Can love be a punishment....... - Page 2

Originally posted by: monu1101

Nish this is the most beuatiful thing I have read today..😳😳..

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Originally posted by: Nisha_07

What a topic Surbhi!

Love hurts, no doubt..that's the magic though, it makes you feel...Makes you realise you can feel..and how much you can feel..

And sometimes you can't fight circumstance, sometimes there are bigger things than your love that you have to consider. Maybe it's your parents expectations, maybe it's your own expectations that you just can't compromise with.

Now you'll all tell me that here is nothing in the world that could be a big enough problem to mean that you shouldn't fight for your love, but I'm telling you, sometimes you can't change the person you are. And you can't make your partner change their expectations either.

So sometimes, you have to walk away, no matter how much it hurts..

so true,nisha........very true.....definitely u cant change urself sometimes for the person u love or vice-versa.........but we can always try....sometimes its just not possible and it should be just left like that, as u said.......

In some cases,as people say, love changes u.....this 4-letter word can change anyones life,in a good way or a bad way.........But,i believe one thing that in this life of urs,there is a definitely a partner for u.......but bahut kam logon ko sacha pyaar naseeb hota hai,aur jinko milta hai wo iski ahemiyat dair se jaan paate hai(in some cases).........Love hurts a lot,definitely........but jo log is takleef mein khushi paate hai,they are great people.........Sometimes,just because u dont understand ur partner,the relationship breaks.....thats why i believe one thing that any relationship is foremost based on Trust.....without this ingredient in ur life,u just cant make the mixture of relation in the correct proportion😊

Originally posted by: arvanu

Sometimes,just because u dont understand ur partner,the relationship breaks.....thats why i believe one thing that any relationship is foremost based on Trust.....without this ingredient in ur life,u just cant make the mixture of relation in the correct proportion😊

110% agree with you Surbhi, understanding & trust are the most important things in any relationship.

it reminds me of a song from salaam-e-ishq:

pyaar hain ya saza,ae mere dil bata
toota kyun nahi,dard ka silsila
is pyaar mein ho kaise kaise imtehaan
ye pyaar likhe kaisi kaisi dastaan

ya rabba,de de koi jaan bhi agar
dilbar pe ho na,dilbar pe hona koi asar

Originally posted by: arvanu

it reminds me of a song from salaam-e-ishq:

pyaar hain ya saza,ae mere dil bata
toota kyun nahi,dard ka silsila
is pyaar mein ho kaise kaise imtehaan
ye pyaar likhe kaisi kaisi dastaan

ya rabba,de de koi jaan bhi agar
dilbar pe ho na,dilbar pe hona koi asar

thank you, for the first time i actually took the time to read and understand the words to this song, aur sach, aaj kiski apne ki yaad aa gayi 😭

Originally posted by: Nisha_07

I think a lot like you Monu! No point in dragging things...regular reviews are definitely a good thing!

Yea I know dear..I have seen ppl suffering for their love and thinking they are doing something mahaan for the sake of their love..even though their is no love left between the two..😕

Originally posted by: monu1101

I agree Surbhi my heart goes out for urmi who had only Sandy in her dreams and whose expectation was only to lead a happy life with him.. But I still dont believe in this concept of 'Love is blind' though I do see many examples of this. I think its the people who blindly fall in love without thinking wat their own aspirations are..wat their own expectation from life are..If you choose a wrong partner you suffer..I just feel one should not fall in love just for the sake of it..Also I think there should be a review of relationship occasionly no point dragging things.. See how practical I am about love 😆 😆

😆, i think in the same way.....ppl who think a lot , cant fall in love, yes love is blind, cause when u fall in love, u dont see anything n jump in, later on, its ur faith, u suffer or not.........

Originally posted by: Fazila~

😆, i think in the same way.....ppl who think a lot , cant fall in love, yes love is blind, cause when u fall in love, u dont see anything n jump in, later on, its ur faith, u suffer or not.........

I hate this concept of ppl falling in love without giving a thought..I dont think that you can do anything in life without thinking unless it is forced.. At least do a reality check, check your compatiblity see the future and then go ga ga on someone.. My head went for a toss wen i saw my university topper friend falling for a not even graduate jobless guy..😡 Such ppl make their lives absurd..😡.. Okie we are talking of love so lets be 😃😃 You know wat i liked the most about Jane austen stories is that she makes the character of her heroines so strong even though they look vulnerable.. They are all steady and always right..Right gets the right and the wrong one suffer☺️

oo monussss....i think the same way, thats y i cant fall in love, i have to see what i get in return, world may call me selfish,i say its reality and beging practical.....a friend of mine, who faught with her parents to marry this guy she loves, n when i last spoke to her, she told me that love doesnt feed u.......so be practical in what u choose for ur future, cause u cant change it then......once done its sealed.....
Monusssssssss i fell in love with Pride n prejudice 1995.............it was awesome, fininsed it last night only, now lidia was so stupid so where did she ended up??? and lizzzz..........oooooo...n Mr Darcy..ahem ahem..where do we find such guys like that now???? 😆

Yeah that is such a classic movie..Jane austen stories are simple but presentation is classy and it really sends you to your own dreamland..You can also try Jane Eyre BBC version..That will surely melt your heart..
I agree with your stance of love.. we have one life why to waste it on a wrong non deserving person.. 😳