce anupama can take money from ex-husband and that too by law without claiming alimony 😆

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Posted: 4 years ago
#29

To maine kub kaha wife ko bina petition paisa mil jaata hai

Waise aaj kul divocee husband bhi apne man se apni divorce wife ko maintaince dete hain but uski koi guarantee nahin hoti kyonki kya kya pata husband wife ko suddenly paisa dena band karde


Agar husband chahe to apni marzi se bin maintaince petition ke apni divorcee wifeko maintaince de sakta hai but iski koi guarantee na hone ke baad

Court se maintaince maangna hi best option hota hai kyonki court ki maintaince ki guarantee hoti hai

Aur maine yeh bhi yeh kaha anupama abhi bhi section 125 apply karke maintaince le sakti hai

I clearly said anupama abhi maintaince ki apply kar sakti hai aur yeh maine kabhi nahin bina maintaince apply kiya use court se maintaince sanction ho jaayegi

Waise agar anupama aur vanraj ke bech agar itni under stand ting to anupama bina maintaince apply kiye vanraj se maintaince le sakti hai but as i said husband log aise maintaince nahin dete aur iski koi guarantee bhi nahin hoti to court se maintaince maagna hi best option at least court ki guarantee hoti hai

Waise out of court bhi Settlement bhi hota hai

Edited by surabhi01 - 4 years ago
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Posted: 4 years ago
#30

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

Kavya is gone case . The way she is pushing anupama and anupama showing her dhaaga promise is awful to watch 🤢


Anupama has all the rights to take the decisions of not delaying divorce anymore and nobody has right to question her decision but when you are heading towards the divorce day , you should sit and clear the things related to grown up child that since everything is falling on the same day, let’s maturely decide to delay Samar’s engagement for a day . We can expect this much from mature person like anupama. When vanraj was giving reasoning that everything is falling on same day, you can put forward your point that we can delay Samar’s engagement for a day why to leave things like this?! She didn’t say a single word on the mishap about everything falling on same day.


Regarding cordial relations with ex husband, in the case of adultery , mental torcher and divorce , how can they justify taking money from ex-husband is easy? Isse accha to bank se loan lo. Padosi se loan lo. Kinjal and toshu is definitely there and it will look realistic and acceptable to take money from son and daughter-in-law in place of ex -husband.

I put forward my point specifically on taking money from ex-husband because I read people were saying even after divorce anupama can take money from ex-husband and that too by law without claiming alimony 😆

My point was Vanraj providing more of moral support than financial support. Which Vanraj can still give, take her to doctor, stay with her during treatment, take care of her medicines, food everything, even after divorce, he should have told this to Anu that let me atleast take care of you after divorce during the treatment process.

I agree with your point, engagement should be postponed, bcoz no one is going to enjoy it except Kavya, bcoz divorce ke baad toh sirf woh akeli celebrate karegi.

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