Originally posted by: Laila2009
While both stories are good, why is Simi suddenly afraid of losing Abhi? Is it because she is married to him or because she gave her virginity to him? See, for three months Simi was at risk of losing Abhi when Nakul came into the picture, she was willing to lose him and marry Nakul to help her sister Neetu. Did she love him less then?See, Simi has always taken Abhi for granted and it would be important to see in the storyline the realization of Simi's fear, something she never expected or grasped, that Abhi could leave her and not want her. I would welcome dialogue expressing her realization of the this knowledge and perhaps a deeper awakening of this fear.Perhaps afterwards I would like to see some appreciation from her for what Abhi did and how she had in the past taken him for granted and his love. Until then, I don't think we're going to have a likeable Simi.
The question about why????? is a riddle for me because I never watched the serial from the get go and really missed out on the famous SIMBHI scenes. Now from where I started to watch the show this ZIP...ZAP ...ZOOMER ...has always been taken for granted and since their marriage shown a betcha at every step except the two times once in the hospital scene and the other very recently on the streets of 12/24 karol-bagh being evicted scene. He showed his power to take control and handle the situation as a mature adult should and would. Did she love him less then???
I don't think her love has changed over the time but on the same token she hasn't changed her attitude to show that love to him or the viewers either. He is no longer the betcha and the boy-friend he once was.😍This betcha has grown to be a man and she can't question his manhood anymore.
I agree with you all the way HIS HIGHNESS has to get off her high horse and come to realize the fact he is her husband and by that I don't mean to worship him and to do the aarti puja or to put him on the pedestal for being the god . no no.no Treat him as her EQUAL would be a start for this .....
I simply mean given he is younger to her , she needs to start asking his opinions and feelings and above all start treating him like her equal and keeping this into consideration.... to start to consult him at least in the major decisions in their life.He is already been lectured to do just that so why not both of them doing just that.......mutually making the go with their lives.
And for god sake she should stop lying to him so comfortably. It should all happen because he is her husband and SHE LOVES HIM WHOLE HEARTEDLY AND THEIR SHOULD BE NO IFS AND BUTS ABOUT IT. IN MY OPINION LOSING HER VIRGINITY SHOULD HAVE NOTHING TO DO WITH IT .......THIS SHOULD HAVE HAPPENED BEFORE THAT ....the way I heard about their love it was a soul-mate love saga and not just the physical attraction . If their love is just that then that defeats the whole purpose of the creative's showing the age difference and the spiritual love in the age difference.🥳THIS LOVE AFFAIR HAPPENED BEFORE THE MARRIAGE HAPPENED AND THAT WAS THEIR BASIS OF MARRIAGE (HALF SIDED ANYWAY)
AND THE CONSUMMATING THE MARRIAGE HAPPENED WAY LATER MUCH MUCH LATER.
