mahek stop giving behenji looks:Mod note Pg5 - Page 3

I am sorry but I find it a bit offensive calling her look behenji there are actual people who wear those types of clothes everyday and it's a bit offensive to say that.


And dressing up as a behenji is nothing wrong. I loved that dress she was wearing it had been really nice every day dress but not her wedding function dress.

Originally posted by: SankiPagal

What do you mean by behenji and why is behen ji or behenji look taken to be so offensive?

We take offence when guys pass on comments like behenji on us girls.. When they use it , they use it in the sense meaning the girl isn't attractive enough for them to even pass a look at her or someone they wouldn't like to touch or chedofy or some one who is ugly according to them...someone who isn't "sexy" enough for them.. basically as someone mentioned Plain Jane...

Now what about people like you who being a girl herself passes such comments on other girls? Choose your words sensitively and cautiously.

You have issues with her make up and stylist go ahead.. mention about it.. But choose your words very wisely mam.. It would do you good and also your own being.

I have always found Mehak's make up cakey and styling shoddy, but guess it goes with her character's background ...Anyway, they can tone it down IMO.

Agree her makeup is loud nowadays,dress was ok,she looked blumpy too yesterday .

Originally posted by: KreyaArshiLover

I am sorry but I find it a bit offensive calling her look behenji there are actual people who wear those types of clothes everyday and it's a bit offensive to say that.

Even I don't like her clothes for functions but I still wouldn't call them behenji I find that offensive

And dressing up as a behenji is nothing wrong. I loved that dress she was wearing it had been really nice every day dress but not her wedding function dress.

But her stylist needs to be changes soon as possible her clothes are horrendous. Nehal looked more of a bride than what Mehek looked

Hey...girls...!

Beauty Lies in the Eye of the Beholder'...Same here SK has fallen for mahek because of her nature and simplicity...

@waida

Originally posted by: dsr11

@waida

We have to understand that Svetlana, Shruti and Ajay, who all called Mahek a behnji, are villains and vamps. If we too call the girl a behnji and aunty, then what's the difference between them and us? People do have endearments regarding the physical appearance of their loved ones and they don't affect a person's self worth, because there is love and acceptance for being themselves. But mocking and degrading someone's appearance and expecting them to conform to your rules of what is supposed to be is not okay.

I strutted out into my wedding without an ounce of makeup, because I found all the aunties fussing over me annoying and I showed them out of my room. I walked up to my then groom (husband now) and tried to talk to him for the first time in person. We only knew each other through pictures and phone conversations until then. He didn't talk to me much in the beginning. I was slightly worried if he didn't find me modern enough. When I asked him about it later he told me that I was so much more beautiful in person and he was worried whether I found him good enough for me. I really wanted to give him a sloppy kiss then and there to show him how I feel about him, but thought may be it will be too shocking for the conservative crowd in my wedding. Everyone looks for acceptance and it's good if it comes without you bending over until you break.

Woah girl way to go.. I would have cheered u all the way right up to the sloppy kiss 👏

I feel a person a particular one has a habit of bringing personal issues over and again.no one can help that person. Every time examples for reel life fictitious characters cannot be real life.what happens in reel the incidents after incidents never happen in real life.so y bring real life in reel life.probably this attitude is only brought to create a rift or to spoil the sanity of this wonderful zkm family where everyone has till date been so free and welcomed by all to give pov. That's the best part about our this lovely family. A particular user and you know who u r plz stop .bcoz in any case real and reel life don't match. This is where the mind works and again stating no one is behenji bcoz of attire or looks but bcoz of wrong attitude or wrong way of carrying urself or not being oneself.and I still stand on my point that in that particular episode mahek was not mahek she was giving behenji looks.it does not mean attire. But loud make-up .it's for the cvs to understand that they playing with her personality. In real there are no shaurya an mahek and they are in reel.

@dreamstrue