Assume.... Anupama committed Adultery - would Baa have same opinion?

I was kind of pissed of terrible dialogues written for baa... Literally I cannot just digest her thinking... Being a woman... She thinks working woman and strong independent woman looks good only in television?

And that she should have forgiven Vanraj? Now.. Let's just for once assume... Anupama had a male friend who are just attracted to each... I am not even talking about committing adultery... Because that's like far fetched for Shah family to digest... But I wouldn't mind assuming that... Inspite of being hard working bahu, she did not get love and respect from Vanraj like she should... Hence, she found solace and peace with another man... After a few days, she finally realized that she was wtong and GENUINELY seeked forgiveness without even going back to guy when refused, instead tried on and on... Would BAA ever ever ever forgive her? Or expect Vanraj to continue having on relationship with a woman...

I am 1000% sure.. She wouldn't have approved it... Like and no one should ideally... But then with what face is she asking Anupama to forgive Vanraj...

Anupama should totally throw this question to her... Like she has asked Vanraj so many times... Angering him.

This question should be to both vanraj and baa if anupama did this she wouldnt be forgiven infact she will be insulted more and called all kind of names.double standards,typical indian mentality if man does a mistake they are forgiven but if a women does it she is called a whore a shameless person.its really sad

Baa jaise khatarnaak log duniya mein bhi hain baa kum padhi likhi hai aur woh orthodox family se aayi hai jahaan pur women ko husband ki badi se badi galti ko tolerate karna sikhaaya jaata hai kyonki aise log samajhte hain patni ka vajood pati ke bina khuch nahin

But kum padhi likhi saas khatarnaak nahi balki aake padhi likhi saas ki soch bahut khartarnak hoti hai jaise ek saas jo school principal hai usne apni 2 days ki grand daughter ko dhakka diya kyonki woh ladka chahti hai

Jub aisi kapoot maa hoti hai to aise kapoot bete vanraj hote hain

Agar anupama ek ladke se baat bhi karte baa ne full ghar sar pe udana thaa

i dont understand one thing

jo cheez ek ladki ke liye sin mane chahte han jab wahi same cheeze ladke pe aata han wo galati ban jata hain kyun ?

Originally posted by: Susan.Dsouza

Agar anupama ek ladke se baat bhi karte baa ne full ghar sar pe udana thaa

i dont understand one thing

jo cheez ek ladki ke liye sin mane chahte han jab wahi same cheeze ladke pe aata han wo galati ban jata hain kyun ?

Because we really live in a society that's filled with double standards 😡 and I hate that about every show!

How can guys be forgiven for so called mistakes? A woman is characterless if she sleeps with other man called, sl*t and all kinds of things... But guys can do whatever they want.

Originally posted by: jacinta_91

This question should be to both vanraj and baa if anupama did this she wouldnt be forgiven infact she will be insulted more and called all kind of names.double standards,typical indian mentality if man does a mistake they are forgiven but if a women does it she is called a whore a shameless person.its really sad

Exactly saddest thing! Vanraj was asked this by Anupama... Hence, I do want to hear her ask this to baa once! I want to see her reaction.

Originally posted by: shahsb_26

Because we really live in a society that's filled with double standards 😡 and I hate that about every show!

How can guys be forgiven for so called mistakes? A woman is characterless if she sleeps with other man called, sl*t and all kinds of things... But guys can do whatever they want.

i swear idk how to say💔

Originally posted by: Susan.Dsouza

i swear idk how to say💔

PS: I do hope that you realized angry reaction for society in general 😆 about you which described and not towards you.

Totally agree. I want Anupamaa to ask this on front of everyone to Baa. I even want Kinjal to ask this question once to Toshu that if she has an affair will he forgive her.

I was also disgusted when Baa said ki mard divorce notice bhejte hai aurat nahi. Means woh divorce maang sakte hai but not women. This is a typical thinking of society and such womens do exist even today.

No one will ever raise this question. No matter how valid it is. Because the answer will be the same - what Baa has been repeating over and over again.

Women should be good, nice, forgiving, Mahan, etc BS.

They threw her out over coming home late, if she ever were to do what Vanraj has done - let's say even 0.01 percent of it. They would not only throw her out but insult her entire family in society.

Even with precap, I bet Anu is not leaving the house. Either bapuji will stop her or it will be Baa because who will do the work. And how a Bahu can refuse to take care of the family and even breaking it further.