Aadhe Adhoore DT - Page 56

Originally posted by: sakmhlove

hi to all.am a silent reader of this thread.watched the serial frm very first epi till ending.never felt lyk writing but ending forced me to write.

started to wtach the show only because i was curious abt how they r going to justify these kind of wrong relationship?but as the tagline says" its complicated".it is really complicated to show n handle these kind ofb things on tv.jassi is really complicated character but there were many good sides of her as she never wanted bad for anyone.she acted very selfishly n broke all social norms.it was not only a mistake but also a crime and sin.she loved beeji varen channi n naren all.she fullfilled her duties as well.but kehte hai naa ek bura kaam aapki sab achai ko khatam kar deta hai.this is what happened with jassi.me also not fond of her character but she was much better than varen.she used varen to fullfill her physical needs but she was also dependent on him emotionally.she always cared for him n concerned abt him 'but varen only fullfilled his physical needs.other than it he treated her lyk a stranger.he was selfish, weak, useless and worst.n channi was best match for a idiot person lyk him.frm my pov jassi was better than both.yesterday i wanted to go into tv and pushed channi down.breaking social norms n killing sumone both things are wrong.in the end she was standing hathjode.it was worst symbolism ever.its reality of today.ppl commits crime n sins n after this they hav guts to show their face to god.no shame at all.i hav seen ppl worshipping whole day n even then abusing others wid bad names n all.it irritates

me

i hav lot to say but very less tym because my 10 month baby has woken up.will say only that if jassi did wrong then everyone including naren viren beeji did wrong wid her.none thought abt her desires of staying wid hubby n bcoming mother.still having relationship wid dewar is highly disgusting.

Well said...u summarised so precisely ..all...wat ..i wanna say

Hi

This is my first post on this show and that too after it has ended. I'm really shocked to see most of the comments on Jassi. I don't say the comments are right or wrong but I would like to just put my viewpoint

Jassi a homely bahu caring for everybody but no one cares for her emotional and physical needs. I would emphasise more on the emotional love for the girl from a man. Sex may or may not be the last part of this love. Even without having a physical relation this emotional love is a requirement of a girl. I know most of the girls on this forum also understand this.
Jassi was not having this support and she had two options. One to look outside or to have it from her devar. She fell for the later and what was initially an emotional fulfilment ended up in a physical relation. Just imagine if she was in an Ex MA with some outside guy. Did Biji or Channi reacted in the same way?
I don't blame Jassi for what she did before she got vir married to Channi. She was the victim of circumstances - she got some fulfilment in her life from some aadha adhura pyar. I pity and feel bad for her.
The story couldn't have ended in a better way. She lost her adhi adhuri life with some love. If it was not her death she would have lived a cursed life worst than what she lived thru. Its difficult to understand the psychology which one goes thru for want of love but its very easy to blame and preach.
Love is a very complex emotion and need but is seldom given the seriousness it deserves for others unless we are ourselves involved in it. Neither Biji nor channi could understand her and specially biji over reacted. Channis reaction was justified but not Biji

I have to start with my favourite fine. WHAT on earth were the makers smoking while thinking of making this drama. Like seriously what a piece of junk!

Originally posted by: sakmhlove

Both Channi and that friend of Jassi's forgave the menfolk very easily,and drew their claws out for the women involved. Even Beeji would have forgiven Varinder and thrown Jassi out of the house🥱

You guys are analysing and blaming channi. How could channi tolerate the infidelity of Vir. BTW how wd channi reacted if Jassi was in relation with some other guy?

I am a silent lurker here. Note: My comment is totally based on updates given on this thread.I didnt watch a single episode😕😛
Initially I didn't want to watch this show bcoz extra-marital relations are a BIG NO to me. I mean I can't forgive such ppl but then I watched similar concept turkish show(ask-e-memnu) in which I kind of made peace with the leads so I thought since it's Indian version they wud show better justification of y jassi and varin felt the need to start their relationship in the first place but it went down the hills👎🏼 About the ending I expected that jassi will die (another similarity with that show) BUT after the whole world knows the truth. Here it is like the makers swept dirt (i.e.whole truth in the show) under the carpet ( without the society knowing the truth). I was wondering how wud makers make us sympathize with her and IMO jassi's death is the only way that many viewers wud sympathize with her. I mean how many ppl here on this thread were against jassi but she died in the end and that too bcoz of channi now we are sympathizing with jassi. And was jassi best wife, best sister,etc?! IMO NO she was not...no matter how much jassi was adjusting in other matters she failed has a wife,sister, sister-in-law, etc. She couldn't adjust where she shud have. Instead of acting all ok it wud have been many times better if she told dadi that she wants to stay with her husband..she has some dreams etc !

Originally posted by: NBT-BV

Hi

This is my first post on this show and that too after it has ended. I'm really shocked to see most of the comments on Jassi. I don't say the comments are right or wrong but I would like to just put my viewpoint

Jassi a homely bahu caring for everybody but no one cares for her emotional and physical needs. I would emphasise more on the emotional love for the girl from a man. Sex may or may not be the last part of this love. Even without having a physical relation this emotional love is a requirement of a girl. I know most of the girls on this forum also understand this.
Jassi was not having this support and she had two options. One to look outside or to have it from her devar. She fell for the later and what was initially an emotional fulfilment ended up in a physical relation. Just imagine if she was in an Ex MA with some outside guy. Did Biji or Channi reacted in the same way?
I don't blame Jassi for what she did before she got vir married to Channi. She was the victim of circumstances - she got some fulfilment in her life from some aadha adhura pyar. I pity and feel bad for her.
The story couldn't have ended in a better way. She lost her adhi adhuri life with some love. If it was not her death she would have lived a cursed life worst than what she lived thru. Its difficult to understand the psychology which one goes thru for want of love but its very easy to blame and preach.
Love is a very complex emotion and need but is seldom given the seriousness it deserves for others unless we are ourselves involved in it.

Originally posted by: NivFemirist

I am a silent lurker here. Note: My comment is totally based on updates given on this thread.I didnt watch a single episode😕😛
Initially I didn't want to watch this show bcoz extra-marital relations are a BIG NO to me. I mean I can't forgive such ppl but then I watched similar concept turkish show(ask-e-memnu) in which I kind of made peace with the leads so I thought since it's Indian version they wud show better justification of y jassi and varin felt the need to start their relationship in the first place but it went down the hills👎🏼 About the ending I expected that jassi will die (another similarity with that show) BUT after the whole world knows the truth. Here it is like the makers swept dirt (i.e.whole truth in the show) under the carpet ( without the society knowing the truth). I was wondering how wud makers make us sympathize with her and IMO jassi's death is the only way that many viewers wud sympathize with her. I mean how many ppl here on this thread were against jassi but she died in the end and that too bcoz of channi now we are sympathizing with jassi. And was jassi best wife, best sister,etc?! IMO NO she was not...no matter how much jassi was adjusting in other matters she failed has a wife,sister, sister-in-law, etc. She couldn't adjust where she shud have. Instead of acting all ok it wud have been many times better if she told dadi that she wants to stay with her husband..she has some dreams etc !

Originally posted by: NBT-BV

I have a different viewpoint on 2 points.

1. Sympathy factor- IMO the CVs rather the writer killed jassi bcoz the alternate would have been. Narendra forgives and accepts her and both of them leave the house - result family break up and all are unhappy. with her death atleast all of them can feel peace - may be after some time.

2. Jassi had the problem with herself. She wanted to be best wife sister D-in law but her emotions failed her. She was not emotionally strong and why should she? She just got carried away due to circumstances. Its natural!!! She paid a heavy price but she tried and lived her life and extracted some happiness - right or wrong in the eyes of society but as she said to biji and channi - she didn't regret it and I agree with her.

For everything we take - we have to pay a price

1. If Narendra forgives and accepts her then IMO channi wudn't have any problem neither Varen. But the msg wud be: its ok if u cross ur limits ur partner will forgive u ( i am saying this with the perspective that they didn't show jassi's redemption.)
2. She paid a heavy price : If we momentarily not think abt the end as jassi dying then what price did she pay? Heavy price is that she died...so again her death is sympathizing factor. Committing a wrong just bcoz circumstances lead her and on the top not regretting abt it doesn't justify her. We live in a society where certain unspoken/spoken rules are set for peaceful living.

what i royally disliked in last episode was channi showing happiness that she is expecting. then jassi saying she is also expecting. and when channi ask kiska hai. she says kya farak padta hain ?? sanjha ghar hai and all the crap. My sister guessed jassi jhoonth bol rahi hai. then jassi repenting ki hai mainey jhoot kyu bola . it was some competition how to prove your intimacy ?? while jassi was saying all that ki ghar sanjha hain and all. i felt she is psycho. and why she is roaming she should be sent to mental asylum. and channi boasting about virender and her marriage like he is Lord Ram of Kalyug. how she was expecting when she was maintaining distance ?? means it was for some days only and then she gave up ?? and channi killing jassi. she also became vampish. the last episode was two woman fighting over a man. i really appreciate actors for performing last episode. i really really appreciate that they compromise their intellect. 🤬