Originally posted by: mesimi
Why is it such a hue and cry about hugging,touching,etc. We have come a long way into this century. All youngsters are smart enough and know best what they want in life. So there would be no overstepping of boundaries here.
A hold of hand, a peck on the cheek, a comforting hug...if all this is going to be treated with suspicion, the mindset needs to be changed thats it. Well after divorce was not issued, Simi also hugged Omi and in front of RS. No one objected to that. Then if its the issue that Simi is older to Omi and an elder sister, it applies same for Mili and Abhi also. If its the age issue of Simi and Omi, then Simi has married a younger guy Abhi. So its not that. Its just the question of how you would take it.
In real traditional households, daughters dont hug fathers,sisters dont hug brothers after a certain age. Gone are the days when brothers in law never get to see their bhabhi's face that would be covered in ghoonghat or any similar.
Its the way one thinks. What if Omi was sleeping and Simi had gone to pick something without disturbing him. Omi could have come from behind and called out to Simi, she could have tripped over and Omi could have supported her from falling. What if Neetu would see that. She will suspect what? Will she say since Simi always had a liking for younger men, there is a chance. What would be people's opinion in that scenario????And what would we say if Abhi believes it??
Would we like that.
So why crucify Abhi and Mili.
The chase between Abhi and Mili according to me was just a scene happening in households between a brother and sister. Abhi misses the times with anita. In fact he was just the same like this with Anita. Watch those initial episodes. For Mili, she is enjoying that love which she never got from Anuj, or a support that was due from Anuj.
If people watching want to delberately find fault, cant do much. There has been several occasions Abhi or Mili have "TOUCHED"each other. Go back to the scene where Anhi gets back those Bhalla's affidavits from mili when the Mehendi fuction went on. He puts his hand on her shoulder and thanks her to divert RS's attention. No body complained then. She held his hand and brought him when he went missing at the Anita Anuj wedding. No one complained then. People get familiar with each other over a period of time. So naturally the comfort and closeness also grows.
Mili is still wanting to go abroad and shared her happiness with Abhi by giving him a peck on his cheek.
Abhi is participating in Mili's wedding preparations. So people in that Sethi family dont have eyes if they will suspect them.
Since when touch, peck on cheek,hug and hold been under scrutiny like this.
I have also picked cell phone from my colleagues pocket when he had forgotten to remove it before entering the theatre and he was already in his apron and gloves for examining the patient. Its not that difficult to take it unless you have other intentions in your mind.
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