Middel School Probleme

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Posted: 16 years ago
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Hey Guys
Iam in Middel School i have some problems the prombele is
that like There are some girls (Poupular) so they are popular and everyone belive theme only
and listen to theme epesiaclly boys (cool ) whatever these girls say the boys listen to theme but thats not the promble
the promble is tose popular girls are makig fun like teasing me they say you like a boy
and they tell to me you like a boy they ask me but i dont answer theme if i dont answer they just stared gosping to others people they lie to other people that she likes tis boy even though i dint say that i like him
so what should i do or say to theme
plz dont tell me to say the teacher i do not want to say to the teacher
i want to slove it by myslef
i want to show those girls that iam not sutpid
they think iam stupid
plz help me 😭😭

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Posted: 16 years ago
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My dear, this is typical bullying, I went through the same, the difference was that I was in boarding school so I lived with this day in & day out. If I had to go back & choose to do something, it would be to walk away instead of trying to defend myself. I know it sounds like a coward solution but it isn't. They are only doing this to get a reaction out of you, if you don't give them any reaction & just walk away - they will get bored of trying to incite you into responding...it may take days/weeks for them to stop but just be patient & walk away...someone once said silence is your best weapon & the truth ALWAYS wins out in the end...hope this helps & hang in there....

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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: h&rblock

My dear, this is typical bullying, I went through the same, the difference was that I was in boarding school so I lived with this day in & day out. If I had to go back & choose to do something, it would be to walk away instead of trying to defend myself. I know it sounds like a coward solution but it isn't. They are only doing this to get a reaction out of you, if you don't give them any reaction & just walk away - they will get bored of trying to incite you into responding...it may take days/weeks for them to stop but just be patient & walk away...someone once said silence is your best weapon & the truth ALWAYS wins out in the end...hope this helps & hang in there....

Thanks hun
Thank you very means very much
i will try your advice
Thanks 😊
This is for you
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Posted: 16 years ago
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this is what you should do, tell them to get a life and that they may think that they are cool or popular now but wait till they get into the real world and thing like being popular in high school and junior high won't me anything. just tell them how it is 😊 don't be afraid lol
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: kuch kuch hota

this is what you should do, tell them to get a life and that they may think that they are cool or popular now but wait till they get into the real world and thing like being popular in high school and junior high won't me anything. just tell them how it is 😊 don't be afraid lol

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Posted: 16 years ago
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Sweety, you're not the only one. This is a typical Middle school problem and many girls at this age are world's worst bullies and this is what they should do. I think you should be upfront and stand up for yourself.

Because you don't say anything to them when they ask you, they take an unfair advantage of your silence and you shouldn't' allow them to do that. Tell them bluntly that they should mind their own business and your personal life is none of their matter to worry about. If they still keep doing that, tell them that there's a of other things they can do instead of bullying people around. People at this age do need someone to stand up against them otherwise they'll never learn.

All I can say is be confident and stand up for yourself. Usually bullies like to see people suffer in front of them, so when you'll show them you're not suffering and it doesn't matter to you at all, they'll learn their lesson.

-Mahi

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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: ~Divya

Thanks hun
Thank you very means very much
i will try your advice
Thanks 😊
This is for you
👏
👏
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You are very welcome!! Hope whatever you choose to do works for you...
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Posted: 16 years ago
#8

Originally posted by: ~Divya

Hey Guys

Iam in Middel School i have some problems the prombele is
that like There are some girls (Poupular) so they are popular and everyone belive theme only
and listen to theme epesiaclly boys (cool ) whatever these girls say the boys listen to theme but thats not the promble
the promble is tose popular girls are makig fun like teasing me they say you like a boy
and they tell to me you like a boy they ask me but i dont answer theme if i dont answer they just stared gosping to others people they lie to other people that she likes tis boy even though i dint say that i like him
so what should i do or say to theme
plz dont tell me to say the teacher i do not want to say to the teacher
i want to slove it by myslef
i want to show those girls that iam not sutpid
they think iam stupid
plz help me 😭😭


Be like obviously I can't like a girl! 😛 I'm not a lesbian. And if they pair you up with someone, just be like he is not my type, or is not classy enough for me (I know this sounds rude, but you don't mean it right?) Trust me these girls never shut up, if you ignore them, then they assume you are "weak", and that pleases them, so just brag, and be like "he is not classy, def not my type". Its rude, but its the only thing I can suggest. And if there is a lot of brown guys in your school, and less white guys, then be like "I'm into white guys." That really puts a stop to their pairing! The last option is saying "oh nah, he is not great. Currently I've a major crush on Ranbir Kapoor or maybe Orlando Bloom."
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: h&rblock

My dear, this is typical bullying, I went through the same, the difference was that I was in boarding school so I lived with this day in & day out. If I had to go back & choose to do something, it would be to walk away instead of trying to defend myself. I know it sounds like a coward solution but it isn't. They are only doing this to get a reaction out of you, if you don't give them any reaction & just walk away - they will get bored of trying to incite you into responding...it may take days/weeks for them to stop but just be patient & walk away...someone once said silence is your best weapon & the truth ALWAYS wins out in the end...hope this helps & hang in there....


I agree!

But it depends on these girls. Are they really mean and stuff? Trying to make you look stupid?
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: ~Divya

Hey Guys

Iam in Middel School i have some problems the prombele is
that like There are some girls (Poupular) so they are popular and everyone belive theme only
and listen to theme epesiaclly boys (cool ) whatever these girls say the boys listen to theme but thats not the promble
the promble is tose popular girls are makig fun like teasing me they say you like a boy
and they tell to me you like a boy they ask me but i dont answer theme if i dont answer they just stared gosping to others people they lie to other people that she likes tis boy even though i dint say that i like him
so what should i do or say to theme
plz dont tell me to say the teacher i do not want to say to the teacher
i want to slove it by myslef
i want to show those girls that iam not sutpid
they think iam stupid
plz help me 😭😭

u shouldn't have to prove anything to those girls... u know ur better than them because u don't have to make fun of other people to feel good about yourselves. rumors always get spread in high school and unfortunately theres not much u can do about it... most people don't acutally believe in rumors anyways. just remeber that they can't make u feel bad about yourself unless u let them....if u show them u don't care they'll leave you alone eventually until then just hang on :)

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