How to forget my used to be best friend?

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@Terenaina

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Posted: 18 years ago

I had a friend for 7 years. She was my best friend since I was 10years old. We were neighbors. We used to love going places together, having the same classes together and even dressing up like twins. I was so happy because I thought she was going to be my friend for life.

When we was in high school, she started bossing me around, and I didn't like that. She was hanging out with the cool kids and I was just a loser. She moved to another state, even though she knows my number, she calls her other friend but NEVER me. It's been a year and half and she didn't call me.

In middle school, she was so sweet and funny person but in high school, she changed so much. Well, high school days are over. I'm in college now.

I just want to forget her. How can I forget my only best friend that I used to had?

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@Terenaina

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Posted: 18 years ago

plz don't say find new friends, most of the friends I meet, turn out to be fake friends so I don't want to find one and be dissappointed all over again 😕

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benita

@benita0208

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Posted: 18 years ago

Hey dont worry.I too have the same problem.She is lovable sometimes.I, my shylu and another girl used to go to tution by car.She would talk with me in car, when getting out she would talk with her and flirt with her.I was heart broken.Don't try to forget her or seperate from her.Be a good friend to her till your life.One day she would realise you and turn back to you.Its for the love you have on her.One day she will return to you.
Hope it would have helped you.

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shivani

@Miss.Colorfull

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Posted: 18 years ago

aww don,t be sad. try to get ur friends number i know it,s dumb cuz u are now in college and she i somewhere else but i think maybe she is having a problem or something. call her up and find out if she is okay and her life is going fine cuz sometimes u are stuck in ur problems that u can,t even remember ur friends. if ur friend is okay but ignoring u on purpose then try not to think about her cuz i used to have the same problem and theni just try to keep myself busy and later on i found better friends in my life. i hope it helps.

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Pooja

@Angeleyes 2

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Posted: 18 years ago

even I had a best friend that I lost but sometimes its worth it. I know it sounds strange but sometimes ur not sure who's friendship is true or who's fake. Mines just walk out on me without an explaination but wat I realise is that life moves on. If she doesn't need u then u don't need her. You shouldn't be mad at her for not calling u, she should be mad that she's losing someone who use to be there for her (you).

Remember they said said that u should value everyone's friendship coz one day u might realise that u throw away diamonds for shells.

good luck.

hope I've help😊

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metou*

@metou*

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Posted: 18 years ago

awwwww..please dont be sad 🤗

some people are just like that - when they are in a different environment, they get influenced by others and hence change, some times for the better and other times for the worse. if she did that to you, then that is very very mean and so all i can say is that sometimes when we have been hurt, we need to find ways to move on. in this case, the only answer is not to just find new friends but also be a friend...there is a saying, the onli way to have a friend, is to be friend...

some may be loyal and other may not - its hard to forget those who are/were close to you but you can always make mroe memories 😊

hope this helped...

luv metoubearscrazy 😊

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sakura*

@sakura*

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Posted: 18 years ago

sth like this happened to me too. I had a frnd for 6yrs and we were very good frnds then she moved out of the country without even saying anything. Its been 3 and half yrs now and she didnt call. And as time went by i learned that if she doesnt need me then i dont need her. i hav new frnds. But i can already see some of them turning out to be fake. But it doesnt matter cuz i hav other frnds .life will go on and i can do evrything without the frnds who leave me. U dont hav to forget her just move on make new frnds and slowly u wont think about her anymore about her. hope this helped

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@S T N 88

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Posted: 18 years ago

Originally posted by: metoubearscrazy
awwwww..please dont be sad 🤗

some people are just like that - when they are in a different environment, they get influenced by others and hence change, some times for the better and other times for the worse. if she did that to you, then that is very very mean and so all i can say is that sometimes when we have been hurt, we need to find ways to move on. in this case, the only answer is not to just find new friends but also be a friend...there is a saying, the onli way to have a friend, is to be friend...

some may be loyal and other may not - its hard to forget those who are/were close to you but you can always make mroe memories 😊

hope this helped...

luv metoubearscrazy 😊

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Shruthi

@Leo

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Posted: 18 years ago

The best thing would be to be involved in other activities.....like IFing 😉 , listening to music....dancing!! anything!!

just try not to be left without any job! if u c her in college.....just don't remember your past! talk with other friends....and try to mingle wid em!! talk abt ur crushes!! 😃 talk abt the new movie...but try not to remember abt ur ex-best friend!!

when u r left with no job....try to read some comic books....and make ur self laff!! 😃 a college going gal like u might love gossips u know!! try finding the latest gossip and share it wid ur friends !! 😆 i do that!! makes me happy!! 😆

if u r not into this......just watch some TV!!

the point I am trying to prove is to just involve urself in something so that u forget abt ur past!!! if u follow this.......u surely can!! u have to be positive!! 😳

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Mallika

@marvelous.malks

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Posted: 18 years ago

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Aww 🤗, I can't say i know what you mean because I've never had a close friend that has changed so dramatically. I'm only entering High School and am afraid that my friends will also go through that change; I'm hoping I won't have to.
I don't think you'll be able to forget her so easily, or ever. It doesn't matter how is is now, but how she used to be and all the fun moments you guys spent together. I would say that just cherish those memories and look at all the moments you spent with her and had the time of your life. 😳

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