14 Year Old Girl In Trouble...Pls Help... - Page 8

Originally posted by: usha_pooja

Yes dear, guys can be like that and some can have suspicions whetever the baby can be theirs etc. That could lead to the mother sometimes needing to do a DNA test as they will demand for one enable for them to be clear.

NO WAY!!!!...... a dna test?.....guys r very very stupid.....

Originally posted by: meli

@Kmishra,
I know this girl did her lifes biggest mistake, but nobody is perfect. what
makes good ppl is not whether they got pregnant at the young age or not
but the fact that owning up ones mistake and trying to rectify it. Agreed!

Since this girl is in a such young age, she should consider abortion. I dont
why she want to keep the baby, but bringing a baby into this world takes
a lots of responsibilities, you have to sacrifice a lot of your teenage life,
the baby comes first and your personal priorities next. She cant always
depend on her parents when the baby is born, need lots of strength,
supports from family and friends, and compassion. the babys father
doesnt seem to take his part of the responsibility. a baby need both of
the parents Usha mentioned social service, that is one of the most
cruel thing - to grow up there and be labeled as "foster- kid.

have this girl thought about adoption? it should also be a good option,
there is still many couple who are childless...? Never taught about that, but one thing for sure, how will she and other people react. As sometimes this can affect her as a mother maybe changing her mind not willing to give the baby right at the last minute. I remember watching this US movie about the a girl around her age becoming peggers and then giving it up for abortion sadly, i dunno whats the ending . Meli, still its good taught.