Originally posted by: kasaf_ZGH
@Neerja and LovePRsoham
Wali was only 10 when he got married to Majhbeen under a miserable condition when his father was dead and mother became mentally challenged. Majhbeen took care of him like his mother. As a child he was not an adamant but sensitive one. He was scared of thunder storms. Majhbeen was a protecting figure for him. She fed him, sent him school etc. When he got to know that Majhbeen was his legal wife he was shattered. He showed his arrogance to her just to hide his inner turmoil which completely broke his mind and soul. After that he was again forced to marry a girl who was much younger that him. Neelam was 17-18 I suppose. At their first meeting he understood that she was a rebel and childish. He was also annoyed with Bade sahab's orthodox advises. An Oxford educated enlightened individual was feeling completely helpless in front of such age old traditions.
Before his marriage to Neelam he was not in state to haave romantic relationship with anyone. After marrige he found neelam too young to understand his problems. Despite understanding his turmoil she started feeling jealous of Majhbeen. She was suspecting about their physical intimacy. She was not in a mood to listened to anybody or to compromise with anything. In present time what we expect from our partners? That they will understand us. Marriage is not about fairytale love and having kid. Its a mature understanding between individuals where a partner understands each other from its core. Wali did not get that from Neelam. Had she been a mature girl she would definitely understand Wali's inner turmoil about Majhbeen. On the other hand Majhbeen understood his shattered soul. That made him attracted toward Majhbeen. She was the mature part of his life. That attraction was depicted through newspaper scene, hairclip scene, garden scene very artistically. When Neelam achieved that maturity in her life Wali was no more with her then.
Majhbeen was so important for him that he never let her go. Only when he got to know about quiseen he let her go for her happiness. When he said That app kaun si ghar ki baat kar rahi hai jo aj tak hum dono ka riste ka nam thik nehi kar paya..His inner conflict was clearly shown here. On the other hand he also said in front of bade sahab that he decided to give his mother's property to Majhbeen because this is a way of showing a sohor's love to his wife. There was an unspoken territory which he was unable to give any name. Wali was deeply hurt when he got to know about Qasim as Majhbeen did not tell him about it.
Now come to Majhbeen her inner pain was clearly visible when she was talking to Amtur at time. She was punished to love a person. She was forced to marry a 10 yr old boy who does not understand what a conjugal relationship is. She played Amtur's role in his life. But after he grew up he became a Mard and their relationship changed and it became uneasy and uncomfortable for both of them. When she got to know that Wali went to kill Qaseem she said to Salima that the situation is like her to souls are fighting with each other. One whom she gave birth and another whom she nurtured. At last when Wali sent her to her son she said now I am with qaseem but u went away from me. I love both of u. She could not think a conjugal relationship with Wali as she was the one who gave him mother's love despite knowing the relationship.
Some people say that the actress played neelam was not good. But I like her. She beautifully portrayed neelam's immaturity, childishness and insecurity. She was a pampered child, lost her father at a tender age. She was llonely in her life as none understands her. She told her mother that u snatched me from school and made me sat on marriage ground. What else can we expect from a school girl of her age? Wali understood that fact. That is why he tried to fulfill her wishes as far as possible.
That is my point of view. I know its a bit longer. Plz do comment.
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