How to forget my used to be best friend? - Page 2

To forget about an ex-friend, don't talk to that person and try not to look at that person if you see that person. Stick with your other friends and try not to think about that person. If you have to ever talk to that person for whatever reason just talk and behave normally. Overall, behave as if you really don't care.

Move on and make new friends. Thats the best way. 😳

Awwww...ur exactly like me! Actually I never really had friends or if I had, they never saw *me* as their friend...

Now...what I have learnt till now, is that, relationships are forever changing...people meet, drift apart and meet again again.

As for your friend, I think you should give her a call once and see how she's like, how's her life. And maybe you should tell her that: wow...you completely ignore me.

Its not easy to do, but atleast she'll know that she's wronged you! Maybe she hasn't realised it yet.

And, you should go about, being a friend to everybody...being cheerful and all..and try to butt in some group of friends.
Again its not easy...but sometime or the other, you'll get friends, trust me!

HEy dont be sad at all because we all ur friends 😳

The best solution i think is to find her phone number some how,,or may be the email-id would be better,,,and then mail her and give her a big lecture that how she have changed and how you still misses her so much 😭 and then i m sure she would realize that she is wrong 😡 and if she deosnt realizes ,,,it OK at least she would know that what u r thinking about her,,,and you dont worry at all becuause ''Sitaroon kay aagay jhan aur bhi hain'' 😳

i m sure you will find some better friends

Originally posted by: metoubearscrazy

awwwww..please dont be sad 🤗

some people are just like that - when they are in a different environment, they get influenced by others and hence change, some times for the better and other times for the worse. if she did that to you, then that is very very mean and so all i can say is that sometimes when we have been hurt, we need to find ways to move on. in this case, the only answer is not to just find new friends but also be a friend...there is a saying, the onli way to have a friend, is to be friend...

some may be loyal and other may not - its hard to forget those who are/were close to you but you can always make mroe memories 😊

hope this helped...

luv metoubearscrazy 😊

great advice👏

Originally posted by: Leo

The best thing would be to be involved in other activities.....like IFing 😉 , listening to music....dancing!! anything!!

just try not to be left without any job! if u c her in college.....just don't remember your past! talk with other friends....and try to mingle wid em!! talk abt ur crushes!! 😃 talk abt the new movie...but try not to remember abt ur ex-best friend!!

when u r left with no job....try to read some comic books....and make ur self laff!! 😃 a college going gal like u might love gossips u know!! try finding the latest gossip and share it wid ur friends !! 😆 i do that!! makes me happy!! 😆

if u r not into this......just watch some TV!!

the point I am trying to prove is to just involve urself in something so that u forget abt ur past!!! if u follow this.......u surely can!! u have to be positive!! 😳

awesome advice shruti

I guess what you cud do is always remember what bad she has done to you , that way there is no way you would like her.

I know its quite hard but self-respect is always more important than the sweet memories you had spent with her. You could deviate yourself into doing something else and by chance or by mistake if u ever remember her , just remind urself how bad she is.

I don't think it's necessary for u to yell and yap at her for all she has done. You don't want to be as low as her , do you ?

Let your silence and ignorance do the talking whenever u pass her and always remember that u will have ur family besides u forever no matter what the situation or case

take care n feel good 😊 😊 😊

you call her. ask her how is she doing. call her on her birthday and wish her. just tell her to call you. and you miss her. you can also e mail her. maybe she lost your phone number. or maybe she is expecting a call from you. 😊

well
1st ques.. y do u wana 4get heR?
i don think dat u have 2 4get her.. b/c ofcourse u have had de best moments of ur life wid her.. so always remember her.. n juz think dat shez juz busy or may b think dat she was destined 2 b in ur life 4 only 7-8 or so years...

*remember de good stuff
*engrave all de sweet mems dta u have shared wid her
* if u eva see her again.. juz act as u did in ur middle sch
*juz chill n take life easily

k last but not de least.. true frnds r not found easly.. may b she was juz a frnd n not a true frnd.. n u ill prbly find a true frnd sum day

sonu! 😊

Hi
U know i think you should call her, there might be a reason for her sudden change, ask her, dont yell and specially dont cry, dont try and make her feel guilty, just ask her why she has changed because when you dont know why something has happened then it bothers more. So talk and talking is the most impt part of one's life, it can solve everything.
OR
When you wanna forget something, you keep that thing in mind, like 'i dont have to think about this person or like i have to forget that person' when you have these kind of things in mind, then u without realising are thinging about the person so just let go.
Deeksha