Alright, first of all calm down. Sita I understand you are hurt but you have to look at with what intentions Ratan said it.
First of all, would Ratan who did a small pooja on camera really want to insult Lord Krishna? Secondly you have to think about what she exactly said: "Ganeshji is like a friend, Lord Shiva like a husband, Hanumanji like a brother, Kali maa gives her strength and Lord Krishna like a boyfriend, a tapori." You have already told us what tapori means but you can see when you read the whole sentence that Ratan said tapori in a sweet way, not an insulting way. She even adds that she finds Lord Krishna sweet. How is this insulting?