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Originally posted by: sun29

@enchantress...i absolutely loved that scene of zeeshan looking at her and maham as they slept..it was such a beautiful and peaceful scene..they looked so adorable and at peace sleeping together and then zeeshan enters and he tip toes around not wanting to wake them up and then that flashback where nabeel tells him about rumaisa...

yes rabia was right..she did touch his heart from the first instance when she knocked at his door with his tea...he could not stop praising her that had rabia irked 😆

can you please put forward the interpretation of those scenes with zeeshan and his flashback modes with nabeel and then those soft looks to rumi...was that to evoke his guilt or to make him see why nabeel fell for her and loved her so...

Originally posted by: .Enchantress.

+100 on your points @sun29! 👏👏👏

Just because we watch Indian soaps or are Indian just doesn't means you can catagorize us into the group that we are used to the crying, weeping, sacrificing abla naari.

i cannot believe i am saying this..but our abla naaris may be dumb witted but when it comes to protecting their loved ones they never back down ..i actually lost my cool after seeing little maham being treated the way she is ...

Having said that, I will still say that I felt for Rumaisa just cuz she was a true sufferer of the situations but it just doesn't means that you'll tolerate every damn thing on your self respect and dignity just cuz you're too afraid to protest?! 😕 that's lame.

If not anything, then Rumi should at least take a firm step against all the chichorapann Hassan is doing to her, no woman tolerates this, period.

not once or twice but that man inspite of zeeshan warning him is becoming bold as days go by knowing every well rumiasa will not utter one word ...she is not a victim ,she is just too cowardly and weak to even meekly protest..the whole thing was lame and why i am furious is coz none of them paid for what they did...atleast hassan should have ...the amount of time they spend in showing the nonsense of trying to get zeeshan married off to every girl around ,if only they could have shown some kind of punishment to hassan ,if not all...

And nothing justifies the behavior she's putting up with that Innocent Soul Maham who is as other kids her age should be. Locking her up in the room when she is calling you and looking after other kids?!😕

Beating her up for breaking a vase, handling her roughly? What's this? Taking out all your frustrations on her?

I agree Maham is treated as a burden in that house like her mother, but if Rumaisa will treat her like everyone does what's the difference? And the heights would be asking Zeeshan to leave her daughter in an orphanage? That's madness.

do not get me started on the whole maham issue...i really want to shake rumiasa so hard and scream at her not that i am going to get any response from her except aap mujhse kyun naraaz hai ,and mujhe khush karne she may actually start roaming like a zombie in my house too

I won't say that I haven't seen submissive people, but everything has a limit. I agree she is insecure and has been considered Manhoos by everyone all her life but that doesn't means she'll continue being a doormat.

Sometimes, all you need is to find your inner strength. We aren't asking her to turn into Jhansi Ki Rani overnight, but she should at least make an attempt to fight.

Being tolerable to a limit is okay, but no woman should allow herself to be walked all over by others. It's irony to think that ppl will be happy with you if you bend down to all their wishes and allow yourself to be taken advantage of.

And no one, exactly no one teaches you to raise your voice. That's something that comes from your inner strength.

exactly..no one teaches you all this..you rise to the situation and react ,even then she had nabeel teaching her stuff but she was too busy with stars and fishes to even process what he was hinting at ...she can treat herself however the way she wants but why drag the innocent maham into your rut knowing very well the child has no one except you...for me there is no poor rumiasa ..it is like someone said poor zeeshan and poor maham ...my heart goes out to these two ...

how long does one fight for you ??

Originally posted by: .Enchantress.

I loved that scene, and also the one where Rumi tried to wake Zeeshan up but leaves it midway.😳 Cute.

You know what I think, Zeeshan was indeed affected by her during the first time he met her in Nabeel's office. That time, he surely made a joke about her "Chaar Gaz Ki Chaadar!" 😆😆😆

But he always seemed very mystified and inquisitive about what attracted Nabeel to an ordinary girl like Rumaisa? When he didn't have any deficiency of high class girls for him.

And after her marriage to Nabeel, when they were introduced formally for the first time when she brought in tea for him, ironed his clothes and made breakfast for him that was the time, he understood why Nabeel had said that "usme kuch buraa hai hi nahi."

Then after Nabeel's death when he supported her and stood by her he slowly started finding 50% of the truth, Nabeel had told him about Rumaisa during their Brother time together.

And now when he's married to her, he is now finding all the 50% of truth in Nabeel's words and that makes him guilty cuz he left Rumaisa and Maham to their state just after their nikaah. It can be more like he feels, he escaped leaving them to their state just cuz of he wasn't over Rabiya. That's Zeeshan's guilt. The soft look that's there in his eyes when he looks at Rumi and Maham is mainly cuz of that guilt and the fact that he indeed has fallen for her.

In that scene where Zeeshan tells her that no one has forced her to live like a maid in this house, she used to live here earlier too to which she replies that she had Nabeel with her. Being Zeeshan's wife doesn't helps her.

That look in Zeeshan's eyes was that of guilt of leaving her alone in this mess.😳

Originally posted by: -FreeLancer-

and who is to say or vouch for the fact people who are submissive in real life, stay one forever either?

even the most meek of beings change or become fiery for the sake of their kids. and this WITHOUT any Nabeel or Zeeshan in their lives.

there are numerous real life examples, one that comes to my mind -

an uneducated mother from a distant village in India from lower caste fights for the rights of her daughter against her husband and her inlaws to ensure her daughter of five gets equal rights to education as her brothers? initially she is beaten up and threatened for her and her daughter's life, hence she abandons them and runs away with her girl to an undisclosed location. ..struggles the whole of her life, to make a living Her daughter grows up to be an engineer and heads asia pacific region of one of the MNCs, and her speech where she mentions the lifestory of her mother and her sacrifices had broken the internet!

Its not uncanny to expect some change from Rumaisa, she is not just a wife, but a mother too! and we all watch shows to see a positive growth in a character dont we? having said that, Ive reiterated this earlier, but I do think UA did not want to show any growth Rumaisa's character sketch on purpose, her focus was on the men in this show..

Originally posted by: sun29

i agree with you..the writer had no intention to show any growth in rumiasa ..it was more about the men in the show..first nabeel and then zeeshan ...but i wonder why make a love story if you cannot balance the characters...that it looks more like pity ..

and that is what worked me up..the mother in her turned out like this...i cannot accept any justification for the way she dealt with maham..fine be the servant of the house ,rub your nose on the floor but why treat maham so harsh ..is it not enough that the entire household treats her so bad...she keeps on wailing remembering nabeel but cannot even bring herself to safeguard his flesh and blood ..what use is such mohabbat if it brings nothing in your life...