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Posted: 16 years ago
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Well sometimes popular people treat others like bulls**t.Well being a quite popular girl myself I know this (I'm not showing off..please don thnk so) Sometimes when I get pissed off with somebody I jus give them those looks n jack them up...

Let me tell you one experience of mine similar to yours.
We used to tease a girl called Aastha that she likes a guy called Kaustubh because there was some rumour created by her best friend,Anjali. All 3 of them lived in the same apartments. I don thnk Aastha liked him but then we used to just do it for fun. She used to get bugged but then just ignored us.
So i thnk u shud do d same. When u start ignoring them they'll get bored but then when they know you care,they'll enjoy it. They're just doin it 4 d sake of fun..ntn else..u shudnt b taking this in a -ve manner.
I hope this works for you
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Try to stay with mates people like them dont ave true friends they just follow the crowd try n keep out of trouble.at the end o the day you rnt gonna know these people in 10 years time!
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: aish_punk

So i thnk u shud do d same. When u start ignoring them they'll get bored but then when they know you care,they'll enjoy it. They're just doin it 4 d sake of fun..ntn else..u shudnt b taking this in a -ve manner.
I hope this works for you



Whatever their reason is, bullying is wrong.


I know it's easier said than done, but it's really up to you. If you think you can stand up to them, go ahead and tell them to mind their own business. Otherwise, be the better person and just walk away. I know it hurts but at the end of the day, what they think and say is not worth a penny😊
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Posted: 16 years ago
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DW its something everyone goes through at one point of thier life. Some people are just sad and dont have a life. Try and ignore them, I no you dont want to tell the teacher but it is the best option. my friend got physically bullied and she told the teacher and they sorted it out without the bullies knowing it was her who told them

try to ignore them or just stand up fpr yourself look at the bright side u wont know them in 10 years time!
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Divya, I am curious to know. Did they stop yet??
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Jaanu, don't be sad!
I hope I can help you out with this problem, because I myself am in Middle School, or Junior High, as some like to call it.
And I totally understand where you are coming from, because I've been in both positions.
I've been the one bullied, and the one who has bullied. And I truly repent for everything that I did do back then to hurt others. It's just that the sudden popularity gets to your head, especially when all the guys and girls follow you.
And I know how it feels to be treated like that by others. And so my advice to you is to talk to them. Speaking face to face can do wonders, and I mean that- seriously!
I did the same thing, and 'till this date, it's never backfired. Talk to them, and tell them to stop medelling in your life. It's YOUR business NOT theirs.
But I strongly encourage you to speak to teachers if the bullying gets out of hand. Remember- Bullying is against the law. If someone is making up rumours about you, there are a lot of things you can do without stooping to their level.
-- Mimi
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Aah..i remember middle school...some weird times😆 Ok back to topic:
Well hun you don't worry at all--that's exactly what these girls want from you. They're mad you're not giving them some hott gossip so they're going on spreading false rumours about you. Sweetie anytime they look at you in a weird way or anyone eyes you in a strange or teasing way, go ahead and laugh right back at them. Dont stay defeated. In the en, if you stay on the straight followed way then you know what? You will win; once you show those girls you dont give a damn if they spread true or false things--because you are better than them
Hope This helped,
XOXO Shriya
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Just tell them you could care a damn what they think (smile when you say this).

Tell them them your proud of yourself and you need to follow a crowd to feel good about yourself.

After that walk away in style.


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Posted: 16 years ago
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If you keep ignoring them, they will eventually stop. Act like u don't really care what they say, then they will feel like the stupid ones. =)
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Posted: 16 years ago
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just be brave and tell themmm off......
i know it might make things worse butt you have standd upp for your selff right noww becaause sorry to break it too you.... buttttttttt HS iss muchh worsee dont be scariedd just be your selff and tell them already have bf or sumthingg....................
hope i helped lol i trieddd...........

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