Appreciation to show makers for showing Vanraj's point of view

Finally! They have shown Varaj's point of view instead of always glorifying Anupama. I enjoyed Vanraj's speech.

To slander a human for extra marital affair is not correct.

After all, what did Anupama do to save the marriage ? Vanraj used to always correct Anuapama's pronunciation of "Sorry" but not once did Anupama try to even change a mere pronunciation. This shows Anupama never made any effort to change herself or bring some spark in the marriage and save the marriage!

On top of that, these - Kinjal and Nandini, who always keep going on "Mummy" / "Anupama aunty".

Enough of showing Anupama as bechari. I support Vanraj and Kavya! They are after all human beings.

Vanraj's mistakes may have been having an EMA or not being honest with Anupamaa.

But his deliberate evil acts were the constant belittling and chauvinistic taunts he made on her, his physical and mental harassment on her and using her as a punching bag for his other frustrations, that lowered her self esteem so much that she used to have panic attacks which she hid from the family up until the VanYa exposition.

The entire family was shocked at it, but viewers were not because they had seen her get those traumatic attacks twice before when she was kicked out of the house, both times by Vanraj.

Vanraj may have been unhappy with an incompatible Anupamaa, but did he ever bear it in silence? No!

He kept reminding her of it directly and indirectly and vented out all of his possible frustrations on her, so why is he justifying his affair as a way to make himself feel better after all his life struggle. Wasn't torturing Anupamaa all day enough??

Really? Just because you slogged all day for your family, you have an EMA and torture the only person who has worked harder than you?

Additionally, is his hypocrisy justified to abuse SaNan relationship? Anupamaa blames Samar for trying to come to Vanraj's level on his mistake.

Is getting your girlfriend with whom you have a legitimate relationship equal to getting your EMA girlfriend home, while you are still married? Why are their mistakes being compared??

So what to do with vanraj childhood struggle speech . Is anupama is responsible for vanraj childhood struggle ? . What right it gave to vanraj to cheat anupama and destroy her life

If vanraj has, so problem with anupama why he said yes to marriage. He should have said no to marriage instead of saying yes to marriage and destroying her life

And kavya and vanraj are Human being so they can do mistake but anupama should always be perfect

Nothing big deal if vanraj cheated anupama but saying surri instead of sorry certainly big sin

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To all the people blindly supporting Anupama, just because she is being shown as a bechari, this show is ultimately showing the exact opposite of what the intent is.

Anupama was a bechari when she was a house wife but after she started working, her confidence increased and she started becoming insolent. So basically this show goes on to show that housewives are still bechari .

Who the f**k is Anupama to slap Kavya! !?

If Vanraj is to really hated so much, then why hasn't all of your beloved Anupama slapped Vanraj?

I support Kavya. She hasn't done anything wrong!

What abt Anupama’s struggle?? Toshu n Pakhi should know what she went through in last 25 years. They always hated her that she is not modern don’t know English. They should know how her she wasn’t allowed to study, never went with her friends never saw the outside world.

Vanraj always had upper hand but what abt Anupama??

Agree anupama never worked on changing approach to keep the spark alive in husband-wife relationship because she blindly devoted her life to her kids and her in laws and trained her brain that being Maa ,it is completely fine if you have no control on your children's behavior and children can also disrespect mother like father does everyday.

Since so many years, anupama is nurturing wrong meaning of motherhood that's why her children and her husband and her mother in law has audacity to disrespect her, and keep her like tissue paper whom they need but can throw anytime as per their convenience.

Anupama and Vanraj has no compatibility and if vanraj had found that compatibility with some other woman, he should inform anupama on that very day and free her from marriage but he chose to use anupama as a house maid for 8 long years while doing affair on her back because he knows anupama can fulfill all their domestic demands. Vanraj treated anupama like trash ,never respected her and continue his affair on her back for 8 long years.

Basically vanraj ne apne liye apne ek hath mai free ki maid anupama biwi ko bhi rakkha and dusre hath mai uske sath compatible eye candy girlfriend bhi rakkhi . No woman deserves such a inhuman treatment.

Show makers are looking 4th standard fail , who is calling 8 long years affair "GALTI", hiding vanraj's extra marital affair under the blanket of his struggle. Life mai sab ke father struggle karte hai but that struggle extra marital affair karne ka licence nahi deti hai . The thing is no struggle can be use as Blanket to cover his 8 long year extra marital affair on his wife's back.

So i have only " THU THU THU" for makers.

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

Agree anupama never worked on changing approach to keep the spark alive in husband-wife relationship because she blindly devoted her life to her kids and her in laws and trained her brain that being Maa ,it is completely fine if you have no control on your children's behavior and children can also disrespect mother like father does everyday.

Since so many years, anupama is nurturing wrong meaning of motherhood that's why her children and her husband and her mother in law has audacity to disrespect her, and keep her like tissue paper whom they need but can throw anytime as per their convenience.

Anupama and Vanraj has no compatibility and if vanraj had found that compatibility with some other woman, he should inform anupama on that very day and free her from marriage but he chose to use anupama as a house maid for 8 long years while doing affair on her back because he knows anupama can fulfill all their domestic demands. Vanraj treated anupama like trash ,never respected her and continue his affair on her back for 8 long years.

Basically vanraj ne apne liye apne ek hath mai free ki maid anupama biwi ko bhi rakkha and dusre hath mai uske sath compatible eye candy girlfriend bhi rakkhi . No woman deserves such a inhuman treatment.

Show makers are looking 4th standard fail , who is calling 8 long years affair "GALTI", hiding vanraj's extra marital affair under the blanket of his struggle. Life mai sab ke father struggle karte hai but that struggle extra marital affair karne ka licence nahi deti hai . The thing is no struggle can be use as Blanket to cover his 8 long year extra marital affair on his wife's back.

So i have only " THU THU THU" for makers.

Completely agree with almost everything you put, except as annoying as Anu is being right now it's very unfair to blame her being unable to keep Vanraj "interested" for him having the affair...

Though I'll agree that it was unusual that she never had any suspicions until she literally saw VanYa romancing on her bed...