Just a thought......why sandeep never....

since nothing has said in the show im only guessing that though he knew urmi is infatuated with him since a long time he didnt realize he too loves her until quiet recently. even if he realized he loves her he never intended to do anything about it as he felt from her side it was prolly infatution. i guess till he realized how serious she is about him he assumed like all infatuations she would get over him and marry a guy of her parents choice. as for his own dreams and aspirations he was quiet happy as he was...he i guess he never really thought of marriage and family life except when he got very lonely. otherwise he was satisfied with his life.

hmmmm.....ya i guess this is what he though...although babujee had told him long time back, do something with ur life.......i dont knowwhy he doesnt do something???He should....hes wasting himself... 😕

i was thinking that if the show continues after their marriage this will be a conflict point in sandeep's life...u know the original abhiman track...otherwise if he is already well to do before they marry life would be smooth.

Originally posted by: kshreya2002

i was thinking that if the show continues after their marriage this will be a conflict point in sandeep's life...u know the original abhiman track...otherwise if he is already well to do before they marry life would be smooth.

hmmmm.........2 points here.........

if abhiman track then they can marry soon....

and if he's already well to do then for that we will have to wait till he does something.....

so we shall see what happens......i dont want abhiman track, n see their relation go sour....

nor would i it wouldnt go with sandeep or urmi's characters...thats why i want them to get engaged but prolly have rasik or sandeep himself put a condition that they marry only when he is able to keep her like a queen.

Originally posted by: kshreya2002

nor would i it wouldnt go with sandeep or urmi's characters...thats why i want them to get engaged but prolly have rasik or sandeep himself put a condition that they marry only when he is able to keep her like a queen.

yesssssssssssss..........u said it dude.......n rasik is a father, man are not emotional.... not like females, he will think with his head n not his heart....and he wont be wrong....sandeep cant feed himself.... he needs a good job....comeon sandy do soemthing for urself plz.......first a hair cut then a job 😆😳😉

I think its not that simple..

We never saw sandeep in love with her from day one. unlike urmi.

Whereas as much humble as he seems, he has always shown a strong character who has his own principles. Helping CG and staying as he was (mast maula style) his decision. (we saw him discuss this with Arjun and he was very sure abt what he was doing.)
Thats what sets him apart.. and also the show I think..

Urmi came later in his life I think. and I don't think her 'childish infatuations' were going to affect his firm decision of how he leads his life. I wouldn't have wanted to see him going after his career so much for urmi's sake to tell u the truth.. we see that everywhere.. to be frank, its not sandeep-ish. He will work harder for sure, but actually going on a mission to make his career for urmi is really not something I want to see.

So anyways, when he realised he really did like urmi and urmi seemed pretty serious abt it as well - he decided to stay away from her practiaclly thinking and all.. and when he says - he is not layak for her - he doesn't say that in self pitty tone. - he says that as a fact - This is what he is, and urmi can get a better future (finantial / family background) than him.

I think even sandeep knows now that actually no one will be able to keep her as happy as he can - not only coz she loves him so much and was dreaming about him her whole life, but also b'coz He understands her so well, he is mature enough to handle her, better than her own parents!

Originally posted by: Fazila

yesssssssssssss..........u said it dude.......n rasik is a father, man are not emotional.... not like females, he will think with his head n not his heart....and he wont be wrong....sandeep cant feed himself.... he needs a good job....comeon sandy do soemthing for urself plz.......first a hair cut then a job 😆😳😉

hmm.. fazi, I think sandeep can definitly feed himself and even urmi. 😆 Dont go by what he was saying to get off urmi in that income tax episode. He was ready to marry vasudha. and he is ready to marry urmi too.

Now speaking abt better finantial future, He can gradually work more in his writng path. (and I think they hv even shown him doing that lately..).. but I think its gotta be gradual.

The last thing I want to see is Sandeep going on mission to get a career makeover for urmi..👎🏼 its just.. sorry guys... I dont think its very chaabi-ish..

I also feel they are not going to dramatise this..and just continue showing their simple lives in a simple mohalla!!!!