i really need advice .... - Page 2

Originally posted by: tukz_REmix

wel dis is a tight situationn....if he propose u i thnk u shudnt say directly dat u dont luv him...instead try 2 make him understand.....dat deres diffrnce betwen simpl fridnship n luv life....if if evr ne problem cums into ur way n if u break up he will b too ashamed 2 tok wid u...n den ur frndship wil cum 2 an end wich wil vrrrry diffuclt 2 remake....tel him dese thngs...n try 2 make him understand but plz dont say directly no den it may cause gaps n probs in ur frndship....hope dis wil hlp 😊

i try to talk to him and he told me that he need a one chance to prove himself and what shuld i do now.

Originally posted by: shelly8888

i think for like hours and hours to know what i feel for him. i still think of him as a friend. he is a really nice guy i don't want to break his heart because i know how it feel when you love somebody and he doesnot love you and does not want any relationship. i already been thru that kind of situation. 😭 i really so nervous and scared what to do.

ok don't be scared! maybe he doesn't really really really love u, maybe its just a little crush. I do think that you should tell him exactly how you feel. He will be hurt to know that ur not in love with him but he would also be happy to know that u told him the truth rather than telling him that u love him and u were lying. Make sure u tell him that. And if things don't work out u can always say u already have a boyfriend. I'm sure he will understand. Just let him know that ur NOT ready for him as yet in that kinda way. Theres no point to be scared because ur sure to know that he will get hurt so don't worry so much. Also let him know that even if he try ur feelings can't change since u already thinks of him as a friend😊

hope ur help if not let me know again😆 I can always try again, but do wat I told u to try before u reply😊

good luck shelly👍🏼

Originally posted by: shelly8888

i try to talk to him and he told me that he need a one chance to prove himself and what shuld i do now.

Originally posted by: shelly8888

thanks so much angeleyes2
i tried to talk to him last night and I told him that i think of as a friend but he told me that he need only one chance to prove himself that he really loves me alot and he want to go out with me so i told him that i will go but only once.
did i do the right thing by giving him one chance.

shelly

shelly u did the rite thing by giving him a chance and didn't crush his love but also u have to look at your feelings. If u have noting in your heart for him n by giving him the wrong impression is wrong, Its very very wrong. But if u feel that u can fall for him by starting to go out with him well thats not wrong. Its really up to you now to make that decision, don't put yourself under tention.

And your most welcome shelly.

Pooja

Originally posted by: Angeleyes 2

shelly u did the rite thing by giving him a chance and didn't crush his love but also u have to look at your feelings. If u have noting in your heart for him n by giving him the wrong impression is wrong, Its very very wrong. But if u feel that u can fall for him by starting to go out with him well thats not wrong. Its really up to you now to make that decision, don't put yourself under tention.

And your most welcome shelly.

Pooja

pooja i go out with him and you will not believe what happen. he take me to the movie and after that we went to pizza hut i thought everything is going to be fine but when he was going to drop me at home he told me to close my eyes because he has a surprise for me and i close my eyes. few seconds later i feel something weird. when i open my eyes i saw him very close to me and he was going to kiss me and i just slapped him really hard. its been more than week now we don't talk to each other.

pooja did i do the right thing by slapping him becasue at that time i have no idea what to do.