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Shweta, on your doubt question,
Ksshaf was extremely touchy about her financial as well as family background. She always had that complext that people judhe me as inferior for my lower middle class bg. Her insecurities were fanned by none other Ghazala more post marriage by that hurtful convo she overheard. Zaroon made her feel secure as a man, but his mother just rewounded her by saying that she is extracting money and using Zaroon to make her family stable. Moreover kashaf was taught by Rafia that every individual should be independent in true sense to take care of her responsibilities as well as her family me, bers. Kashaf was the eldest and she struggled hard to reach that status to give her family that comfort. So it was about her self respect and inherent sense of independence too that she did not think about informing Zaroon about the loan. Moreover I think eorking woman like all of us are tend to be more decisive about how we want to utilise our finances and mostly not discussed as kashaf said meri khud ki hai. 🤣
I never disliked that she did not inform him, but when he so politely asked what for and the way she behaved with him, I surely hated her. It was rude, annoying and insensitive imo to say the least. He wanted to know theroblem she was going through I directly and not abt the mobey and wanted to help his spouse to comfort her situation. Its not abt finances at all the way Zaroon saw the situation. But kashaf took it on her self respect I guess and Iwill nt beg fr money frm my husband attitude she showed. And her best defence about her insecurities were always dry, harshly rude words hurled on her beloved. So there ypu go, Zaroon got an earful.
Ksshaf was extremely touchy about her financial as well as family background. She always had that complext that people judhe me as inferior for my lower middle class bg. Her insecurities were fanned by none other Ghazala more post marriage by that hurtful convo she overheard. Zaroon made her feel secure as a man, but his mother just rewounded her by saying that she is extracting money and using Zaroon to make her family stable. Moreover kashaf was taught by Rafia that every individual should be independent in true sense to take care of her responsibilities as well as her family me, bers. Kashaf was the eldest and she struggled hard to reach that status to give her family that comfort. So it was about her self respect and inherent sense of independence too that she did not think about informing Zaroon about the loan. Moreover I think eorking woman like all of us are tend to be more decisive about how we want to utilise our finances and mostly not discussed as kashaf said meri khud ki hai. 🤣
I never disliked that she did not inform him, but when he so politely asked what for and the way she behaved with him, I surely hated her. It was rude, annoying and insensitive imo to say the least. He wanted to know theroblem she was going through I directly and not abt the mobey and wanted to help his spouse to comfort her situation. Its not abt finances at all the way Zaroon saw the situation. But kashaf took it on her self respect I guess and Iwill nt beg fr money frm my husband attitude she showed. And her best defence about her insecurities were always dry, harshly rude words hurled on her beloved. So there ypu go, Zaroon got an earful.
Ye Hai Mohabbatein
Mangal Lakshmi
