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Posted: 10 years ago
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The poor kids will suffer...eventually the truth will come out...
Right now they are too young and innocent to understand all that...

wonder how will jiyu feel about her dad when she is old enough to understand man-woman relationship?

Sam never really loved his kids I think...his love was way too selfish

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Vidishaa

The poor kids will suffer...eventually the truth will come out...

Right now they are too young and innocent to understand all that...

wonder how will jiyu feel about her dad when she is old enough to understand man-woman relationship?

Sam never really loved his kids I think...his love was way too selfish



i dont know.. Not that i am supporting Samarth here, but..

After all kids are his own... cannot deny the fatherly love. As DD said above, he has denied his own time to his kids for his pleasures... but those pleasures are not greater than his own blood...
he might cheat his wife... what about children? I am just posting another angle
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: mudraswathi



i dont know.. Not that i am supporting Samarth here, but..

After all kids are his own... cannot deny the fatherly love. As DD said above, he has denied his own time to his kids for his pleasures... but those pleasures are not greater than his own blood...
he might cheat his wife... what about children? I am just posting another angle


A few cheats love their kids..and others don't ...donno which category Sam falls under...
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Vidishaa


A few cheats love their kids..and others don't ...donno which category Sam falls under...



depends on TRP I guess😉
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: ddsoaps

Dear TM,

This is a very sensitive and thought provoking post. Here is my thoughts on the matter.

Ok lets see from what we have seen of the character Samarth. He has been shown to be a womanizer by habit. It's not like he was trapped by a woman and had a one-time fling or fell out of love from his wife and in love with another woman. No, he is a scum bag of the highest order. Plus all these weekend/holiday sessions that he has been having in hotels and elsewhere are at the cost of the country's monies. Secondly he has also betrayed his country. So a traitor as well, though in the show they have toned down the matter, so that the PH does not get into legal issues.

Has Samarth betrayed his children apart from Shobha. I would say yes. He has betrayed his mother his sister and everyone. They too are citizens of the country. What he has portrayed to his wife and children is a fake image. The children and Shobha have been denied his time too whilst he was having a good time elsewhere. The children are too small to understand the extent and the seriousness of his crimes and wrongdoings, hence Shobha had to cover up for Samarth at this point. And rightly so for it could be damaging at this stage.

Like his sister said, "Politics is his obsession". Using politics he has misused and abused his position.

When parents indulge in wrongdoing it's an insult to their parenting. Because what values and sanskaars are we passing onto our children? As a father putting up a fake front and providing them materialistically is not his only duty. Was he an abusive father. No. Is he an ideal father. No.

Plus his crimes can't be hidden from the children for too long. It's a public matter. As they grow older they will come to learn of it someday. And it would be the responsibility of their mother to let them know the truth. Because children follow the footsteps of the parents.

I for one would never want Shobha to return back to Samarth for what he has done. For two reasons, there are no guarantees that he will be a changed man where his womanizing is concerned. Two it is dangerous for her children to grow in the vicinity of such a wrongdoer. Because if children go on to believe its fine to accept what my daddy has done, it would be okay for them to commit those or similar crimes too in the future.First lessons of honesty, truth, sincerity must come from one's home.

Its better for the children to be brought up by a single, honest, responsible, hardworking and struggling parent than to be brought by two parents for the sake of a complete home.

Damage has already been done by Samarth. The price of which Shobha and the children will have to pay. But living without him will make them stronger and go on learn that a wrong is a wrong even if it done by the person you loved the most.

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dd

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You wrote so well.. 👏
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: mudraswathi



depends on TRP I guess😉



Maiya ka ek aur show Arahahe...inkmp...on Sony...Ronit roy...husband wife ka divorce hoh sakta he parents kah nahi...looks like questions of this show will be answered on that show...btw what is the timing of this show adhy?

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Ddsoaps superb !! You nailed beautifully!! I also liked the point u said that the legal side PH are taking care of the way Samarth has been charged coz this show being politically shown with the character been tried for being a traitor !!
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: shanti05

Ddsoaps superb !! You nailed beautifully!! I also liked the point u said that the legal side PH are taking care of the way Samarth has been charged coz this show being politically shown with the character been tried for being a traitor !!


Thank you Shanti...🤗
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Very good points raised Mudra di 👏 Children indeed will suffer much more than anyone. Read all the comments, they are brilliant discussion. ⭐️
Parents do suffer, but kids and their innocent mind and heart is much important at this crucial time. Hope to see how Shobha deals with this -- she is actually at the more sensitive side.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: preetal



Maiya ka ek aur show Arahahe...inkmp...on Sony...Ronit roy...husband wife ka divorce hoh sakta he parents kah nahi...looks like questions of this show will be answered on that show...btw what is the timing of this show adhy?


9.30 mon-fri on life ok...hope the RR wala soap bhi accha ho..I am in no mood for mushy romance

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