Just a thought......why sandeep never.... - Page 2

Originally posted by: ketaki_ry

I think its not that simple..

We never saw sandeep in love with her from day one. unlike urmi.

Whereas as much humble as he seems, he has always shown a strong character who has his own principles. Helping CG and staying as he was (mast maula style) his decision. (we saw him discuss this with Arjun and he was very sure abt what he was doing.)
Thats what sets him apart.. and also the show I think..

Urmi came later in his life I think. and I don't think her 'childish infatuations' were going to affect his firm decision of how he leads his life. I wouldn't have wanted to see him going after his career so much for urmi's sake to tell u the truth.. we see that everywhere.. to be frank, its not sandeep-ish. He will work harder for sure, but actually going on a mission to make his career for urmi is really not something I want to see.

So anyways, when he realised he really did like urmi and urmi seemed pretty serious abt it as well - he decided to stay away from her practiaclly thinking and all.. and when he says - he is not layak for her - he doesn't say that in self pitty tone. - he says that as a fact - This is what he is, and urmi can get a better future (finantial / family background) than him.

I think even sandeep knows now that actually no one will be able to keep her as happy as he can - not only coz she loves him so much and was dreaming about him her whole life, but also b'coz He understands her so well, he is mature enough to handle her, better than her own parents!

i think he was in love with her from day one.........he never showed it, hes good at hiding his feelings.......he must have thoug hit was her infatuation......but im sure he loved her from a veryyy long time......

Originally posted by: Fazila~

I think he was in love with her from day one.........he never showed it, hes good at hiding his feelings.......he must have thoug hit was her infatuation......but im sure he loved her from a veryyy long time......

oh he always loved her..very much.. but I don't think it was this kind of love.. she was quite young yaar.. he treated as a very close young sweet velly - a part of his life.. but dont think it was love as in this kind of love until she started giving him that vibe..

She definitly loved him from days when no one would hv thot abt it in their wildest dreams.

anyways, the point i was making was.. even if he had an idea that he liked her, he never tho't abt marring her.. and when she was giving hints, he was already very sure what he wanted to do in his life. i.e. what he is doing currently not be like arjun. I think he still is.. 😊

Originally posted by: ketaki_ry

oh he always loved her..very much.. but I don't think it was this kind of love.. she was quite young yaar.. he treated as a very close young sweet velly - a part of his life.. but dont think it was love as in this kind of love until she started giving him that vibe..

She definitly loved him from days when no one would hv thot abt it in their wildest dreams.

anyways, the point i was making was.. even if he had an idea that he liked her, he never tho't abt marring her.. and when she was giving hints, he was already very sure what he wanted to do in his life. i.e. what he is doing currently not be like arjun. I think he still is.. 😊

I agree with u that he didn't love her from day one but he treated her as his best friend from day one.He would always share everything with her, be it his happiness or when something bothered him.
Also as Sandeep told to Arjun that ppl. expected something else from him whereas he wanted something else from his wife.So he satisfied and happy the way he is living and I think he won't change a bit.

Originally posted by: love_urmi

I agree with u that he didn't love her from day one but he treated her as his best friend from day one.He would always share everything with her, be it his happiness or when something bothered him.
Also as Sandeep told to Arjun that ppl. expected something else from him whereas he wanted something else from his wife. So he satisfied and happy the way he is living and I think he won't change a bit.

thanks for agreeing LU. 😊 ..

btw, I kinda hope u meant life instead of wife!... 😆😆

She was the only one he shared things with..she was the only one who knew of his troubles.
Actually, this is a very sweet kinda love..it evolved beautifully...can't wait to see the next part! 😳

Originally posted by: ketaki_ry

oh he always loved her..very much.. but I don't think it was this kind of love.. she was quite young yaar.. he treated as a very close young sweet velly - a part of his life.. but dont think it was love as in this kind of love until she started giving him that vibe..

She definitly loved him from days when no one would hv thot abt it in their wildest dreams.

anyways, the point i was making was.. even if he had an idea that he liked her, he never tho't abt marring her.. and when she was giving hints, he was already very sure what he wanted to do in his life. i.e. what he is doing currently not be like arjun. I think he still is.. 😊

true ket...now that u say it...he loved her alrite...he was very close to her but it wasnt that man-woman kind of love until much later in the show. i guess only around the appendicitis thing. as for his career i guess ur rite abt that...given that he was sure of what he was doing i dont want him to change. instead its better to show their bittersweet problems after marriage. u know lots of couples face financial problems initially because guy isnt well settled but later on manage to settle down well. thats realistic and chabhish.

hes self-sacrificing , he has always loved her, he told sujata this n also to sukha jee, he never wanted to go forward cause he didnt want to face all these problems........his love goes back same time as urmis..... 😳 ..

I think Sandeep has been writing a book (what else is he doing on the computer all this time--Not watching episodes of ACHPM like the rest of us 😆). He does not want to talk about it until he actually gets it published......... now his book will be published and he will get instant fame, recognition and wealth (Baghbaan style)!!!! Problem solved 😉

I think his financial status will be an issue with Rasik. I dont think Sandeep will accept any conditions but he will work harder to improve his financial standing without compromising on his working style (meaning he wont take up any jobs etc which would take him out of CG etc) but i'm sure atleast for one episode this will play a part!

Originally posted by: Preetiji

I think Sandeep has been writing a book (what else is he doing on the computer all this time--Not watching episodes of ACHPM like the rest of us 😆). He does not want to talk about it until he actually gets it published......... now his book will be published and he will get instant fame, recognition and wealth (Baghbaan style)!!!! Problem solved 😉

wah wah wah...wish u were the writer...........😳