Zero Chemistry; 110% sacrifice

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It has become virtually impossible for me to find anything likeable in the relationship between Simi and Abhi in part because the writers have done such a horrible job of developing their storyline. Since Simi's outburst in the park when she questioned Abhi if he truly loved her, the story has been going downhill. Despite the wonderful moments at Anita and Anuj's wedding, the fire and passion has completely fizzled.
Abhi's sudden age reduction and Simi's two year increase was the first kick. Then Abhi's dreadful confessions of "I love you" where he sounded like a five year old boy. Next came the introduction of Nukul and the new unappreciative Simi who couldn't give a toss anymore if Abhi loved or even liked her. She was guaranteed his love, but she never felt the need to make sure he was guaranteed hers.
Then we saw Abhi's jealousy, his crying and childish attempts to destroy the marriage between Nukul and Simi (none of which have worked). The once confident, secure, fun and smart Abhi is transformed into a sniveling 12 year old.
A couple of weeks ago the writer, realizing that they had gone too far, gave us a glimpse of Simi and Abhi in the park. And then suddenly a few days later, give us back the unappreciative Simi and besotted Abhi. (Still cannot fathom the rationale for this romance: she loves to sacrfice herself and he thinks it's wonderful. Whatever).
Now we have Simi pondering between Nukul and Abhi; her desire to be with Abhi is not that great as she is willing to sacrifice herself time and time again to please her family - even if it means marrying Nukul. When Abhi proposed she was not even happy; he had to ask her to smile. Ungrateful baitch (sorry, but she does not have a good standing in my eyes).
When you see a someone getting kicked around for someone who is not worthy of their love, you really cannot find much in the way of chemistry. Seriously there is none left.

Now I see a love story between an ungrateful, confused, weak and selfish frump girl and a 22 year old guy who is getting nothing but an ass whooping. Abhi, go find a girl who can really appreciate you and dump Simi. Believe me, there are plenty of women in this world. Heck you could even have harem and each one would be more deserving of you than Simi.
At this point if RB was to marry Simi and she was not happy with it, I wouldn't give a toss. That's how badly the writers have made her character.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Laila finally you wrote !! I am reading I will get back :)
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Posted: 15 years ago
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yeah why make simi 30 as we are stupid. even then 8 yrs diff doesn't matter.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: Laila2009

It has become virtually impossible for me to find anything likeable in the relationship between Simi and Abhi in part because the writers have done such a horrible job of developing their storyline. Since Simi's outburst in the park when she questioned Abhi if he truly loved her, the story has been going downhill. Despite the wonderful moments at Anita and Anuj's wedding, the fire and passion has completely fizzled.
Abhi's sudden age reduction and Simi's two year increase was the first kick. Then Abhi's dreadful confessions of "I love you" where he sounded like a five year old boy. Next came the introduction of Nukul and the new unappreciative Simi who couldn't give a toss anymore if Abhi loved or even liked her. She was guaranteed his love, but she never felt the need to make sure he was guaranteed hers.
Then we saw Abhi's jealousy, his crying and childish attempts to destroy the marriage between Nukul and Simi (none of which have worked). The once confident, secure, fun and smart Abhi is transformed into a sniveling 12 year old.
A couple of weeks ago the writer, realizing that they had gone too far, gave us a glimpse of Simi and Abhi in the park. And then suddenly a few days later, give us back the unappreciative Simi and besotted Abhi. (Still cannot fathom the rationale for this romance: she loves to sacrfice herself and he thinks its wonderful. Whatever).
Now we have Simi pondering between Nukul and Abhi; her desire to be with Abhi is not that great as she is willing to sacrifice herself time and time again to please her family - even if it means marrying Nukul. When Abhi proposed she was not even happy; he had to ask her to smile. Ungrateful baitch (sorry, but she does not have a good standing in my eyes).
When you see a someone getting kicked around for someone who is not worthy of their love, you really cannot find much in the way of chemistry. Seriously there is none left.

Now I see a love story between an ungrateful, confused, weak and selfish frump girl and a 22 year old guy who is getting nothing but an ass whooping. Abhi, go find a girl who can really appreciate you and dump Simi. Believe me, there are plenty of women in this world. Heck you could even have harem and each one would be more deserving of you than Simi.
At this point if RB was to marry Simi and she was not happy with it, I wouldn't give a toss. That's who badly the writers have made her character.

O yes Laila her desire is not that great to be with Abhi soo true !! At the age of 30 girls are out of their family to be with their better half ..And when he says aleast smile to kardo when he puts the ring in her finger what the hell is wrong with her to appriciate that he loves her
No glow no happiness seen in her face
I must have said this n number of times
Frankly when I see them togehter after the I love you thing I feel happy since Abhi is smiling not for Simi
as u said zero chemistry looks one sided and pleading to me !!!
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Laila you said it all. where did the simi disappeared who wanted so badly abhi to propose him at the wedding and when he did not she was crying?
where is the simi who asked him in desperation magar tum payr to nhi karte na mujhse>
why can't see tell RS she loves some one and at the moment she wants to help her family?
So true why abhi has to plead and remind her he loves her.
She only loves him to complain about her desperate life full of problems.
In life every one has problems but for that they do not put their happiness or loved one's happiness aside.
Simi is gown totally ungrateful dry timid woman who should be handling both fronts at ease. At her age she should have her family meaning children .
she should be thankful Abhi selected her. and what she does put him aside and leave abhi and Nakul in limbo.
Why should abhi have to fight for her with Nakul and ask her what are you wearing? Bring back the loe sick simi he truly cares for abhi and shows him he is the only one for her. Why does she have to be always irritted and crying in his presence, She seems perfectly all right when she is with nakul. True you don;t hide feeling with ur loved ones. But now enough crying is done. Simi needs to think about her future and let Manju and RS handle anuj.
I do have complain for creatives as well.Stop this utter nonsense bakwas of a mother story at once. You are not creating any sympaty but turning away audiences showing a mother in such role.
A mother is considered to be next to god not a some stupid shameless woman who does not care anything about her wonderful huby or nice daughters.
Mother sacrifices every thing for her children she does not constatly cuss curse and torment her daughters, This way you are insulting us the mothers. It is truly shameful to portray an indian mother such way.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Laila you said it all. where did the simi disappeared who wanted so badly abhi to propose him at the wedding and when he did not she was crying?

where is the simi who asked him in desperation magar tum payr to nhi karte na mujhse>
why can't see tell RS she loves some one and at the moment she wants to help her family?
So true why abhi has to plead and remind her he loves her.
She only loves him to complain about her desperate life full of problems.
In life every one has problems but for that they do not put their happiness or loved one's happiness aside.
Simi is gown totally ungrateful dry timid woman who should be handling both fronts at ease. At her age she should have her family meaning children .
she should be thankful Abhi selected her. and what she does put him aside and live abhi and Nakul in limbo.
Why should abhi have to fight for her with Nakul and ask her what are you wearing?
I do have complain for creatives as well.Stop this utter nonsense bakwas of a mother story at once. You are not creating any sympaty but turning away audiences showing a mother in such role.
A mother is considered to be next to god not a some stupid shameless woman who does not care anything about her wonderful huby or nice daughters.
Mother sacrifices every thing for her children she does not constatly cuss curse and torment her daughters, This way you are insulting us the mothers. It is truly shameful to portray an indian mother such way.

And Abhi has always been there for her. She never even thanked Abhi for helping her get out of the RB mess, not once have we seen a scene where she has thanked him for all that he did for her. Instead she consistently complains that he is a bachcha, immature, etc.
There are only two times she has thanked him. The first time when he was very discrete when he answered the question by RS about Nukul. The second time was when he gave her the bell (whatever happened to that?).
As for the mother, there are mothers who are like Manju and while we cannot stand her, believe me she's a very real character. I have seen mother's like her and it is very sad.
I would love to see Abhi dump her and when she calls crying hang up on her. Until he starts to treat her this way, only then will she realize how important and valuable he was to her.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: Laila2009

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And Abhi has always been there for her. She never even thanked Abhi for helping her get out of the RB mess, not once have we seen a scene where she has thanked him for all that he did for her. Instead she consistently complains that he is a bachcha, immature, etc.
There are only two times she has thanked him. The first time when he was very discrete when he answered the question by RS about Nukul. The second time was when he gave her the bell (whatever happened to that?).
As for the mother, there are mothers who are like Manju and while we cannot stand her, believe me she's a very real character. I have seen mother's like her and it is very sad.
I would love to see Abhi dump her and when she calls crying hang up on her. Until he starts to treat her this way, only then will she realize how important and valuable he was to her.

Laila I do agree abhi should leave her until she is desperate. He should just ignore her and tell her enough is enough I do not want a cry baby as my wife. I want a woman who shares a happiness with me as well. He should stop calling her and ignore her calls till she decides and tell RS that they are couple and she has nothing to do with nakul or any other man and by all means she needs to stop calling abhi bachcha and hurting him. If he is bachcha then why is she relying on him to slove her problems.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: ramas

Laila I do agree abhi should leave her until she is desperate. He should just ignore her and tell her enough is enough I do not want a cry baby as my wife. I want a woman who shares a happiness with me as well. He should stop calling her and ignore her calls till she decides and tell RS that they are couple and she has nothing to do with nakul or any other man and by all means she needs to stop calling abhi bachcha and hurting him. If he is bachcha then why is she relying on him to slove her problems.

Exactly, it is this bachcha that has risked everything for her. It was his boldness that tried to get the papers that held RB accountable and he was the one who got the news media. He is the one who gave her the confidence to stand up and walk out of her wedding. Abhi was the one who got her father's shop back. He has listened to her pain and has comforted her in her time of need. He has healed her wounds both literally and figuratively speaking. I can't imagine what more he could do for her at this point. He's sold his car to get her a ring and possibly even get money for a home. He's put his education on hold (we presume) to get a job for her.
And what has Simi done for Abhi? The creative have created a very selfish woman. They are living in another time when they think the woman who sacrifices everything is the heroine but in this day and age we (at least I do not) admire someone who sacrifices herself for those who do not appreciate it. In the field of psychology, this behavior is highly unhealthy and dysfunctional and does more damange to the individual and others.
Unfortunately, the creative team is from this "backward" mindset and tragically so the audience for whom they are now writing the show (for the TRP ratings).
By the way, I wanted to add, when Simi did "thank" Abhi, it was so formal that it came across looking rather unappreciative.
I still cannot get over her reaction when Abhi proposed and Abhi's desperation or literally begging that he didn't take away his right to love her? What have they done to the poor guy? Did Simi forget, she was the frump girl with multiple rejections. Abhi can walk out on her and find someone else, but what about her? Once Nukul dumps her sorry azz, what next? Rajeev Bhala.
I really would like to see Simi wake-up and only a good kick up the rear makes that happen, and our heroine needs one.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: ramas

Laila you said it all. where did the simi disappeared who wanted so badly abhi to propose him at the wedding and when he did not she was crying?

where is the simi who asked him in desperation magar tum payr to nhi karte na mujhse>
why can't see tell RS she loves some one and at the moment she wants to help her family?
So true why abhi has to plead and remind her he loves her.
She only loves him to complain about her desperate life full of problems.
In life every one has problems but for that they do not put their happiness or loved one's happiness aside.
Simi is gown totally ungrateful dry timid woman who should be handling both fronts at ease. At her age she should have her family meaning children .
she should be thankful Abhi selected her. and what she does put him aside and leave abhi and Nakul in limbo.
Why should abhi have to fight for her with Nakul and ask her what are you wearing? Bring back the loe sick simi he truly cares for abhi and shows him he is the only one for her. Why does she have to be always irritted and crying in his presence, She seems perfectly all right when she is with nakul. True you don;t hide feeling with ur loved ones. But now enough crying is done. Simi needs to think about her future and let Manju and RS handle anuj.
I do have complain for creatives as well.Stop this utter nonsense bakwas of a mother story at once. You are not creating any sympaty but turning away audiences showing a mother in such role.
A mother is considered to be next to god not a some stupid shameless woman who does not care anything about her wonderful huby or nice daughters.
Mother sacrifices every thing for her children she does not constatly cuss curse and torment her daughters, This way you are insulting us the mothers. It is truly shameful to portray an indian mother such way.


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The other day she clearly told him that why should I go helping others and trying to give hapiness when my own life is not straight !! Simi wasnt it that ur oppertunity to set ur life straight then U realised that ur life is not handled properly here Abhi is there to be with you show some love and afection to him in the true sense and not being forced !! Ur side there is just zero chemistry and Abhi is like helping Simi build the chemistry 😕

Do the CV's want to show that Nakul and Simi's chemistry is so balanced that she is ale to speak so smoothly with him ...The walk they had together she could have told it very clearly to him whats in her mind she has prolonged this whole Nakul daggar proposal till date !!!

Going off topic to make us feel that either mother feels really bad that she bore a girl child and the son is all that is needed in society . Actually Anuj dse'nt have any respect for his mother right from day one she has been begging him for everything he has'nt done anything whole heatedly for her or for his sisters 😕

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Just emailed the "Zero Chemistry" link to Zeetv.

Laila

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