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divyachandresh thumbnail
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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: Angel-Jot.

Pfft. We've helped enough. You just don't wanna listen. ..And..what would your parents think if they knew that their 15 year old daughter was posting her, "love problems" online? How about thinking about your family and your education for once?




thanks for u help
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Posted: 14 years ago
Okay so I've read the last 22 pages. And wow. I'll make it short and simple:
FOCUS ON YOUR EDUCATION RIGHT NOW!
You have no idea how important this will be when you're in university. Join clubs at school. Are you in the Sciences? Math? English? Focus on it. Get a tutor. Pull up your grades. I had my first boyfriend really young and I honestly regret that now. You're WAY TOO YOUNG for all of this. Forget about boys!
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Posted: 14 years ago
@Divya.. Just read all da pages.. nd i thnk u r making things up nd confusing each nd every1 in dis forum..😕 nd really sorry 4 being rude coz now i'm gonna tell watever i felt by reading all da pages..!!!😉

1st of all i really did'nt get da staring thingy..😕😆
Its in ur mind dat guys stare at u wen they are'nt..😉 Do guys really stare at u all da time in school..😲😕 i thnk u stare at dem nd maybe they get irriated nd den starts looking back..!!!😳
If u will stare at dem den obviously they will also stare at u na..!!!😉

Nd if they r sad den its their persnal problem.. the whole world does'nt revolves around u so stop thinking dat watever is happening in dis world its all becoz of u..!!!😆

Watever u told.. IF its true den i must say dat now u r really immature nd the boys who wer in relationship with u r not at fault.. infact its U..!!!😉
Nd i really dont thnk dat they wer even in relationship with u..!!!
It was just 4rm ur side.. u thnk dat u r in relationship wen u r not..!!!😆
U said dat u wer in relationship with da 1st guy for 5-6 years.. bt i dont thnk so..😕 i thnk he was just being ur friend nd he hav a hobby of flirting with gals just like he used to flirt with u bt it does'nt mean dat he is in Relationship with u OR he loves u..!!!😕
Bt u thnk dat its LOVE or Relationship..!!
U r mixing freindship with Love nd Relationship..!!!
1st u should know da meaning of Relationship.. nd den u should talk abt it..!!😉

Nd u hav a major Problem of communicating.. U dont hav da guts to confront da person whom u like or love Or watever..!!!
Read many people comments dat plzzz confront da person nd tell him abt his feelings bt again u ignore all da comments nd starts going on with ur Updates..😆 nd wen u see dat people stopped commenting den u came up dat i confessed my love bt da guy just looked at me nd went without saying anything Or u wer feeling shy so u went away..!!!😲
Dont u thnk dat its quite repetitive in ur comments..???😉

Watever u told IF its true den i can only say dat its ur communication nd mind problem.. u really dont know how to communicate with any1 specially with those whom u like.. its really not boys fault..!!!

U should simply confront da guy nd tell him abt ur feelings towards him nd if he does'nt love u den simply Move on.. No need to cry out again nd again 4 dat nd no need to keep staring at him wen he does'nt love u..!!!

It is not compulsory dat if u love some1 den da other person also loves u..
Wat they can do if they dont love u nd just want to be ur friend bt u r enforcing ur love on dem nd
just coz of Ur love they starts ignoring u nd also leave ur friendship..!!!
Its your problem not theirs..!!!😉

1 more thing i observed den u wer continuously going on abt da 1st guy dat he stares at u.. simles at u.. etc etc..!!
Bt wen da 2nd guy asked u 4 going out u stopped giving update abt da 1st guy..😲 he is still in ur school na so is he not staring u anymore OR finally u hav stopped looking at him..??😲

Nd u went out with da 2nd guy only 1 time den how u can think dat u wer in relationship with him..😕 did he said dat we r in relationship with each other 4rm now on?😉.. OR did he keep in touch with u.😉 coz after reading ur update its not looking like dat he contacted with u after dat.. Only u wer da 1 who wer trying to contact him..!!!
Nd now u hav da same problem dat da 2nd guy too stares at u nd smiles at u bt dont talk with u..😆 (Dis is also repetitive..😉) Its a common thing dat da person whom we know.. if we see dem anywhere den we give a little smile bt u hav a problem with dat too..

U r too much immature to be in relationship at only 15 years.. 1st be a little mature den start getting into relationship.. specially wen ur parents allow U.. coz they know u more more den anything else..!!!
I'm simply telling watever i observed after reading ur comments in dis thread..!!!😉
Nd u will get da same problem if u will start getting into relationship with another guy..!!!
So simply leave all dis nd concentrate in ur studies or something else if u can..!!

At da end Very Very sorry 4 being soo rude bt i was'nt able to stop myself 4rm saying all dis.. i just said watever i felt by reading all da pages..!!!😉
Edited by Faraan_4_Shweta - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
^ I 100% agree with you!👏
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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: .Gabriella.

^ I 100% agree with you!👏

Thankzz dear..!!!😳😆
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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: Faraan_4_Shweta

@Divya.. Just read all da pages.. nd i thnk u r making things up nd confusing each nd every1 in dis forum..😕 nd really sorry 4 being rude coz now i'm gonna tell watever i felt by reading all da pages..!!!😉


1st of all i really did'nt get da staring thingy..😕😆
Its in ur mind dat guys stare at u wen they are'nt..😉 Do guys really stare at u all da time in school..😲😕 i thnk u stare at dem nd maybe they get irriated nd den starts looking back..!!!😳
If u will stare at dem den obviously they will also stare at u na..!!!😉

Nd if they r sad den its their persnal problem.. the whole world does'nt revolves around u so stop thinking dat watever is happening in dis world its all becoz of u..!!!😆

Watever u told.. IF its true den i must say dat now u r really immature nd the boys who wer in relationship with u r not at fault.. infact its U..!!!😉
Nd i really dont thnk dat they wer even in relationship with u..!!!
It was just 4rm ur side.. u thnk dat u r in relationship wen u r not..!!!😆
U said dat u wer in relationship with da 1st guy for 5-6 years.. bt i dont thnk so..😕 i thnk he was just being ur friend nd he hav a hobby of flirting with gals just like he used to flirt with u bt it does'nt mean dat he is in Relationship with u OR he loves u..!!!😕
Bt u thnk dat its LOVE or Relationship..!!
U r mixing freindship with Love nd Relationship..!!!
1st u should know da meaning of Relationship.. nd den u should talk abt it..!!😉

Nd u hav a major Problem of communicating.. U dont hav da guts to confront da person whom u like or love Or watever..!!!
Read many people comments dat plzzz confront da person nd tell him abt his feelings bt again u ignore all da comments nd starts going on with ur Updates..😆 nd wen u see dat people stopped commenting den u came up dat i confessed my love bt da guy just looked at me nd went without saying anything Or u wer feeling shy so u went away..!!!😲
Dont u thnk dat its quite repetitive in ur comments..???😉

Watever u told IF its true den i can only say dat its ur communication nd mind problem.. u really dont know how to communicate with any1 specially with those whom u like.. its really not boys fault..!!!

U should simply confront da guy nd tell him abt ur feelings towards him nd if he does'nt love u den simply Move on.. No need to cry out again nd again 4 dat nd no need to keep staring at him wen he does'nt love u..!!!

It is not compulsory dat if u love some1 den da other person also loves u..
Wat they can do if they dont love u nd just want to be ur friend bt u r enforcing ur love on dem nd
just coz of Ur love they starts ignoring u nd also leave ur friendship..!!!
Its your problem not theirs..!!!😉

1 more thing i observed den u wer continuously going on abt da 1st guy dat he stares at u.. simles at u.. etc etc..!!
Bt wen da 2nd guy asked u 4 going out u stopped giving update abt da 1st guy..😲 he is still in ur school na so is he not staring u anymore OR finally u hav stopped looking at him..??😲

Nd u went out with da 2nd guy only 1 time den how u can think dat u wer in relationship with him..😕 did he said dat we r in relationship with each other 4rm now on?😉.. OR did he keep in touch with u.😉 coz after reading ur update its not looking like dat he contacted with u after dat.. Only u wer da 1 who wer trying to contact him..!!!
Nd now u hav da same problem dat da 2nd guy too stares at u nd smiles at u bt dont talk with u..😆 (Dis is also repetitive..😉) Its a common thing dat da person whom we know.. if we see dem anywhere den we give a little smile bt u hav a problem with dat too..

U r too much immature to be in relationship at only 15 years.. 1st be a little mature den start getting into relationship.. specially wen ur parents allow U.. coz they know u more more den anything else..!!!
I'm simply telling watever i observed after reading ur comments in dis thread..!!!😉
Nd u will get da same problem if u will start getting into relationship with another guy..!!!
So simply leave all dis nd concentrate in ur studies or something else if u can..!!

At da end Very Very sorry 4 being soo rude bt i was'nt able to stop myself 4rm saying all dis.. i just said watever i felt by reading all da pages..!!!😉




i agree with all u said... let me tell u first guy is still in the school and he looks at me still but i learned to ingore him now cause i dont have any feelings for him.

second guy... everything is getting confusing bewtten us ... u say he is not staring but he stares ... he looks at me everywhere i go. u say that i should confort him ... i do want to but iam very shy and sarced and i dont know what to say to him. ( tell me what should i tallk to him about ?) but know we stop tallking cause he does not come to school alot and when he does he gives me a smile and thats all. Anyways u right i should be focoused on studies iam trying to. but i do want to tallk to him once but dont know what to say to him ? sumtimes i just want to forget evrything and start again from friends but iam very shy to tell him that.

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Posted: 14 years ago
^Too shy? Seriously? Fine. If you don't wanna talk to him, drop it.
End this. It's driving us insane. And tell me something. Do you not have friends? Why don't you tell them and maybe they can give you advice because they actually know you?
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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: Angel-Jot.

^Too shy? Seriously? Fine. If you don't wanna talk to him, drop it.
End this. It's driving us insane. And tell me something. Do you not have friends? Why don't you tell them and maybe they can give you advice because they actually know you?




yes iam shy and iam not saying i dont wanna tallk to him ... i do wanna tallk to him but i just dont know what to say to him anymore... its just when i try to tallk to him i get all nervous. n iam sarced when i tallk to him what he's repsone whould be ? 😕
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Posted: 14 years ago
Uh-huh. Yeah. But you ignored my question. Do you not have friends in real life or something? =/
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Posted: 14 years ago

Divya, I live in Canada as well. And trust me, my parents are very strict. When they found out I had a boyfriend, it was pure hell for me. But after that, I did nothing but study. I would literally get up 6 in the morning and do math before going to school and then come back home, eat and then do more homework and more school. I did a lot of physics competitions in that time, biology clubs, etc. I didn't even win anything but I really improved my grades and my parents were very proud of me.

What you're going through right now is going to end one day when you will have to make more important choices in life - what is your goal? Your future job? Career? I'm probably not old enough and mature enough myself to be giving advice but I don't want to be rude to you because I don't know you at all.
Get off of facebook, msn, even india-forums if you have to but concentrate on what's important in your life - your future. I hate seeing highschool kids going around talking about death and killing themselves. It's a waste of life. You have potential! Use it for something that will help you in life! A boyfriend will not make you happy. But making goals, fulfilling them and doing something with your life with make you and your parents proud.
Please don't ignore this.

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