IS Abhi's anger valid? - Page 2

Originally posted by: mesimi

100% VALID

He has been quiet all this while and never questioned her for all the stupidity she made him go through. Always being the first one to compromise, Abhi has had enough of patience with her. And I dont have to pen down what all she did to him.

Regarding insulting in front of family, Simi did it once and made him to look like a fool when he came home to ask her hand.

Yesterdays episode, Simmi insulted him in front of her mom, mili,anuj and anita...almost demanding ..dont behave like a kid. this is serious issue. this goes to show she feels abhi cant differentiate between whats good or bad. she fears about his anger...thats valid, but that does not permit her to insult him in front of her family.

Abhi's anger and irritation is 500% valid. in fact he controlled his ager and his language and so he quickly left the scene. his anger he took out on her only when they were alone.

for all that simi has done to abhi, she had to say sorry to him. if she din say when it was genuinelr required of her, there is no reason to expect abhi to say sorry.

abhi has really been an understanding husband, pulling her out of all the mess she digs herself into even when people are not expecting it from her. yesterday when he comes and hugs her, she reacted in a way that was not expected of a wife. he has given her enough freedom to choose to stay at her maayka to sort issues when no one wanted it. he has not forced her in consummating their marriage which any normal man would expect from his wife. She gets irritated at him when he hugs her was because she is lost in thoughts about RBs proposal. Well if she had confided in her husband, he may have understood her better about what she is going through. she wont do anything that is normally expected of a wife, why will Abhi say sorry??????????

They have to sort differences, thats true. But Simi has to overcoming her shortcomings.

She cant be stubborn like........

Mai yehi karoongi.....,

maine tay kar liya toh kurbaani doongi...

mujhe hi kuch karna padega...

tum nahi samjhoge......

bacchon jaise behave mat karo......

tumhare saath yehi problem hai.....

She cant always decide......

Yehi sahi hai..... when actually all her decisions are utter stupidity

Hum aisa karte hai.........

She should learn to ask Abhi....

I feel this way,what do you say?

I thought this could be an option. You think so?

Can i give you a suggestion?

I may be wrong. But this is my opinion

If she disagrees on an idea, she should say....Correct me if its not the best idea, but i feel.....

Do you have a better idea?

Can we do this?

Shall we talk about this or sort this out first?

I need to discuss something. Will you have some time.

She should learn to tell him...

I have not had the time to say...but...i love you

You complete me.

I cant think clear when you are not around.

i am feeling low, can i have a hug.

i feel better when i talk to you.

i wish i can keep looking into your eyes.

i am happy to have you in my life.

i am happy you are my husband

i miss your smile when i am alone.

When you ask, when you tell,the partner feels wanted that his opinion is valued and his presence counts. And the way you put it across is important.

A woman need not be a slave or a subordinate to her man in life. But there are certain things in life that a woman should allow her man to lead. Whatever said or done, a man has certain level of ego. a woman should not flare it up.

And the character Abhi has really been a sweetheart, caring, understanding, sweet with his words, vibrant with his positivity , an eyes that could melt even the most insensitive heartand of course with the million dollar smile. He had genuinely wanted to see her happy. If in spite of it, Abhi does not even get a focussed smile from her, Simi does not deserve such an endearing person.

1000% agree with you.very very well written post.👏

Originally posted by: ramas

I hope he says sorry to simi. I hope they apologize to each other kiss and make up. they need to work united and I hope simi tells him whole trhuth and say sorry to hurt him so much by hurting is ego

Originally posted by: Bana

Apologise to each other... maybe. But kiss? On no not these two - one thinks kissing or showing any affection physically is very childish when there are such problems in the house 😕, and the other thinks it is necessary to festoon the whole room with lanterns and candles before any kissing 😉 can be initiated. Aise mein kahan yaar 😆😆?

Originally posted by: steffroc

No one like that. But still simi was right at this time as abhi should not hsve reacted that way with RB,

He should anser same way RB is doing it not with force but with his brain.

Abhi is smart he can handle RB without getting violent.

What simi did was wrong. But what abhi did was worst acting this way in front of her family and making them more worried,

Abhi needs to understand they need him wholeharedly and not compaining.

What simi did abhi did saying he is helping her. Abhi made promise to herlp her protect her and take care of her,

we all should understand simi at this time she is living with a guilt of hiding things from abhi. fear of RB and what he can do fear of loosing her home and if they do what will happen to her parent.. She is under lot of stress and she can only find comfort from abhi at this time.

Originally posted by: ramas

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Originally posted by: daboo89

En dono ke bhaaje mein aaisi hi baate chaalti rahegi toh phir hum sab ko bhool na padega honeymoon ke saapne......En dono ko sanyasi hi banadena chaaiye!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Originally posted by: daboo89

Oh Dolly you are tooooo much....In a good way.....

The Cv's have only two roads.....

But the CV's have a golden opportunity to redeem the character of Simi and I hope they don't let this chance slip thru their greasy fingers!