16/5/12 Episode Discussion

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Today's Episode was of Krishna getting introduced 2 her new house . I loved how Sargam shows Krishna whole house . She seriously is a very very good person 😊 . I love the Starting scene where Prishna talks about Ganga and how They will clear all the MU b/w them and Ganga . awww Kinshuk was looking really really handsom eyaar . His blue Kurta wth White pajaama combination was Awosome 😳😍 . loved how Pintu shows his support one again by saying that he is with her . Ganga .. She is not bad from heart , can't think of any1 . She is just little angry with Prishna and I think Prishna soon will win her heart .

Loved the Bedroom scene of Krishna ..Their First night . they would have not imagined 2 have their First night like this But Destiny made situations like this that Prishna evenafter wanting can't feel the happiness of their first night . felt very bad for them . Pyaar karne ki kya yeh sazaa hoti hai ?😔 . How happily Pintu comes 2 bedroom , OMGG the way he closes the door ith all that killing smile , awww he was so excited . But as soon as he sees krishna's tears , he becomes worried and the way he asks Krishna the reason of her tears and crying , it was so so sweet . After krishna tells him the reason, Pintu tries 2 make her little relaxed and comortable by kissing her hands and coming closing 2 her by making her whole hair in one side , it defo have intimacy in this part 😳 but krishna was not ready as she was very upset and so she removes his hand from her shoulder saying that she is fine and sleeps on the bed . I noticed one thing that he was not sad becozz krishna shrugs off his hand but He was upset becozz Krishna was upset and sad . He could really understand her feelings . I loved that Pintu always gave Krishna that space which she needed , even when they were unmarried and now also when they are married . Thatzz why i love Prishna so much . They both really understands each other so much .

Oh yes how can i forget Sargam-Pintu . OMGG I was laughing the way she holds Pintu's ear and takes him out of the room 😆😆 . Poor Guy was not at all in mood 2 leave her newly wed wife alone 😉😆 . I seriously remembered Bidaai where Sadhna (Ranvir's bhabhi) also used 2 hold Ranvir's ear in the same way the way today Sargam hold Pintu's ear 😆 Lovedd it . Wiould love 2 see omre these type of scens .

Overall A very Nice Episode . Watngg 2 see what happens tomm 😊 .

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Posted: 13 years ago
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i also loved the episode as well krishna looked absolutely beautiful and extremely cute from start to finish and i just loved when she covered her head with her dupatta she looked so young and innocent alot of other actress i have to say no disrespect but when they cover their head they look extremely old.that scene btw babloo and krishna was just creepy who in the world say this to their bil on their 1st night at her inlaws house -what was that supposed to mean is it an indication of something i know it was done so that he gets that she is the same person he knew before she hasnt changed but couldbnt it have been done in a less creepy, sleazy way.
now the bedroom scene i have to say i have never seen Pintuji this excited before 🤣 shame poor thing it was really too cute he really forgot ab his mommy issues to get close to krishna 🤣quite pathetic if u ask me. this is actually the best wedding night scene ever now hear me out alot of times we see females been told something nasty by some1 and straight afterwards their husbands or whoever touches them and they suddenly in the mood like WTH who gets turned on so soon after some1 tells them something nasty. And anyway after seeing her in tears what in the world made him think she would do anything with him this is truly the mentality of men but i liked that he let her be. but i will say this krishna has never been shown to handle 2 things at the same time and it dnt look good that on the 1st night of her wedding she failed as a wife just saying she should have thought ab his feelings as well.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Both Krishna and Pintu looked adorable today. Sargam is such a sweet person from inside out. She has always been the well wisher of Pintu and I am pretty sure that she will be supportive of Krishna and stand by her as well. I did not understand what Krishna told Babloo. She can't even touch the shadow of the person who did Kanya Nirikshan?? What does that mean?? I was lost there 😕
I felt bad for Pintu who was so excited to spend his first night with Krishna as man and wife. But I did not see any frustration from his part that she removed his hands but sadness about the entire situation and concern for his wife who is dejected and sad about not getting her MIL's blessings.
Ganga seems a little bit cooled off. But she still insists Krishna to call her chachi and not maaji. I felt bad/sad for Krishna who is genuinely trying hard to open up a conversation. No Sonu today. I was hoping to see Sonu with Sargam today and also hoping in the future that he might help lighten up Ganga's mood when Krishna is around and/or trying to talk to her.
TT is already scheming and God only knows what is brewing in his head. Sargam does not do ghungat as I clearly remember TT telling her not to do that as he thinks of her as his daughter and Ganga does not impose. So, I don't want Krishna to cover her head with the Pallu but she being new probably does not know the customs of this house and might keep doing it until someone tells her not to. I personally don't like her covering her head.
Edited by kt25 - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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@Sandia

I think After seeing her in tears when he comes close 2 Krishna , It was just 2 make her comfortable by his love ,care and touch . He wanted that she should not be upset . And so he tries 2 make her feel better by being little bit intimate 2 her . But I aggree Krishna shld have said something 2 Pintu and then shld have gone 2 sleep , I mean even a Gdnight would have made him little ok that she is fine . He was upset becozz Krishna was upset and not becozz the night didn't hapenned .
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Watched the SBB segment today. Kinshuk was saying not Saas Bahu Aur Beti, now SAAS BAHU Aur BETA segment open karna chaahiye. How apt !!! 👏 Kinshuk summarized today's episode with that one line Saas Bahu Aur Beta. Exactly that is what it is going to become now. Beta pis jaayega dono auraton ke beech mein !! 😔

Why would Krishna start to make a plan of not having Pati-Patni ka Sukh when her dear Mother-in Law is all dukhi. And a plan that too which looked like scheming with those "chor nazren" and back turned to Pinto ? Poor Pinto. He was cheated today

If I was writing/directing the scene, I would have had Krishna showing her tears to Pinto, Pinto understanding the situation and consoling her...and when he starts coming close physically, I would had Krishna use her friendship charm and explain to him, if Maa is dukhi like that, I won't be able to be happy today and elicit promise from him that he would help her to win's Maa's blessings. I would have had Krishna go to bed, talk to him, small chats... would have made her sleep with herself facing his side rather than showing her back. Them sleeping with backs turned ...inspite of them being friends...was so not going well. It was forced disharmony.

Instead, the writers gave it a very ugly turn. They made Krishna, the scheming wife !! Come on Krishna did she ever scheme like that ? Now it is a perfect Saas Bahu Aur Saazish scene when seen from the perspective of Pinto, the Son, the husband and the man.

We all know that they cannot show consummation so soon. If we the viewers know it, why would the writers be so lazy as to not give a plausible reason for not letting it happen.
Here I would like to digress from AB and go to other conducive couples and yet no Suhaag Raat finale ...the couples from Geet and then Na Ana Is Des Laado. Geet, we knew, they had no Saas Bahu drama to back it up so,,,they schemed with health reasons. Laado had plenty of Saas Bahu stuff. But that was an old stuff, because the series started with that antagonism between the two women where the Beta comes into picture to help her mom. When the real shaadi actually happens, we knew they cannot avoid the Suhag raat rasm now..but writers were scheming enough to make it convincing for Sia to forget her education and liberated mind and start hiding things from her husband. Now AB ...sort of same thing happened 🤣 Poor Raghav on that day and Poor Pinto today..

Whatever ! they should not have spoiled Krishna's character just for the heck of not letting it happen. What right I have to complain when they made a joke of Ganga's character. How rude and hurtful was that when they did with Ganga and Babloo's character 🤢 So until the time Ganga's character is restored, I think Krishna will turn into typical TV Bahu.

What were other good scenes and bad scenes ?
  1. Why are they showing as if Sargam does not know customs,as much as Krishna the Padhaaku knows? How come Sargam is surprised when Krishna steps back when she is an experienced Bahu of the Tuntun house ?
  2. If Krishna cannot even see the Parchayee of her Jethji after Kanya Nirikshan, then how come Krishna got up in the mandap immediately after the ceremony and asked for his aashirwaad ❓ I might be answered, tab Babloo Jeth bana nahin tha. To kya, kanya nirkshan ceremony to ho gaya ? Crap drama ! And please forgive me my Bihari Fraternity, if unknowingly I am hurting your sentiments. Just that logically yeh dono scenes jam nahin rahe...
And Tuntun ji...they should seperately take out a segment with only Sasurji and Saazish. But wouldn't that be boring ? Only seeing you Tuntun ji. 😲 Anyways, so you are vowing to make your Adarsh Afsar Bahu into Just Adarsh Bahu. Seems to me it will happen very soon. Less of office and more of this Sasur Saazish & Saas Bahu and Saazish.

Good Luck to me !! The way I have watched Monday's yesterday's and today's episodes...I am getting emotionally disconnected. Pintoji left a distaste on Monday and today Krishnaji left a distaste. Writers to kab ke he al vida kah chuke to good story..btw that Saaket Kumar has left...think he still writes but credit is not given...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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@moni & @sandia & @Shri - For some reason, I too felt that Krishna was a bit harsh on Pintu. She should have atleast explained to him how she felt about the whole thing as they had the whole night to talk and express each other's fears/concerns over the entire situation. That would have been much better than turning her back to him and not saying anything to him. I can uderstand her frustration but nothing is stopping her from talking to Pintu who would have gladly sat with her and talked to her all night if need be and may be would have eased her fear/tesnion/stress whatever it is that she was experiencing. Just my two cents here not meaning to offend any character in particular.

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Completely Agree with you Moni. I just loved today's episode it was so sweet.
Be it prishna scene, Krisargam scene, Kringa scene or VP saraswati scene. I loved it

Maybe Ganga is angry with krishna right now but all her behavior shows that she will come round soon and she seems to have a soft corner for krishna even after those MU

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Moni, Sadia It was not rude I think as it was first night anyone would be nervous she was more of nervous as she was upset that her MIL is upset and second this closeness was making her more nervous. We can't expect her to be logical and correct all the time she also needs time to adjust and fall in the family. She can't be perfect bahu and wife in one day only. So just chill they will have their talks later on.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Sigrid,

For the question you asked, I guess the bride cannot see her jethji after Kanya Nirikshan to maintain decorum. Now the bride is no longer a Kanya but the Vadhu. This is what I found online.

http://astroworld.co.za/Vivah%20The%20Hindu%20Wedding.pdf

Tag-paat
The bride grooms eldest brother welcomes the bride to his family and offers her the assurance that she will always be protected and well provided for and that she will not lack anything in her marriage. He calls upon all the devas to be with him in making this commitment on behalf of his family. While sacred mantras are chanted by the Punditji the jetbhai offers her well decorated
and beautifully wrapped gifts consisting of cosmetics, jewellery, sandals, clothing, mitaai, a token of money and sandals. The sandal is not offered to the haris or the alter but handed over to the brides attendant. A red sutra or sacred thread that is blessed by the Punditji is placed around the bride's neck. This is known as Tagpaat. The bride is then led back into the dressing room known as the Kohbar. In this way the Kanya Nirikshan or Vastra Samarpan Vidhi is concluded.

I was more curious about the Kohbar ghar where Pinto and Krishna were taken after home-coming...the painting on the wall and that kohbar written in hindi..I liked that. This is what I found..
Seems Kohbar ghar (dressing room) is maintained at both bride and Groom's places

"Kohbar Ghar" is an important part of the marriage. This is the room where the bride and the bride-groom stay. Several rituals are also carried out in this room. Though this is not necessary, in each home, a particular room seems to become a permanent "kohbar"! As in it functions as a "Kohbar Ghar" for all the daughters of the family.

Decoration of "kohbar" invariably leads to the mention of Madhubani Painting. Madhubani Painting is characterized by filling up the spaces with closely spaced parallel lines. Various patterns are made using these lines with contrasting colours. There might be other aspects, which I do not know of. However its a pity that this art is getting lost, not just in the urban areas, but in several rural areas as well. Newer "art aesthetics" are replacing the old heritage. Many modern methods of decorating the room are being employed these days.

Other interesting aspects is some of the tests that the bride-groom has to go through at various point of time during the ceremony. There are not serious customs, but rituals for the sake of entertainment. For example, once he has to list the names of his ancestors for last 7 generations! (Marriage is the only time, probably, when the "vanshdhar" tries to find out the name of anyone beyond his grandfather.) If he can not do it, he gives people reason to tease him. Similarly, he has to recognize "besan" and "maida" (what are these two called in English?) by simply looking at them. This is during the night with the help of whatever light is available ' supposedly a test of his vision.

Edited by shridevigaddam - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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About that not seeing shadow custom . It may happen if Sargam doesn't know abt it . See Different families have different culture and customs which they follow evenif they are of same cast or religion . many times One custom is followed by one family but the same custom of same cast is not followed or known by different family . So I was not surprised when Sargam was shown not knowing abt the ceremony . May be Krishna's family might have followed that tradition from long time but In TTS family and even in Sargam's maayeka They might not knrew abt this custom or never would have told 2 Sargam as They might not have followed that custom anytime .

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