i really need advice .... - Page 3

Originally posted by: shelly8888

it was a tight situation...i thnk u did rite.....it was too much....n ya if u wnt it all 2 end in a gud way den prhps it ok but wel if u stil wanna be his frnd den i thnk still u shud go n tok 2 him n tel him evrythn clearly

Originally posted by: shelly8888

OMG I'm sooo sorry I took so long to reply, I was't really active in this section

shelly lets get back to the begining, u have no feelings for him as yet rite? Y did u go out with him? Did u went with him as a friend or as his girl???

Apparently he thought u were his girl thats y he tried to kiss u. reply back n I'll tell u if I think u did the wrong thing.

Edited by Angeleyes 2 - 17 years ago

Originally posted by: shelly8888

pooja when abhi ask me to go out with him i told him that i will go with u as a friend and he agree.

pooja we didnot talk after that but few days ago i found out that he start dating my cousin . i told him to stay away from my cousin and he told me that i m getting jealous.
but i m not jealous at all. i just want him to stay away from my cousin because i know he is using my cousin to make me jealous and i don't want him to hurt my cousin's feelings. i try to talk to my cousin (sanjana)but she think that i m doing this because she is coming between abhi and my friendship.

what should i do now.

I understand that ur worried about ur cousin but if she doesn't want to break up with him, theres absolutely noting u can do. Off course she might not want to believe u if she knows that u went out with him right before her, it kinda leaves an impression. I know u care about ur cousin but u just have to let it go.

Now for abhi, he is been foolish. Maybe he actually moved on. I would say ask one of ur guy friend to pretend to be ur boyfriend for a few days, this way, it will show him(abhi) that ur really really not intrested. Remember u have to tell this guy friend of ur that its a little pretend not to take it serious.

And yes u did the rite thing when u slap him😆😆

Originally posted by: shelly8888

thanks so much pooja

i try to talk to one of my friend and he agreed to do it. but i am still worried about my cousin because she start bringing abhi at home. sometimes for lunch and for dinner. i get so mad at because everyone know that abhi and i were very good friends and i have to pretend that infront of the whole family.

and pooja once again thanks so much.

Hey theres no need to worry abt it. Friends are here to help you. I know someone who went through this similar situation. I can understand your concerns and worries about your cousin dating Abi, but you need to control your emotions and keep it inside. Just dont open the lid and explode like an earthquake. 😳

Originally posted by: shelly8888

thanks so much pooja

i try to talk to one of my friend and he agreed to do it. but i am still worried about my cousin because she start bringing abhi at home. sometimes for lunch and for dinner. i get so mad at because everyone know that abhi and i were very good friends and i have to pretend that infront of the whole family.

and pooja once again thanks so much.

Ur very much welcome😊 now lets hope for the best