The inexplicable pull of Zindagi Gulzar Hai - Page 34

@ Shanaya - I agree Kashaf over-reacted, but it wasn't just tht she saw one msg of Asmaraand flipped. She saw tht der were many msgs and Zaroon had never mentioned her and also Zaroon did lie outright when she asked him about whether he was in d office the whole day? It also showed Zaroon's double standards.

What I didn't agree wid was tht Kashaf refused to share abt the loan and how she snapped at him for suggesting that her mother comes and lives with him. She knows how much respect Zaroon has for her mom, so she should hv appreciated dis gesture of Zaroon.😳

I think Kashaf reacted about the loan and Rafia due to Ghazala. She didnt want her to think she was using her son. But she failed to realize in trying to be zealously independent she was being unfair to Zaroon. She also didnt realize that she had won Ghazala's confidence by then so she shouldnt have feared anything.

Originally posted by: khamosshhh

Yes I agree dat Kashaf went overboard with not sharing stuffs with Zaroon and always giving the impression dat she didn't need him. Also she snapped at him for him suggesting her mother come and live with dem and full credit to Zaroon for not retaliating and giving Kashaf the space she so desired. In these scenarios Kashaf's ego and her past insecurities got the better of her.

But again I loved how they showed how Kashaf finally let go. In d last episode how when Zaroon jokingly says tht next time she leaves the house, he'll break her legs and Kashaf replies all seriously 'theek hai' nd Zaroon is shocked by her reply. Or when Kashaf initiates the cheesy romance.😆 U know she has come a long way and is now opening up to Zaroon the way he wants her to.

Munira Di, I agree wid you on every point! But As I wud again say, give ur partner atleast a chance for explanation! Zaroon did the same stupidity during the Osama Bawaal and So did Kashaf during Asmara Bawaal! Firstly, If she saw certain msgs of Asmara and called up his office to find Zaroon gayaab.. She shudnt have gone in a searching frenzy all thru his files and stuff. Why to think that he was having an affair? Humesha galat cheez hi kyun? 2ndly, Zaroon did this stupidity of not asking Kashaf for an explanation for Osama. Kashaf too did that, Atleast ask the guy. Just like I said, Kashaf didnt find Osama more than an option for him so she didnt tell Zaroon abt it! Same goes for Zaroon, he knew that she didnt like Asmara. Thats why he didnt tell her abt it. As Simple As That! Regarding that Rafia's Maslaa, I hated Kashaf in that scene! Agree wid Shreya that she didnt want Ghazala to think that she is using his son. But then, she needed to appreciate her husband for being so concerned Yaar! 😆 Zaroon ❤️

Originally posted by: Bubbly_Shanaya

Munira Di, I agree wid you on every point! But As I wud again say, give ur partner atleast a chance for explanation! Zaroon did the same stupidity during the Osama Bawaal and So did Kashaf during Asmara Bawaal! Firstly, If she saw certain msgs of Asmara and called up his office to find Zaroon gayaab.. She shudnt have gone in a searching frenzy all thru his files and stuff. Why to think that he was having an affair? Humesha galat cheez hi kyun? 2ndly, Zaroon did this stupidity of not asking Kashaf for an explanation for Osama. Kashaf too did that, Atleast ask the guy. Just like I said, Kashaf didnt find Osama more than an option for him so she didnt tell Zaroon abt it! Same goes for Zaroon, he knew that she didnt like Asmara. Thats why he didnt tell her abt it. As Simple As That! Regarding that Rafia's Maslaa, I hated Kashaf in that scene! Agree wid Shreya that she didnt want Ghazala to think that she is using his son. But then, she needed to appreciate her husband for being so concerned Yaar! 😆 Zaroon ❤️

Shanaya I mostly see it as how I wld hv reacted in a similar situation nd I guess I too wldn't hv been rational if I found some female msgs on my hubby's mobile nd dat too if it's his ex nd dat's Y I can relate to Kashaf reacting the way she did.😆 And BTW i think in dat regard I wld be worse than Kashaf, coz I always react first and think later, but the moment I cool down or realize I had over reacted, I go and apologize.

Regarding the 2nd issue, yes it definitely makes me happy when my hubby shows concern for my mother or my family and I always appreciate it and in dis regard he is just like Zaroon 😳and I wld never react the way Kashaf did.

ZGH is part of my Zindagi can't stay out if its on screen so my point is ZGH is now our life style we should carry where ever we are i loved the way this drama touched my heart👏

Di..😆😆 Not only you! Any other female wud have reacted in the same way.. Even me too! But I think in that case my partner owes me an explanation. Given the fact he loves me so much! And that too, what cud be the reason of him cheating on me? We are happy plus we are going to start a family! Then Why wud he go around having an affair wid his ex? Then this is the "Point Of Difference" in our personalities. I think and then react! I dont believe in jumping into conclusions widout even listening to his front too. God Forbid, If Im ever caught in this situation then I wud instead of overreacting and doing this hungama, wud calmly ask for an explanation. Cuz you see I wud trust him! And if its anything serious, then I wud go and do the Bawaala! 😆 🤣 Cuz Waise toh Im a patient person but very very short tempered when I get angry. Plus, like Kashaf I wudnt go around packing my stuff or leaving the house just for my khud ka made conclusion! Awww Di..!! Jiju Is Sweet and Ur Lucky Dudee!! 😳 Sweet! ❤️

Originally posted by: RockChicGirl

Yup...one of the best scenes in ZGH. I loved how in a short period of 10-12 mins how their issues as a couple came out leaving both of them with a lot of food for thought. Though they were a happily married couple and very much in love but this fight brought out the issues that were pushed below the carpet due to marital bliss and needed to be addressed.

After this it was the realization that no matter what...they just cant live without each other.

43 pages of ZGH memoir..hail ZGH.

Rupali, This thread itself has been a beautiful journey living thru all the ZGH Moments! And Regarding Zaroon, Sundas can have Asher but Zaroon is mine.. Humesha Mine! And woh Kashaf se pehle mera tha, hai aur humesha rahega! I know many gurls like him or infact love him..!! But they all are Asmara, Maria, Naureen, Farheen around him. Im his real Kashaf! His centre of gravity! Aur mujhse laparvah hona uske bas mein nhi.. 😳 Let all fight over him, pata hai ki he'll have to come to me kabhi na kabhi..!! Zaroon! My Eternal Love! ❤️