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Who is responsible for Abhi's situation

Ganga

@Avatarana09

Dazzler

Posted: 15 years ago

Oh How Sad,

The poor guy stands all alone now.

His parents dont support him for anything, nor do they show any love and attention.

He once doted on his sister. She considers him as her arch rival right now.

His valued Sister Maria's gift ..THE BELL is lost.

His prized possession that was his jeep ,he has sold to buy the expensive ring. The ring is lost now too.

He has borne the wrath of the likes of Rajeev Bhalla who can harm him any time.

His love of his life has disowns him stating family problems and responsibilities.

She has demoralised him saying very many things she ought not to have said.

He had once left her a note BUT WITH OPTIMISM saying he has learned very many things he would not have learnt otherwise.

The note that he left for her carried so much meaning. He had felt he has grown up beyond his age but is belittled in his own eyes.

His "beloved " wife decides he will behave immaturely , so decides to keep secrets for whatever reasoning she gave.

Now after actually moving around in rage about hunting Bhalla down for the propositioning to his wife, he has been to jail also now.

Thats really sad. Any normal person would have gone insane by now.

LIFE'S EXPERIENCES MAKES A PERSON MATURE AND NOT THE NUMBER OF YEARS HE HAS LIVED AS A RECLUSE.

So will we get to see a MORE MATURE ABHI from now on.

Edited by mesimi - 15 years ago

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Ganga

@Avatarana09

Dazzler

Posted: 15 years ago

You all may feel its everything, but the most likely may be voted for

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Krisha123

@Krisha123

Voyager

Posted: 15 years ago

Simi is the only one responsible for Abhi's situation, she has been hurting him since long time but abhi loving her used to let go everytime..but this time by hiding bhalla's note she really made Abhi feel like a useless person who couldnt take care of her...and because of that he landed up in jail.....poor guy did so much for her its really sad. Any normal person can go insane..And so true Mesimi as you said LIFE'S EXPERIENCES MAKES A PERSON MATURE AND NOT THE NUMBER OF YEARS HE HAS LIVED AS A RECLUSE.In my opinion, We will definetly see a MORE MATURE ABHI from now on.

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ssree

@ssree

Voyager

Posted: 15 years ago

Actually I voted its due to simi,

As of now it due to simi but also abhi is partly responsible, as he always listened to her and agrred to her , but as of now he did better put a full stop to it .

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SaNiCo

@pageant101

Voyager

Posted: 15 years ago

Mesimi you said it all and even though Simi is the main culprit in all this and to be blamed for his present state of mind but for us to see the more mature Abhi our Casanova got to control his temper and act like a mature rational adult and then only will he be able to find the solutions. His behavior right now is not very mature like to be running around breaking the doors in his neighborhood , hurting the servants with his fury , yelling in the streets of karol-bagh after the troll like a mad insane husband and above all his desire to protect Simi even after all her flaws.

His holding the knife in his hands pointing at Bhalla during the day time in the crowded streets of karol-bagh does not give him my vote as a mature educated, idol of the karol-bagh. He got to calm down and then find the solutions. His anger is very valid but not shown appropriately and maturely and above all doesn't fit with his characteristics. 😒

Abhi currently is in a uncertain or perplexed state of mind with a charge of attempt to murder and head on his shoulder is the only way to get him out of this state he presently is.😍

So I voted for his anger being the number one reason right now for his downfall.We do have to face the extremities of life but losing our temper this way does not justify the means and the mature way to deal with them.

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Dhabu89

@Dhabu89

Rocker

Posted: 15 years ago

For me to pick just one of those options is not possible...It would seem like each and every one of those options are responsible for his downfall......I know some of you are going to get really mad at me for even thinking of blaming Abhi in all this but here is how I feel......

Abhi Himself..........Abhi has always put up with Simi and her nakhras and he never said anything...He always put up with all her tantrums with a smile on his face...He needed to put his foot down a long time ago. Giving Simi too much freedom in this relationship has granted her a free pass to do anything and everything to him.

Simi Alone.............Simi is largely responsible for Abhi and his predictiment. Why in the world would a 30 year old girl who has been rejected by potential grooms not appreciate and adore her 22 year old husband who loves her unconditionally? You would think she would be thanking her lucky stars for him...Heck I would😳...And on top of that treat him like he is a child or one of your students😲Not good!

Guruji's words.........Yes Guruji said that he is in her kismat to fight all injustice for her....But.....if Guruji knew Abhi so well and knew everything about him then the Guruji should have chosen his words carefully and also told Abhi that even though he is in her kismat Abhi needs to take a stand and make sure he is counted in the realtionship. Guruji basically left him with some unfinished advise!!!!!!

Unsupportive family...It is true everyone needs someone to support them even when everything seems to be fine....For our dear Abhi it would seem his father the Igor and sister Cruella De Ville are nothing short of thorns on his side.....Anita of all people living in the same sasural as her brother should empathise with Abhi's situation and be his support and help him and be there for him when needed.... Abhi on the other hand left everything wherever and came to her rescue when she needed him the most....Now it would seem she derives pleasure on insulting him and watching his life in trumoil.....Not to mention she loves to add fuel to fire for him....The father is the winner of the worst parent award......No matter what your child does nothing in this world should prevent you from loving your child and doing everything in your power to help them....And all Abhi did was fall in love...Poor Abhi😭

His Anger........Now this is where I am going to be loosing a friend or two....please forgive me for stating what I feel is true.....

Simi kept telling Abhi his anger is what prevented her from telling him about the Bhalla proposal. Now no one can blame Abhi for his anger but I think he should have gone upstairs to the barsaati and thought about all that he has learned and found a solution for the Bhalla problem and taken smarter steps to solve it... Bhalla used Abhi's anger to his advantage and kept on pushing him till his anger got the better of him......Abhi had the perfect opportunity to show Simi he is completely capable of handling any kind of situation with a cool head! All he ended up doing is proving his Mahanta wifey she was right...Why give her that much power over you? She is already floating on air thinking she is better than everyone........it is high time to prove her wrong😡

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ramas

@ramas

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Posted: 15 years ago

Everi person is responsible for his own action, Ok simi made a mistake for hiding the truth But still abhi would have handled it calmly proving simi totally wrong . like he did in other situations.

He would have gain every one;s respect one more time and stayed out of trouble.

We all make mistakes in life and may try to blame those on others saying it is because of you I did it.

Prime example would be anuj anita

Anuj blaming anita for everything. but anita only told him to do those things. Why did he go against his family and do such things that landed him in prison.

If he had calmly handled RB and may be punished Simi by not talking to her.Abhi even stopped from hitting him . But RB isntigated him and that is exactly waht simi was afraid of. She knew how cunning RB is and will get Abhi in trouble. Even though Abhi is innocent.

No matter whose fault it is let us say in this case Simi's fault. But now abhi is responsible for his action/mistake of trying to take a law in his hand and got caught with knife in his hand.

I also voted Abhi's anger/

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SaNiCo

@pageant101

Voyager

Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: SimBhi2
For me to pick just one of those options is not possible...It would seem like each and every one of those options are responsible for his downfall......I know some of you are going to get really mad at me for even thinking of blaming Abhi in all this but here is how I feel......

Abhi Himself..........Abhi has always put up with Simi and her nakhras and he never said anything...He always put up with all her tantrums with a smile on his face...He needed to put his foot down a long time ago. Giving Simi too much freedom in this relationship has granted her a free pass to do anything and everything to him.

Simi Alone.............Simi is largely responsible for Abhi and his predictiment. Why in the world would a 30 year old girl who has been rejected by potential grooms not appreciate and adore her 22 year old husband who loves her unconditionally? You would think she would be thanking her lucky stars for him...Heck I would😳...And on top of that treat him like he is a child or one of your students😲Not good!

Guruji's words.........Yes Guruji said that he is in her kismat to fight all injustice for her....But.....if Guruji knew Abhi so well and knew everything about him then the Guruji should have chosen his words carefully and also told Abhi that even though he is in her kismat Abhi needs to take a stand and make sure he is counted in the realtionship. Guruji basically left him with some unfinished advise!!!!!!

Unsupportive family...It is true everyone needs someone to support them even when everything seems to be fine....For our dear Abhi it would seem his father the Igor and sister Cruella De Ville are nothing short of thorns on his side.....Anita of all people living in the same sasural as her brother should empathise with Abhi's situation and be his support and help him and be there for him when needed.... Abhi on the other hand left everything wherever and came to her rescue when she needed him the most....Now it would seem she derives pleasure on insulting him and watching his life in trumoil.....Not to mention she loves to add fuel to fire for him....The father is the winner of the worst parent award......No matter what your child does nothing in this world should prevent you from loving your child and doing everything in your power to help them....And all Abhi did was fall in love...Poor Abhi😭

His Anger........Now this is where I am going to be loosing a friend or two....please forgive me for stating what I feel is true.....

Simi kept telling Abhi his anger is what prevented her from telling him about the Bhalla proposal. Now no one can blame Abhi for his anger but I think he should have gone upstairs to the barsaati and thought about all that he has learned and found a solution for the Bhalla problem and taken smarter steps to solve it... Bhalla used Abhi's anger to his advantage and kept on pushing him till his anger got the better of him......Abhi had the perfect opportunity to show Simi he is completely capable of handling any kind of situation with a cool head! All he ended up doing is proving his Mahanta wifey she was right...Why give her that much power over you? She is already floating on air thinking she is better than everyone........it is high time to prove her wrong😡

Simi is largely responsible for Abhi and his predictiment.

Simi is a big culprit in his current situation. 😡😕

Guruji basically left him with some unfinished advise!!!!!!

Guru ji satwachan started this fiasco in its early stages and nobody can deny it.😲

..Now it would seem she derives pleasure on insulting him and watching his life in trumoil

Anita and the worst father nominations are in and they both are very deserving candidates..😡

I think he should have gone upstairs to the barsaati and thought about all that he has learned and found a solution for the Bhalla problem and taken smarter steps to solve it... Bhalla used Abhi's anger to his advantage and kept on pushing him till his anger got the better of him..

This is where i agree with you for his actions. Abhi is reacting to all his anger and shown it in the worst way. EVERY REACTION IS FOLLOWED BY THE ACTION and vise-verse but just what you said it's his reaction he should have shown his cool . And that is what he is showing in his silent treatment and that speaks volumes for his reaction towards HIS HIGHNESS!! The old Abhi would have shown his wits and not his fist to Bhalla and won too.

.Abhi had the perfect opportunity to show Simi he is completely capable of handling any kind of situation with a cool head!

Arre dost maina bhi to aaisa hi kaha hai. THis is what my point was for him to deal with it with a cool head!!⭐️

..it is high time to prove her wrong

And to do that he just can't get in to confrontation with Bhalla or the Nakul or even Anita and should handle them with ABHI's way like he has handled them in the past and not to put any more charges on top of the ATTEMPT TO MURDER!! and ruin his career along with his reputation with it. His reactions with his current state are totally justified but his actions on the other hand are NOT!! 😲

...Now this is where I am going to be loosing a friend or two.

Now dear Simbhi if you lose a FRIEND on JUST one argument then they weren't friends dear and you are better off losing them. And I must say aren't debater either.🤗

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ssree

@ssree

Voyager

Posted: 15 years ago

#10

Originally posted by: SimBhi2
For me to pick just one of those options is not possible...It would seem like each and every one of those options are responsible for his downfall......I know some of you are going to get really mad at me for even thinking of blaming Abhi in all this but here is how I feel......

Abhi Himself..........Abhi has always put up with Simi and her nakhras and he never said anything...He always put up with all her tantrums with a smile on his face...He needed to put his foot down a long time ago. Giving Simi too much freedom in this relationship has granted her a free pass to do anything and everything to him.

Simi Alone.............Simi is largely responsible for Abhi and his predictiment. Why in the world would a 30 year old girl who has been rejected by potential grooms not appreciate and adore her 22 year old husband who loves her unconditionally? You would think she would be thanking her lucky stars for him...Heck I would😳...And on top of that treat him like he is a child or one of your students😲Not good!

Guruji's words.........Yes Guruji said that he is in her kismat to fight all injustice for her....But.....if Guruji knew Abhi so well and knew everything about him then the Guruji should have chosen his words carefully and also told Abhi that even though he is in her kismat Abhi needs to take a stand and make sure he is counted in the realtionship. Guruji basically left him with some unfinished advise!!!!!!

Unsupportive family...It is true everyone needs someone to support them even when everything seems to be fine....For our dear Abhi it would seem his father the Igor and sister Cruella De Ville are nothing short of thorns on his side.....Anita of all people living in the same sasural as her brother should empathise with Abhi's situation and be his support and help him and be there for him when needed.... Abhi on the other hand left everything wherever and came to her rescue when she needed him the most....Now it would seem she derives pleasure on insulting him and watching his life in trumoil.....Not to mention she loves to add fuel to fire for him....The father is the winner of the worst parent award......No matter what your child does nothing in this world should prevent you from loving your child and doing everything in your power to help them....And all Abhi did was fall in love...Poor Abhi😭

His Anger........Now this is where I am going to be loosing a friend or two....please forgive me for stating what I feel is true.....

Simi kept telling Abhi his anger is what prevented her from telling him about the Bhalla proposal. Now no one can blame Abhi for his anger but I think he should have gone upstairs to the barsaati and thought about all that he has learned and found a solution for the Bhalla problem and taken smarter steps to solve it... Bhalla used Abhi's anger to his advantage and kept on pushing him till his anger got the better of him......Abhi had the perfect opportunity to show Simi he is completely capable of handling any kind of situation with a cool head! All he ended up doing is proving his Mahanta wifey she was right...Why give her that much power over you? She is already floating on air thinking she is better than everyone........it is high time to prove her wrong😡

Very true simbhi

I am with you and what u said is perfectly true

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