Humsafar Discussion Thread - Page 60

Originally posted by: harshu.sundas

i know the way Asher constantly kept feeling guilty and asking for forgiveness from sara, it made him look that he had no self respect. Bu i understand his plight, he was in a position that he was made to feel that he wronged sara at some point when he actually hadn't, sara's obsession made him believe that may be he had given her some love signs, or some hope of togetherness that made her want him so much. and moreover she was his only best friend, he did love her a lot to just let her ruin herself, its really aweful that hewas helpless enuff to accept her love or even reciprocate, firstly baseerat's promise and lateron his own plight and heartbreak.

Originally posted by: mary78613

Oh I was talking about Sara's self respect not Ashars. He had married someone else and then even when they got separated she was pinning for him and then he rejected her love again. Because he had truly loved only one women in his life and that was Khirad and he loved her so much that he was even ready to accept her back in his life even when he thought she had cheated him.

ohh sorry.. i think sara indeed had self respect and ego, it was because her ego was badly hurt which made her attempt suicide. why would she even feel snubbed, when Asher was constantly coming to her and begging her forgiveness, it made her feel more self righteous and dominant. Her self respect was only hurt when she was proposed by khizaar, it was more that she is the victim, she is the culprit, still Asher was paying for everything.

And yes about Asher, yes eventhough people argue about his loyaility, but for me his biggest strength and weakness was his love for khirad, that was so deep and indeed so much volatile that it ruined him, it salvaged him, it became the only motive of his life and his heartbreak. Sometimes they say that too much of anything ruins it, so it fits very well for both Asher and Sara, one ended up dying, and the other one kept spending a lonely life, in misery, having no direction or motive whatsoever. In that way khirad is very strong, the lady did not pay two hoots once her self respect was hurt, and she had to live for her daughter, and i appreciate that fact in her. Asher and Sara do gain a lot of sympathy, and more because their parents led to their devastation.

Sara just misunderstood his friendship. He only cared for her as a friend and I don't think he gave any indication that he loved her. But i guess, Ashar's mom was putting thoughts in her mind.

she did not even misunderstand, infact she was sure that Asher will marry her as he has noone else in his life. this is the only reason they gave him a heartbreak, so that his ego would be hurt and he would return to sara that so what if khirad rejected him, sara is there, but yeah that plan also backfired... 😆

Originally posted by: natz

the BEST bloopers ever!!😆The best is MK laughing randomly in every scene🤣

Originally posted by: Bubbly_Shanaya

Today's Episode was again okeyish.. But important keeping in mind the situation in which AK got married.. The gap, The awkwardness was beautifully potrayed between two ppl who got married in the most heinous situations.. And Sara!! I cudnt get her pretencious acts..!! Whether pretending to be fine in front of Ashar.. Befriending Khirad and what not? This gurl is seriously obssesed wid Ashar!!!! But still I lovee the bond b/w Asher-Sara.. These two are the bestest frnds one can have..❤️ The opening scene of Sara-Ashar was beautifully shot! Khirad's convo with Batool Khala was justified. A young gurl who got married to a stranger whom she didnt even knoe is bound to feel "Thopi Hui.." But sumwhere when Ashar was trying to make her comfortable.. I think she shud have put in sum efforts from her side as well.. If Ashar goes and discusses his maritial life wid Sara, where Asher is also at fault cuz He shud not discuss his maritial life with her no matter how close they are.. She shud at least try a bit..!!

Originally posted by: harshu.sundas

Oh I was talking about Sara's self respect not Ashars. He had married someone else and then even when they got separated she was pinning for him and then he rejected her love again. Because he had truly loved only one women in his life and that was Khirad and he loved her so much that he was even ready to accept her back in his life even when he thought she had cheated him.

ohh sorry.. i think sara indeed had self respect and ego, it was because her ego was badly hurt which made her attempt suicide. why would she even feel snubbed, when Asher was constantly coming to her and begging her forgiveness, it made her feel more self righteous and dominant. Her self respect was only hurt when she was proposed by khizaar, it was more that she is the victim, she is the culprit, still Asher was paying for everything.

And yes about Asher, yes eventhough people argue about his loyaility, but for me his biggest strength and weakness was his love for khirad, that was so deep and indeed so much volatile that it ruined him, it salvaged him, it became the only motive of his life and his heartbreak. Sometimes they say that too much of anything ruins it, so it fits very well for both Asher and Sara, one ended up dying, and the other one kept spending a lonely life, in misery, having no direction or motive whatsoever. In that way khirad is very strong, the lady did not pay two hoots once her self respect was hurt, and she had to live for her daughter, and i appreciate that fact in her. Asher and Sara do gain a lot of sympathy, and more because their parents led to their devastation.

Sara just misunderstood his friendship. He only cared for her as a friend and I don't think he gave any indication that he loved her. But i guess, Ashar's mom was putting thoughts in her mind.

she did not even misunderstand, infact she was sure that Asher will marry her as he has noone else in his life. this is the only reason they gave him a heartbreak, so that his ego would be hurt and he would return to sara that so what if khirad rejected him, sara is there, but yeah that plan also backfired... 😆

Originally posted by: mary78613

True! Excess of anything even love destroys you.. Khirad had a lot of self respect but yes, even i liked the fact that she bent her ego for her daughter. She was a very strong women!

All of Sara's plans backfired and I just felt pity for her in the end!