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Uneka Lakmini

@Unekalakmini

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Posted: 15 years ago

huging..kising and tuching with brothe in low....is this normal thing in India...?putting hands in Bil's pocket in his jenes....? what is happening in India my dear friends...

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SaNiCo

@pageant101

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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: ulakmini

huging..kising and tuching with brothe in low....is this normal thing in India...?putting hands in Bil's pocket in his jenes....? what is happening in India my dear friends...

Hugging,Kissing,and Touching her brother-in -law..Is a normal thing if you have a clear mind

When did they HUG????

Kissing oh I must have missed that episode. The pat on the cheek as a good friend is still in the news even after the sermon??? And the friendly gesture is now tormented.

You mean that you have a problem with two friends with a pure and friendly relationship to touch each other??

The normal thing is not getting these innocent and friendly gestures. Not just in India but anywhere.

Milli never ever put her hands in his jeans or tried but was going to pull the lanyard out with the keys attached to it perhaps and we will never know it . SHE DIDN'T do it at all but my dear you are by doubting the relationship between a brother and a sister. ??

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jass6

@jass6

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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: ulakmini

huging..kising and tuching with brothe in low....is this normal thing in India...?putting hands in Bil's pocket in his jenes....? what is happening in India my dear friends...

i going to tell you a incident that was happened yesterday at 7.30 eveing around..iam in my relatives house..n not far from my house..you can say we are neighbours...elder sis engaged to a guy about a month ago..n whole day she is in touch with this guy...we all know this n sometimes she used her little sis's phone.......n saved his no. in her sis's phone...while takling yesterday.. her little sis said that she has her jijuus phone no. in her mobile n if she send him a messsage by mistake..boz her jijju n her friend shares the same name......oh god ...her elder sis rudely asked her....from where she get this no.? why is this in her phone? n pata nahi.kya? kya?

i shocked n deeply shattered..she is not like that as before..she is lect.in a university...how can she behave like that....😕😕😕this our indian society guys...in that manner simi is much better person...😊😊

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Uneka Lakmini

@Unekalakmini

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Posted: 15 years ago

I agree my dear...

but do you remmember when Anitha went and hugs nakul... Rs was upset..and also nakul said she do not know how to behave with men...Rs agreed...

So..mille is coming from Sethi family....how sethi girl behave like that...

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nirmala

@sayhi2nimi

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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: ulakmini
I agree my dear...
but do you remmember when Anitha went and hugs nakul... Rs was upset..and also nakul said she do not know how to behave with men...Rs agreed...

So..mille is coming from Sethi family....how sethi girl behave like that...

the answer is so simple bcoz none of sethi family was present at this moments ,or else we would seen this coming episode on tuesday(or as precap) what is going to happen long along itself . 😉

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Neil-fan

@Neil-fan

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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: ulakmini

huging..kising and tuching with brothe in low....is this normal thing in India...?putting hands in Bil's pocket in his jenes....? what is happening in India my dear friends...

Ulakmini can you please stop making generalized remarks like "normal things in India" etc. I would really appreciate it. All the things that happen on indian TV are not representative of Indian culture or values

If you have an issue with any one of the scenes please discuss and talk and give us your views about it but do not make remarks as such. I am sure you would not want us to judge Srilankan culture or values on the basis of one show or one person.

thanks😃

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Priya

@nycsweetie

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Posted: 15 years ago

she didnt do it with any sexual intention...she was just being friendly and cheerful. I think they are good friends and people are looking at them wrongly. Abhi and mili both love simi and would never overstep their boundaries as friends and brother & sister in law

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nirmala

@sayhi2nimi

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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: kalabhi

Ulakmini can you please stop making generalized remarks like "normal things in India" etc. I would really appreciate it. All the things that happen on indian TV are not representative of Indian culture or values
If you have an issue with any one of the scenes please discuss and talk and give us your views about it but do not make remarks as such. I am sure you would not want us to judge Srilankan culture or values on the basis of one show or one person.

thanks😃

s kalabhi what u said is correct 👏its not depicting our country or any country's values it s about relationship and its boundries . bcoz relationships doesnot change according to countries ,it remains the same in this whole universe.😊its about an individuals desire to draw a line or not.BTW where did u see her hugging him ,kissing it was just a gesture of expressing her happiness,and what u meant by touching i really dont know,bcoz i cant see any thing there like that .but if u r going to mind all these forget to step out of ur house.

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SaNiCo

@pageant101

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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: ulakmini
I agree my dear...
but do you remmember when Anitha went and hugs nakul... Rs was upset..and also nakul said she do not know how to behave with men...Rs agreed...

So..mille is coming from Sethi family....how sethi girl behave like that...

First of all R.S was never upset but taken back with Nakul's comment that Anita did not know how to behave. This was just the day after his son's wedding. Anita came to just simply hug him and made a comment after meeting her child hood buddy after some 15 years. R.S reaction was just that. He never agreed to anything or was upset at Anita. He simply smiled at Nakul's comment. Anita did tell Nakul he looked more handsome now??? BTW Anita is not a Sethi daughter but bahu.
Are you truly giving the example of this Sanskari,Well-Bred,Cultured,sophisticated rich NAKUL here and giving importance to what he said ????? Isn't he the one giving the medicines to his own younger brother?//He made Neetu's life a living 🤬,,Slapped Neetu kicked her out of the house,,,and attacked Milli. Do you really want to go in that lane>??? Are you saying that hugging your cousin is wrong and Our cultured and traditional Nakul was right to put Anita at her place in front of her F-I-L just to make a good impression???

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Ganga

@Avatarana09

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Posted: 15 years ago

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Why is it such a hue and cry about hugging,touching,etc. We have come a long way into this century. All youngsters are smart enough and know best what they want in life. So there would be no overstepping of boundaries here.

A hold of hand, a peck on the cheek, a comforting hug...if all this is going to be treated with suspicion, the mindset needs to be changed thats it. Well after divorce was not issued, Simi also hugged Omi and in front of RS. No one objected to that. Then if its the issue that Simi is older to Omi and an elder sister, it applies same for Mili and Abhi also. If its the age issue of Simi and Omi, then Simi has married a younger guy Abhi. So its not that. Its just the question of how you would take it.

In real traditional households, daughters dont hug fathers,sisters dont hug brothers after a certain age. Gone are the days when brothers in law never get to see their bhabhi's face that would be covered in ghoonghat or any similar.

Its the way one thinks. What if Omi was sleeping and Simi had gone to pick something without disturbing him. Omi could have come from behind and called out to Simi, she could have tripped over and Omi could have supported her from falling. What if Neetu would see that. She will suspect what? Will she say since Simi always had a liking for younger men, there is a chance. What would be people's opinion in that scenario????And what would we say if Abhi believes it??

Would we like that.

So why crucify Abhi and Mili.

The chase between Abhi and Mili according to me was just a scene happening in households between a brother and sister. Abhi misses the times with anita. In fact he was just the same like this with Anita. Watch those initial episodes. For Mili, she is enjoying that love which she never got from Anuj, or a support that was due from Anuj.

If people watching want to delberately find fault, cant do much. There has been several occasions Abhi or Mili have "TOUCHED"each other. Go back to the scene where Anhi gets back those Bhalla's affidavits from mili when the Mehendi fuction went on. He puts his hand on her shoulder and thanks her to divert RS's attention. No body complained then. She held his hand and brought him when he went missing at the Anita Anuj wedding. No one complained then. People get familiar with each other over a period of time. So naturally the comfort and closeness also grows.

Mili is still wanting to go abroad and shared her happiness with Abhi by giving him a peck on his cheek.

Abhi is participating in Mili's wedding preparations. So people in that Sethi family dont have eyes if they will suspect them.

Since when touch, peck on cheek,hug and hold been under scrutiny like this.

I have also picked cell phone from my colleagues pocket when he had forgotten to remove it before entering the theatre and he was already in his apron and gloves for examining the patient. Its not that difficult to take it unless you have other intentions in your mind.

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