He is not worth of anyone's love - Page 2

Originally posted by: musicalstorm

As I said in the previous post, that one dream is shattered. The dream of Kavya. This is life. What you want the most you don't get it. What you don't want life offers you that. See Kavya she wanted marriage she got disappointment. Anupama wanted trust and love, she got betrayal. Leela/ Pakhi/Dolly doesn't want divorce, but she has to face it. Vanraj wants happiness, but he didn't get it any.

Samar feeling that AnuRaj shouldn't divorce. How can this thought come in his mind? But thanks to Nandini that Samar is still on for the divorce. If Samar would've changed the side, then I would've punched the Cvs

Kavya has attempted suicide. And Vanraj is saying kuchh problem hai to mujhe bolti na, yeh sab kyun kiya? Has he gone nuts. That girl shared his sadness to you and wanted a clear answer but you ran away avoided her. But attempting suicide is not a good thing at all. Kavya needed to change her thought process, she failed to do it. Her illusionary world imagining what will she do without Vanraj became more impactful than what she is. A strong and an independent world

Vanraj whenever getting angry is on extremes. Whenever he got angry on Anupama got panicked. And same with Kavya. This person doesn't thinks before getting angry and then regrets his behaviour. That day Advait spoke about Baggage. Maharaj has a baggagge of imaginary and real guilt, which he passes to these two ladies. And these ladies have a baggage of real betrayal because of him.

Whatever Anupama said, chahe woh 12 pass Anupama ho, ya padhi likhi Kavya. Aurat prem se tutati hai. Then she corrected prem nahi chhal. That lines will again make this guilty and I hope because of this guilt he signs the papers. Anupama again was right, aapse pyaar karna hi galat hai. But the lines, made me laugh hard, "Mera dil bada nahi hai, meri dushman hai" The wrongest lines she spoke today. Mein aapko Kavya ko dhoka nahi dene dungi. Like seriously.

Advait said, "Mein dubara kisiko apni jaan lete hue nahi dekh sakta tha" Again he pointed at suicide. That day he adviced Sanan to not commit suicide for love and today he gave the same hint. Much curious to know the past of Advait.

Anupama slapping Kavya. I was shocked. Why? It left me clueless. I know she has done a wrong thing but why are you slapping her. She said "Woh meri dushman hai, to phir ab dost kyun ban rahi ho" Today Anupama made the least sense to me, who consoles a dushman? Her message was right but it was to a wrong person. Consoling a Sautan just disappointed me.

@purple - exactly my thought, I was like ek toh character hai who is consistent in his support to Anupamaa, usse bhi kharab karne pe tule hai writers. Samar saying it was more shocking he has always seen how Vanraj used to treat Anu and how always samar was there to take care of Anu after she was mistreated. How can he even think for a second that divorce should not happen. 4 din khayal kya rakh liya 25 saal ka dard, insults and 8 saal ka dhoka bhul gaya.

@bold - I do not understand Kavya, she did say that she wants clear answer from Vanraj and then he has to stick to it. In a way Vanraj ne gusse main hi sahi usse clear answer diya which she wanted and which she many times admitted to herself also that she feels Vanraj loves Anu and will not leave her, so then ye stupidity karne ka matlab kya hua. Anu ne sahi kaha ek aadmi ke liye apni jaan de rahi thi.

@green - Even I did not understand Anu, ek taraf she said ki main itni mahan nahi hu ki apni sautan ke liye ladu abut ultimately said mujhe ek aur wajah mil gayi divorce lene ki, ki Vanraj Kavya ko dhoka na de. Arre baba tumhe kya woh dono ke bich kya ho raha hai. Whatever Anu said to Kavya today was perfectly fine and are my thoughts too about Kavya's actions, only thing is I didn't wanted ot to come from Anupamaa. It would have been better is it came from Annirudh or Nandini. Anu saying all this was a wierd for me. Dolly rightly said, Anu samajh nahi aati, apni sautan ki itna chinta kaun karta hai. Hume bhi samajh nahi aati hai woh dolly ben 😂😂

Advait ki story mujhe bhi janni hai, seems like someone close to him also took their life, could see the pain in his eyes.

I agree with most ..it's Vanraj who is responsible .

So many years of torture and toxic relationship cannot be replaced.

Can be replace all the turmoil bans heartbreak at betrayal

Can he stops how she felt when he never said anything about behaviour of his baa

Blaming her for less education but never trying to understand her when newly married that she wanted to study further

No point in talking now.

I feel kav is manipulative more with this sucide drama. She knows this is way he cannot back out.

Van is stuck and somewhat I feel he deserves what he is getting

Again above is my perspective 😊

Stay safe

Originally posted by: shahsb_26

Fantastic post and agreed with everything you have written here, except 1...but coming to it...

It is soo annoying to see everyone in the show for some reason even be there to support AnuRaj as couple and against divorce! Samar out of all people...

Vanraj is the root cause of all problems and I can never see any chemistry between AnuRaj... Maybe credits to Makers for making Vanraj so evil!

This was the last thing I expected from Kavya... Ideally after the divorce I so wish Kavya dumps... And literally Dumps Vanraj!

Only thing, I do feel that Anupama being a woman stands by another woman, no matter how evil she is just makes me happy! Kavya was always shown to have two sides... She has had the good side but her jealousy and Vanraj's action just fuelled it so far that she has done some highly unethical things!! But her understanding how Kinjal has been better boss, her empathizing with Anupama during initial episodes and all highlighted goodness in Kavya...

But Vanraj... This man has only done what he wants! And wants to continue doing that... He is the one who should be severely punished...

Kavya has goodness inside her but her love for vanraj is bringing out worst of her. Love usually brings out best of person but in kavya's case she is showing her worst side because of her love for vanraj.

Regarding anupama, i like her words about women should not give up on life for any men but i feel her slap was over the top reaction. She had made her point about women, love and suicide. There was no need of slap drama.

The way anupama was haqq jataoing on kavya was over the top drama . She is anupamaa the lead actress so thoda over the top drama to karegi he in every scene. Tulsi ,parvati bhi same thi 15 saal pehle over the top drama and so many lecture on every next given scene😆

Originally posted by: rekha02

I believe Anupama was not consoling a Sautan. She was berating Kavya for trying to give away her life for a man. Life is so precious ask its value of someone who wants to live . Her words. As a new viewer this Anupama impresses me . After a long time rooting for a female character apart from my curiosity related to Advait. Hope I am not disappointed . Looking forward to this new Anupama .

Anupamaa just after the EMA expose and before she became cordial with Vanraj was the best version of Anupamaa. The way she used to reply back to Vanraj for all his accusations, his taunts and everything, was just awesome, She also used to give it back to Kavya for all her nonsense talks. This version which we are seeing now is still giving back to Vanraj and strong, but then it has more of Mahaanta in her, which we are unable digest. She standing for Kavya as a woman when Vanraj raised his hand on Kavya was fine, but fihting for her with Vanraj, seems a little bit too much, let those 2 decide what they wanna do with their relation.

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

Kavya has goodness inside her but her love for vanraj is bringing out worst of her. Love usually brings out best of person but in kavya's case she is showing her worst side because of her love for vanraj.

Regarding anupama, i like her words about women should not give up on life for any men but i feel her slap was over the top reaction. She had made her point about women, love and suicide. There was no need of slap drama.

The way anupama was haqq jataoing on kavya was over the top drama . She is anupamaa the lead actress so thoda over the top drama to karegi he in every scene. Tulsi ,parvati bhi same thi 15 saal pehle over the top drama and so many lecture on every next given scene😆

Agreed, what she said to Kavya was on point, but it felt weird just bcoz it came from Anupamaa for Kavya.

FL main Mahaanta and OTT drama hona is like a must in ITV, unke contract main likhvate hai mujhe lagta hai 😆

Originally posted by: shahsb_26

Compassion of 10 days vs. Torture of 10 years? 😆 what is that rationale?

I am not saying that Kavya is to be spared here.. She is equally suffering but unfortunately in the society we live in will and has been blaming only Kavya for destruction of home... Vanraj... He has hell lot of people supporting him... Let's just assume for a second, Anupama too 'forgives' him, and he gets back to his family... People will let Vanraj alone too like how they made Rakhi be okay!

What's next? Shahs lived happily ever after... What about Kavya? She deserved it! She deserved to be deserted... Really?

Kavya was wrong! First, to not see through monster like Vanraj and second to not give chance to her own marriage... But she has never been given respect by Shah family nor 100% commitment from Vanraj inspite of her being the one to give up everything for this moron! So, it's definitely not Kavya's fault to expect similar assurances and commitment from Vanraj... Her insecurities are NOT only her fault! It's Vanraj's fault too... He clearly used her... He has been the one to not provide respect to her...

Kavya betrayed Anupama, her friendship and trust... Yet Anupama is the one to provide Kavya with all the support and assurance that she won't be the one to stay with Vanraj! This should have been Vanraj's action....

No matter what... Vanraj is the main criminal here... Yes...criminal! Followed by Kavya.... And her Vanraj is responsible for her Destruction... 70% Vanraj and 30% Kavya herself!

You said Anupama has always been fair and supportive to Kavya, yet to this day Kavya manages to play games and plots against Anupama. Is Kavya not a 100 percent criminal here ?

I never said Vanraj was nice because all along he only thought about himself. Kavya was already separated from her ex so had no ties to anyone but she very well knew that Vanraj still had a baggage in form of his wife, parents and children. If Kavya got into this relationship, she had to know that Shahs will not accept her easily, yet she kept plotting and scheming against them. If Kavya had been patient, Vanraj was already on his way out of his marriage and would have married Kavya.

Originally posted by: shahsb_26

Well, I was fine with sequence for today... Anupama... Didn't she also slap Pakhi once for some stupidity... In real life you aren't supposed to do that for sure.. But in tv series they have often highlighted panic with slap and realization of one who did stupid thing... Same went here.. 😆

We are yet to get complete picture of what Anupama is telling Kavya. She clearly told her that Vanraj isn't worth so much to give up your life for and related to her own life. So, I was like little fine.. But her pushing Kavya to pursue Vanraj like moron would make me me feel like she is seeking revenge or punishment to Kavya... I did mention this in some other post on this forum too! Hope she let's Kavya take her course.. Nor encourage or discourage her!

Bolded lines: Miuch true. Let Vanya take the charge of their relationship. Why Anupama is desperate for uniting Vanya?

Originally posted by: suresh555

Sorry, but I have to disagree about Kavya. She is responsible for her own destruction. She was insecure when the affair was hidden and she remained the same after vanraj and anupama separated. She was playing stupid games before and even now. Even when vanraj hated anupama soon after the separation, kavya was still insecure and playing games. Kavya has no respect for vanraj's parents or kids. She has no respect for her ex or nandini. Kavya only thinks of kavya like vanraj thinks of vanraj. However, atleast of late, vanraj is showing some compassion towards anupama but even after anupama promised to stay away from kavya-vanraj relationship, kavya is still insecure and crazy. So, if vanraj is losing interest in her, its totally 100 percent her fault. If kavya had shown trust and compassion, she already had vanraj. I would like to see kavya gone, whether anupama and vanraj stay together or not

Absolutely right you are. She is a selfish being. She was also acting clingy sometimes. Always messing up in the wrong times...

But this Vanraj is also no less. He doesn't deserves anybody's love

Originally posted by: RosyRosh

Hey !! Different forum but familiar ID lol

Dude im soooo annoyed the way the cvs are showing anuraj these days. I get them trying to be civil. Its mature. And i also think vanraj realizing his mistake and wanting anupamma makes sense, kavyas insecurity makes sense as well. But if Cvs are even CONSIDERING bringing anuraj back together ill HURL. 🤢

Whats the pain in showing female empowerment and powerful messaging agar the girl ends up continuing to be in a marriage that ultimiately failed her identity.

I know anupama doesnt seem to want to continue the marriage but the occasional anuraj moments have me scared.

.anywayz..

Waiting their divorce and to MOVE ON.

Hi Rosy...Met you in Mehndi. And nice to hear you in Anupama also.

The show Anuraj scenes occassionally which I dont like. Be it in flashbacks or in real. I dont like them being together. Specially after what Vanraj did to her

Originally posted by: shahsb_26

Compassion of 10 days vs. Torture of 10 years? 😆 what is that rationale?

I am not saying that Kavya is to be spared here.. She is equally suffering but unfortunately in the society we live in will and has been blaming only Kavya for destruction of home... Vanraj... He has hell lot of people supporting him... Let's just assume for a second, Anupama too 'forgives' him, and he gets back to his family... People will let Vanraj alone too like how they made Rakhi be okay!

What's next? Shahs lived happily ever after... What about Kavya? She deserved it! She deserved to be deserted... Really?

Kavya was wrong! First, to not see through monster like Vanraj and second to not give chance to her own marriage... But she has never been given respect by Shah family nor 100% commitment from Vanraj inspite of her being the one to give up everything for this moron! So, it's definitely not Kavya's fault to expect similar assurances and commitment from Vanraj... Her insecurities are NOT only her fault! It's Vanraj's fault too... He clearly used her... He has been the one to not provide respect to her...

Kavya betrayed Anupama, her friendship and trust... Yet Anupama is the one to provide Kavya with all the support and assurance that she won't be the one to stay with Vanraj! This should have been Vanraj's action....

No matter what... Vanraj is the main criminal here... Yes...criminal! Followed by Kavya.... And her Vanraj is responsible for her Destruction... 70% Vanraj and 30% Kavya herself!

Must say a bang on post....

Both Vanya are the criminals...The contribution can be less or more. But here Kavya is portrayed to be a more villain. As Vanraj is shown as a father and his happy moments. Par Main criminal to Maharaj hi hai