What do I do? - Page 2

Originally posted by: usha_pooja

Well, i got 92 not a 100. Yeah right she should of appreciated you for helping her assignment out. For the whole night.

Well buddy, you have been far too soft on her. Trust me when i was at college i was like you i helped out many people with their coursework even i send my coursework to people online for them to use as ideas. But, luckily i give them a warning not to copy anything. Also, they dont really copy my words therefore, i was lucky in that case. Nowadays, since joining university everyone has dispered into their own separate ways and none of them dont really come to me unless they are needed. Well, myself what i do is to do my assignment and get my close friend whom i treat as me brother. To check it and give me feedback before, doing me final assignment.

Well, in your case you were far too soft hearted like i repeated. What should of you of have done is to make her work independently on the first place not help her out too much. Normally, i tend to explain them the things they must add in the coursework and sometimes they used to look at my assignment. Myself was extremely careful that they dont pinch it and hop like a rabbit. That's what of you should of done is to explain not help her to extreme.

If she comes back to you again for help with coursework or assignment what you call it. You explain to her and tell her you aint doing the work for her. If she questions why tell her, you need to learn doing the assignment yourself since, you wont succeed or learn from other people doing it. Well, you doing it yourself will enable you to understand the topic as well learning your mistakes. Try to be a bit stronger.

Hope this advise really helps.

Yes, I always start with explanations, but she always informs me that she still has no idea what to do. In fact I keep track of her assignments and inform her a week or two prior to her assignments that she has an assignment due, and she better get started on it. She responds back saying "I know" Then, a week later she will come banging on my door saying she needs help with it.

Hey guyz,

Thank you everyone! 🤗 🤗 I finally refused to do her assignment for her and she was furious with me because of it. We had an argument and despite everything she told me in the end "The next time you do my assignments..." 😲

^omgg!!!!buddy, an applause for tolerating her 👏 😆 😆

hmm tough situation...
i thnk u r bein used...cuz i dont like d sound of dat gal...y shud Always she ask 4 ur hlp....its ok if she asks 2 ya 3 times but evrytime is ridiculus...she mst know dat wen u r hlpin its not her own wrk n she si learnin nethn except dat v shud always make frnds hu can hlp....dats infact disguistin
i wil advise u to say 2 her dat by dis way she not only fooling herslf but also makin herslf fool in front of oders by always askin hlp...dis hows she herslf havent got ne quality...so tel dese 2 her....n stil if she goes on bein domineerin ndisturbin jst tel ehr dat u hav got ur own thngs 2 look aft...so u cant hlp her out evrytime n dat u wont act like dis if it were u...n say her gud bye n tel her y u r unhappy wid her...i thnk dis wil wrk....but if it dusnt den possibly she vrry thick-skinned n spoiled...n she needs sum1 hu wil b tough n wil show where she stnds..n dont wrry deres always punishments w8n 4 her in her cumin life if she dusnt make amends soon...i hope dis hlpd...best of luck 😉

Originally posted by: Andekhi

Hey guyz,

Thank you everyone! 🤗 🤗 I finally refused to do her assignment for her and she was furious with me because of it. We had an argument and despite everything she told me in the end "The next time you do my assignments..." 😲

u r very much welcome...
u did a gr8 job by sayin it 2 her.. n dis girl really seems dumb 2 me... y wud she evn say "The next time you do my assignments..."

No offense or anything.
But you really gave yourself up for her...

And by the likes of it you dont even like her, as a friend or otherwise. You're just blinded by thinking she's your friend.

I dont blame her for all the, "Why not a hundred" cause you've let her believe, 'You're the lucky angel she's got and you are the answer to everything' When she didnt recieve 100% for her assignment, her first reaction was, how could he be wrong... It just didnt get her.

Im not saying LIKE OMG UR SILLY ITS ALL UR FAULT OR WHATEVA. Shes obviously a very dependant person, maybe she was like an only child or something. Mind you, not all only childs are dependant (hint hint: ME xD).

But, sacrifising your health and POPULARITY BY NOT GETTING UR BEAUTY SLEEP *gasp gasp**shock shock* =O!
Lol nah, just kiddin. But still, uve started giving up your own studies for her, and because of that, that girl is gonna be dependin on someone all her life.

You are getting used. But she doesn't think of it in a bad way. She assumes you'd be flattered or something. As you've already done, now when she starts asking your help for some over the top things, just ignore her. Say you have stuff on, tell her she is SUPPOSED to do it her self and you have your own stuff to concentrate on. But like if she says, i have another essay due in a week, HELP ME. Offer to help in some little way(as little as possible) like, oh I can review it for you, or help u with SOME notes. If she asks you for something little all together like, oh can you show me like a plan or layout for this assignment, don't refuse. Thats just someone asking someone for normal courtesy.

best of luck xP

Originally posted by: sonu!

u r very much welcome...
u did a gr8 job by sayin it 2 her.. n dis girl really seems dumb 2 me... y wud she evn say "The next time you do my assignments..."

Buddy, tell her the same answer again that you aint doing her assignment again. Keep on saying this and she will then release. Shes a bit pathetic at times i must say.

Originally posted by: Andekhi

Yes, I always start with explanations, but she always informs me that she still has no idea what to do. In fact I keep track of her assignments and inform her a week or two prior to her assignments that she has an assignment due, and she better get started on it. She responds back saying "I know" Then, a week later she will come banging on my door saying she needs help with it.

Well, at least you explain. Allright, you must keep on explaining if she doesnt understand or just tell her, you cannot do her assignment but i can give you tips on how to do it. Well, she taking you for grantage.

^^ i know .. i agree..
she is so totally takin u 4 granted..
if i evry come across such a person.. i wud make dat person's lif eliving hell.. neways.. juz b cool n plz don do she stuf.. as its 4 her 2 do

Be flattered x]

Refuse... and be flattered ^-^!