Arranged Vs. Love

Ok guys, I know that this topic does not have much to do with the current track of ACHPM but I was thinking about the time when Sona and Sagar got married and again when thhey were talking about Zoya's wedding. There was a lot of talk about arranged marraiges....and this got me to thinking to get your opinions.

How does the rest of this forum feel about the whole arranges vs love marraige. We all know that Zoya's and Urmi's dad were both thinking about arranging their marraiges with other people. What is your personal opinion on this topic? How about your family and community? Which one do you think is better in the long run? Which one do you guys prefer?

hheheheheh......I have a feeling that this might be a really fun topic....I can't wait to hear about your opinions.

Love marriages are good fro those who are truly in love and understand the concept of commitment. For those who aren't TRULY in love (or if they aren't sure of it), love or arranged doesn't make a difference as long as they are committed to their partner and supports one another and ofcourse has to be very understanding (or atleast try to be understanding).

according to me,whether it is a arrange or love marriage,it all depends on the two people.if there is understanding compromise,love,sacrifice,trust,in the relationship,be it love or arranged it definitely works.

i personally believe in love,but i too believe in this fact that is duniya mein har kisike liye koi na koi bana hain(very filmy though 😆 😆 ).i totally believe in this. 😳

all the things wat i mentioned above,is necessary for any marriage(love or arranged).even if it is a love marriage,we see the lack of trust element between both parties in today's world. 😭

Originally posted by: arvanu

according to me,whether it is a arrange or love marriage,it all depends on the two people.if there is understanding compromise,love,sacrifice,trust,in the relationship,be it love or arranged it definitely works.

i personally believe in love,but i too believe in this fact that is duniya mein har kisike liye koi na koi bana hain(very filmy though 😆 😆 ).i totally believe in this. 😳

all the things wat i mentioned above,is necessary for any marriage(love or arranged).even if it is a love marriage,we see the lack of trust element between both parties in today's world. 😭

I agree with you on the marriages being based on the trust part...

Originally posted by: loloabsfan

Love marriages are good fro those who are truly in love and understand the concept of commitment. For those who aren't TRULY in love (or if they aren't sure of it), love or arranged doesn't make a difference as long as they are committed to their partner and supports one another and ofcourse has to be very understanding (or atleast try to be understanding).

very well said..........I agree with you completely reagrding your statement that commitment is one of the most important things that is needed for a successfull relationship.👏

Originally posted by: loloabsfan

Love marriages are good fro those who are truly in love and understand the concept of commitment. For those who aren't TRULY in love (or if they aren't sure of it), love or arranged doesn't make a difference as long as they are committed to their partner and supports one another and ofcourse has to be very understanding (or atleast try to be understanding).

very well said..........I agree with you completely reagrding your statement that commitment is one of the most important things that is needed for a successfull relationship.👏

Originally posted by: arvanu

according to me,whether it is a arrange or love marriage,it all depends on the two people.if there is understanding compromise,love,sacrifice,trust,in the relationship,be it love or arranged it definitely works.

i personally believe in love,but i too believe in this fact that is duniya mein har kisike liye koi na koi bana hain(very filmy though 😆 😆 ).i totally believe in this. 😳

all the things wat i mentioned above,is necessary for any marriage(love or arranged).even if it is a love marriage,we see the lack of trust element between both parties in today's world. 😭

Seriously you impress me more and more by each passing day....you are so young and yet soooooooo mature....👏. I agree with you regarding the fact that trust is really important in a realtionship along with other qualities you mentioned. This was very well said.

Do you think that sometimes we often confuse attraction for love? like in the case of Zoya and Vaiabhav....do you think that is is love or attraction? is it possible for Zoya to fall in love soo quicky?

whether its love or arrange... trust is very imp... trust and attention........ if there is no trust, there is no relation and the greatest gift u can give someone is the purity of ur attention :)..........with these 2... love will automatically follow :)