IS Abhi's anger valid?

I know we all enjoyed Abhi getting so angry and he told simi he did everything to make her happy and she took his goodness as a childish act,

U know personally if my husband or even my boyfriend would shout at me

Originally posted by: steffroc

U know personally if my husband or even my boyfriend would shout at me

i wont like it.

btu somehow what Abhi did is somehow right. Simi from the day one is reffering him as Bacha, which from his expressions is transparent he detested it but still she continued. There is a limit to tolerate things.

No one like that. But still simi was right at this time as abhi should not hsve reacted that way with RB,

Originally posted by: ramas

No one like that. But still simi was right at this time as abhi should not hsve reacted that way with RB, whatever u said is right but if she wants abhi to help her then she needs to open her mouth

I don't know Raksha.....Abhi had enough of her always putting him down... As a human being there is only so much BS a person can deal with.....Abhi has been so patient with her and always supports her and understands her and all she has done is put him down and keep calling him a baccha.....

100% VALID

Originally posted by: mesimi

100% VALID

He has been quiet all this while and never questioned her for all the stupidity she made him go through. Always being the first one to compromise, Abhi has had enough of patience with her. And I dont have to pen down what all she did to him.

Regarding insulting in front of family, Simi did it once and made him to look like a fool when he came home to ask her hand.

Yesterdays episode, Simmi insulted him in front of her mom, mili,anuj and anita...almost demanding ..dont behave like a kid. this is serious issue. this goes to show she feels abhi cant differentiate between whats good or bad. she fears about his anger...thats valid, but that does not permit her to insult him in front of her family.

Abhi's anger and irritation is 500% valid. in fact he controlled his ager and his language and so he quickly left the scene. his anger he took out on her only when they were alone.

for all that simi has done to abhi, she had to say sorry to him. if she din say when it was genuinelr required of her, there is no reason to expect abhi to say sorry.

abhi has really been an understanding husband, pulling her out of all the mess she digs herself into even when people are not expecting it from her. yesterday when he comes and hugs her, she reacted in a way that was not expected of a wife. he has given her enough freedom to choose to stay at her maayka to sort issues when no one wanted it. he has not forced her in consummating their marriage which any normal man would expect from his wife. She gets irritated at him when he hugs her was because she is lost in thoughts about RBs proposal. Well if she had confided in her husband, he may have understood her better about what she is going through. she wont do anything that is normally expected of a wife, why will Abhi say sorry??????????

They have to sort differences, thats true. But Simi has to overcoming her shortcomings.

She cant be stubborn like........

Mai yehi karoongi.....,

maine tay kar liya toh kurbaani doongi...

mujhe hi kuch karna padega...

tum nahi samjhoge......

bacchon jaise behave mat karo......

tumhare saath yehi problem hai.....

She cant always decide......

Yehi sahi hai..... when actually all her decisions are utter stupidity

Hum aisa karte hai.........

She should learn to ask Abhi....

I feel this way,what do you say?

I thought this could be an option. You think so?

Can i give you a suggestion?

I may be wrong. But this is my opinion

If she disagrees on an idea, she should say....Correct me if its not the best idea, but i feel.....

Do you have a better idea?

Can we do this?

Shall we talk about this or sort this out first?

I need to discuss something. Will you have some time.

She should learn to tell him...

I have not had the time to say...but...i love you

You complete me.

I cant think clear when you are not around.

i am feeling low, can i have a hug.

i feel better when i talk to you.

i wish i can keep looking into your eyes.

i am happy to have you in my life.

i am happy you are my husband

i miss your smile when i am alone.

When you ask, when you tell, the partner feels wanted that his opinion is valued and his presence counts. And the way you put it across is important.

A woman need not be a slave or a subordinate to her man in life. But there are certain things in life that a woman should allow her man to lead. Whatever said or done, a man has certain level of ego. a woman should not flare it up.

And the character Abhi has really been a sweetheart, caring, understanding, sweet with his words, vibrant with his positivity , an eyes that could melt even the most insensitive heart and of course with the million dollar smile. He had genuinely wanted to see her happy. If in spite of it, Abhi does not even get a focussed smile from her, Simi does not deserve such an endearing person.

Originally posted by: mesimi

100% VALID

He has been quiet all this while and never questioned her for all the stupidity she made him go through. Always being the first one to compromise, Abhi has had enough of patience with her. And I dont have to pen down what all she did to him.

Regarding insulting in front of family, Simi did it once and made him to look like a fool when he came home to ask her hand.

Yesterdays episode, Simmi insulted him in front of her mom, mili,anuj and anita...almost demanding ..dont behave like a kid. this is serious issue. this goes to show she feels abhi cant differentiate between whats good or bad. she fears about his anger...thats valid, but that does not permit her to insult him in front of her family.

Abhi's anger and irritation is 500% valid. in fact he controlled his ager and his language and so he quickly left the scene. his anger he took out on her only when they were alone.

for all that simi has done to abhi, she had to say sorry to him. if she din say when it was genuinelr required of her, there is no reason to expect abhi to say sorry.

abhi has really been an understanding husband, pulling her out of all the mess she digs herself into even when people are not expecting it from her. yesterday when he comes and hugs her, she reacted in a way that was not expected of a wife. he has given her enough freedom to choose to stay at her maayka to sort issues when no one wanted it. he has not forced her in consummating their marriage which any normal man would expect from his wife. She gets irritated at him when he hugs her was because she is lost in thoughts about RBs proposal. Well if she had confided in her husband, he may have understood her better about what she is going through. she wont do anything that is normally expected of a wife, why will Abhi say sorry??????????

They have to sort differences, thats true. But Simi has to overcoming her shortcomings.

She cant be stubborn like........

Mai yehi karoongi.....,

maine tay kar liya toh kurbaani doongi...

mujhe hi kuch karna padega...

tum nahi samjhoge......

bacchon jaise behave mat karo......

tumhare saath yehi problem hai.....

She cant always decide......

Yehi sahi hai..... when actually all her decisions are utter stupidity

Hum aisa karte hai.........

She should learn to ask Abhi....

I feel this way,what do you say?

I thought this could be an option. You think so?

Can i give you a suggestion?

I may be wrong. But this is my opinion

If she disagrees on an idea, she should say....Correct me if its not the best idea, but i feel.....

Do you have a better idea?

Can we do this?

Shall we talk about this or sort this out first?

I need to discuss something. Will you have some time.

She should learn to tell him...

I have not had the time to say...but...i love you

You complete me.

I cant think clear when you are not around.

i am feeling low, can i have a hug.

i feel better when i talk to you.

i wish i can keep looking into your eyes.

i am happy to have you in my life.

i am happy you are my husband

i miss your smile when i am alone.

When you ask, when you tell, the partner feels wanted that his opinion is valued and his presence counts. And the way you put it across is important.

A woman need not be a slave or a subordinate to her man in life. But there are certain things in life that a woman should allow her man to lead. Whatever said or done, a man has certain level of ego. a woman should not flare it up.

And the character Abhi has really been a sweetheart, caring, understanding, sweet with his words, vibrant with his positivity , an eyes that could melt even the most insensitive heart and of course with the million dollar smile. He had genuinely wanted to see her happy. If in spite of it, Abhi does not even get a focussed smile from her, Simi does not deserve such an endearing person.

Mesimi totally agree with everything in your post. Raksha I understand where you are coming from and I know that Simi is frightened as to how Abhi will react but I think she was 500% totally wrong in the way she spoke to Abhi. He has repeatedly told her that he doesn't like it when she calls him a child. HE MOST DEFINITELY IS NOT A CHILD NO DOUBT ABOUT THAT. I feel she doesn't consider his feelings at all because if she did she would never hurt him like that and I know it was done for a good reason but sometimes we have to try to remember we cannot prevent the inevitable happening. She is wrong to start with because she should have gone to Abhi when he was in a calm state and told him nicely that she wants to talk to him and then explain what that PIECE OF SCUM BUCKET asked from her and then on this, the two of them should have tried to trap Balla but instead she is keeping this important secret from Abhi. Please tell me would a normal 22 year old man put up with all this rubbish and secondly when he went to hug her from behind she nearly ripped his skin off. The way she spoke back to him. TELL ME IS THAT THE WAY YOU ANSWER SOMEONE WHO IS SUPPOSED TO BE YOUR LIFE, YOUR LOVE, YOUR HUSBAND, YOUR EVERYTHING!!!!! I dont think so. Abhi has proved himself that he most certainly is not a child. Men his age are having a good time, going out and meeting many girls, going to disco. THEY ARE SIMPLY ENJOYING THEIR LIFE. Simi just doesn't get it. How can she even think to insulf Abhi in that way and then he is supposed to say ok Simi you were absolutely right yes I am a child and its ok for you to insult me in front of everyone. COME ON!!!!!!!!! ABHI DESERVES WAY BETTER THAN THAT. SIMI NEEDS TO START TO OPEN HER EYES MORE AND HAVE A REAL GOOD LOOK AT HER HUSBAND BEFORE SHE LOOSES HIM AND IT WILL BE HER DOING. Simi is supposedly 30 years old and yet she has the mind of a 17 year old girl. She is totally the immature one in this relationship. Abhi adores her, he would never have reacted like that is she just considers his feelings for a change and who the hell would still be waiting to be intimate with his wife after so long after marriage. HOW THE HELL HAS GOD GIVEN SUCH A PRECIOUS GIFT TO THIS GIRL AND STILL BE SO BLIND THAT SHE CANNOT SEE IT.!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Originally posted by: daboo89

I don't know Raksha.....Abhi had enough of her always putting him down... As a human being there is only so much BS a person can deal with.....Abhi has been so patient with her and always supports her and understands her and all she has done is put him down and keep calling him a baccha.....

I think Abhi is filled with anger but if Simi could just explain to him everything in a calm manner Abhi would never loose his cool....

Don't forget Simi lectured Abhi about trust being important in a relationship and here she is not telling him everything....I really don't like how the CV's have made her out to be.....

I agree daboo89…………. here is a 22year man with no support and no job security to boot. he has always taken the remarks of being called bechhaa very lightly but the last three episodes was called by none other than Rajiv Bhalla the man Simbhi Despises very incubus man who has declared the Fatwa to grab the 12/24 from them as if it is uske baap ki jagir. This is the limit for Abhi who has always kept his cool and given, he would have ended up is jail or may be not but the point is the insult he had to bear by being called betcha is also not right in front of the whole family. This weakens the Simbhi's united front in front of the family. From the get go Manju Ji has prophesied that their marriage is doomed since abhi is betcha and now after her acceptance for Simi to say this to him is not easy to swallow without choking on it . A sorry this time won't cut it SimiJi You got to do better than that and last chance is given to you . If after this it happens again than may MataRani won't be able to save you from Abhi or your not so happy marriage life. So consider this a warning.😡

beautifully written Dolly.....I wish the CV's would take note of what we feel and work with it in the scripts...............