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Posted: 4 years ago
#11

Originally posted by: angelfire78


Agreed. Adoption would have been the best ending to the whole baby track. Surrogacy would have also been good if it had been done differently. Honestly, the surrogate does go through a lot, and it is a big deal. There are too many things here:


1. Surrogate is Kuhu, and her relationship with Mishti is not great to start with.

2. The reasons they had MishBir and Kuhu agreeing to the surrogacy were poor, and the reasons they showed for Kuhu having kept the going with the pregnancy were even worse because it clouds everything she does during the pregnancy for the audience.

3. If the mood swings and cravings were shown with another surrogate (with no previous history) it might have been better received. On the other hand, if the surrogate was someone else, the surrogate wouldn't find fault with Mishti or compare what Mishti gets and so on.

4. Mishti would have gone through this pain regardless of who was surrogate because she is feeling bad she is unable to carry the baby. It is made worse by the fact that she seems to get nothing right as far as Kuhu is concerned. But decision was hers to go through with this, so she has to deal with the aftermath.

5. Kuhu thought she would get the limelight by doing this and is now realizing the limelight is the baby she is carrying, and so she feels cheated and scared for the future because she got into this with a goal that doesn't look like it will be realized. And, she is probably going through a lot more (because of the pregnancy) than she had imagined. This is why they don't allow a person to be surrogate unless they've had a child and gone through it. But the decision was hers to go through with this, so she has to deal with the aftermath.

6. Kuhu's (and probably Kunal's?) idea on how MishBir should show gratefulness for what she is doing and MishBir's idea of the same doesn't seem to match. Bound to happen!

Absolutely

You will not find an ounce of logic in this whole bacha track right from the beginning.

Nobody is concerned about mishti's health. No second opinion about mishti's condition, jumping from remarriage to adoption to surrogacy. Abir being so clear about adoption suddenly agreeing with surrogacy. And talking about mishti she had no opinion in this track she just followed what others said.

And we all talk about trp going down.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: angelfire78


There are too many cultural differences to compare how it was handled in Friends to this. I don't think we're at a point to accept sister carrying brother's baby, and that was a comedy show, not drama. In this show though it is on some other level - they want people to run at the very idea of surrogacy!

I think it’s not only because of surrogacy...it’s mainly because Kuhu is the surrogate...Our people are not that open minded yet....


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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: raishi

I think it’s not only because of surrogacy...it’s mainly because Kuhu is the surrogate...Our people are not that open minded yet....


How is open minded related to kuhu??? Mishbir fd never wanted surrogacy nly. In fact we didn't want any bachcha track a

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Sarcastic_me

How is open minded related to kuhu??? Mishbir fd never wanted surrogacy nly. In fact we didn't want any bachcha track a


Sorry....I meant open minded about surrogacy....

I know Mishbir fd never wanted a baby track and surrogacy was the worst track....

Kuhu - i really dont understand her character... the creatives just ruined it....

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: raishi


Sorry....I meant open minded about surrogacy....

I know Mishbir fd never wanted a baby track and surrogacy was the worst track....

Kuhu - i really dont understand her character... the creatives just ruined it....

We r open minded abt surrogacy but r dey showing anything relatable????

Ruin ko sabka character hua hain kuhu ka akela nahi!!!

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: raishi

I think it’s not only because of surrogacy...it’s mainly because Kuhu is the surrogate...Our people are not that open minded yet....



Kuhu as the surrogate is very very hard to accept. If they really wanted to use this track to repair relationships, they have gone about it abysmally.

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