Abhi's situation - Page 2

Originally posted by: SimBhi2

For me to pick just one of those options is not possible...It would seem like each and every one of those options are responsible for his downfall......I know some of you are going to get really mad at me for even thinking of blaming Abhi in all this but here is how I feel......

Abhi Himself..........Abhi has always put up with Simi and her nakhras and he never said anything...He always put up with all her tantrums with a smile on his face...He needed to put his foot down a long time ago. Giving Simi too much freedom in this relationship has granted her a free pass to do anything and everything to him.

Simi Alone.............Simi is largely responsible for Abhi and his predictiment. Why in the world would a 30 year old girl who has been rejected by potential grooms not appreciate and adore her 22 year old husband who loves her unconditionally? You would think she would be thanking her lucky stars for him...Heck I would😳...And on top of that treat him like he is a child or one of your students😲Not good!

Guruji's words.........Yes Guruji said that he is in her kismat to fight all injustice for her....But.....if Guruji knew Abhi so well and knew everything about him then the Guruji should have chosen his words carefully and also told Abhi that even though he is in her kismat Abhi needs to take a stand and make sure he is counted in the realtionship. Guruji basically left him with some unfinished advise!!!!!!

Unsupportive family...It is true everyone needs someone to support them even when everything seems to be fine....For our dear Abhi it would seem his father the Igor and sister Cruella De Ville are nothing short of thorns on his side.....Anita of all people living in the same sasural as her brother should empathise with Abhi's situation and be his support and help him and be there for him when needed.... Abhi on the other hand left everything wherever and came to her rescue when she needed him the most....Now it would seem she derives pleasure on insulting him and watching his life in trumoil.....Not to mention she loves to add fuel to fire for him....The father is the winner of the worst parent award......No matter what your child does nothing in this world should prevent you from loving your child and doing everything in your power to help them....And all Abhi did was fall in love...Poor Abhi😭

His Anger........Now this is where I am going to be loosing a friend or two....please forgive me for stating what I feel is true.....

Simi kept telling Abhi his anger is what prevented her from telling him about the Bhalla proposal. Now no one can blame Abhi for his anger but I think he should have gone upstairs to the barsaati and thought about all that he has learned and found a solution for the Bhalla problem and taken smarter steps to solve it... Bhalla used Abhi's anger to his advantage and kept on pushing him till his anger got the better of him......Abhi had the perfect opportunity to show Simi he is completely capable of handling any kind of situation with a cool head! All he ended up doing is proving his Mahanta wifey she was right...Why give her that much power over you? She is already floating on air thinking she is better than everyone........it is high time to prove her wrong😡

mesimi,you forget to mention one more option:the CV's. Just kidding yaar.

Simi is more responsible for Abhi's situation but Abhi is also responsible.Though I missed earlier episodes but never saw him this way,an angry young man.

Originally posted by: SimBhi2

For me to pick just one of those options is not possible...It would seem like each and every one of those options are responsible for his downfall......I know some of you are going to get really mad at me for even thinking of blaming Abhi in all this but here is how I feel......

Abhi Himself..........Abhi has always put up with Simi and her nakhras and he never said anything...He always put up with all her tantrums with a smile on his face...He needed to put his foot down a long time ago. Giving Simi too much freedom in this relationship has granted her a free pass to do anything and everything to him.

Simi Alone.............Simi is largely responsible for Abhi and his predictiment. Why in the world would a 30 year old girl who has been rejected by potential grooms not appreciate and adore her 22 year old husband who loves her unconditionally? You would think she would be thanking her lucky stars for him...Heck I would😳...And on top of that treat him like he is a child or one of your students😲Not good!

Guruji's words.........Yes Guruji said that he is in her kismat to fight all injustice for her....But.....if Guruji knew Abhi so well and knew everything about him then the Guruji should have chosen his words carefully and also told Abhi that even though he is in her kismat Abhi needs to take a stand and make sure he is counted in the realtionship. Guruji basically left him with some unfinished advise!!!!!!

Unsupportive family...It is true everyone needs someone to support them even when everything seems to be fine....For our dear Abhi it would seem his father the Igor and sister Cruella De Ville are nothing short of thorns on his side.....Anita of all people living in the same sasural as her brother should empathise with Abhi's situation and be his support and help him and be there for him when needed.... Abhi on the other hand left everything wherever and came to her rescue when she needed him the most....Now it would seem she derives pleasure on insulting him and watching his life in trumoil.....Not to mention she loves to add fuel to fire for him....The father is the winner of the worst parent award......No matter what your child does nothing in this world should prevent you from loving your child and doing everything in your power to help them....And all Abhi did was fall in love...Poor Abhi😭

His Anger........Now this is where I am going to be loosing a friend or two....please forgive me for stating what I feel is true.....

Simi kept telling Abhi his anger is what prevented her from telling him about the Bhalla proposal. Now no one can blame Abhi for his anger but I think he should have gone upstairs to the barsaati and thought about all that he has learned and found a solution for the Bhalla problem and taken smarter steps to solve it... Bhalla used Abhi's anger to his advantage and kept on pushing him till his anger got the better of him......Abhi had the perfect opportunity to show Simi he is completely capable of handling any kind of situation with a cool head! All he ended up doing is proving his Mahanta wifey she was right...Why give her that much power over you? She is already floating on air thinking she is better than everyone........it is high time to prove her wrong😡