Yeh Rishtey Hai Pyaar Ke Live Updates/EDT 26 Aug 2020 - Page 18

Originally posted by: yrhpk_aus

Well said Piya👍🏼

I'm no relationship expert by no means as well. But haan, those were the kind of level-headed, practical conversations we would expect mishbir to have, but it's okay if they argue and fight about their differences of opinions, it's natural, but at the end they knew how to understand each other's intention and what the other was trying to explain - neither did them maker's give enough time, nor proper writing to flesh out the issue - simply rushed it.

The writers brought a very complex issue in regards to the sister's childhood problems, and made into an utter joke.

I'm not happy they even started this topic (I don't think it is worth calling these 4-5 episode a track, it was not worthy of that name), starting a topic on such a deep-rooted childhood issue and then wrapping it up in 4-5 episodes?? absolute injustice to ALL characters.

Pata nahi kya hoga😕😕

Originally posted by: Rope_of_Hope

Pooja he was missing his family becoz since 3 months he did not visit to his house..if they live separately that does not mean he cant visit his house na.

Moreover mishti is against living separately its becoz of her ghar tod tag.. abir is very much aware abt mishti insecurities so he did not force her to accept his idea if she wants abir will agree with mishti

In this whole sis track abir understood where the problem lies..but its impossible to solve its not in his hands that is why he said to mishti to find a solution..he indirectly told her to ignore

Do you think kunal has the best solution..Its kunal fault he did not handle it properly he is the one who got award and have talked with magazine people then why he did not call them and did not sort that issue..why he did not ask kuhu to shut her mouth while she was blaming mishti and cursing her..either kunal or meenu should have stopped..they both failed what will abir do??

@bold I was also looking forward to that but alas kya socha tha kya huwa💁

Meenu ji vali song hena ...

Us music se we lines acha jayega..aaj epi ki bareme:

Me aaj rasoi me aalu ubalrahi thi..

Aur tum phone leke mere pass arahithi...

Thab tumhari piche khoun tha..me thi..kisi aur thi..me thi..kisi aur thi..kaun thaaa??

Kuhu Ben..

E kuhu thi...kuhu thi...

Isne raaste me heel pehenliya...

Aur log ki neeche aagay aagay..aagay..

Just for fun

Originally posted by: Rope_of_Hope

Wowwwwww Nandu amazing👍🏼 thanks for this write up yaar🤗

Yaar I dont know since yesterday many mishbir fans bashing abir Why yaar..what he did he did show the reality to Mishti..he asked her to think abt living separately but she did not want that

Since Mishbir wedding they are facing problems becoz of kuhu not even a day they have enjoyed their marriage life

1 On their wedding day they struggled to get married on that day itself its becoz of kuhu(did abir know this) though mishti managed

2 second day first rasoi of mishti..kuhu created drama by breaking that infamous Haar

3. spiking coffee with pills..kuhu destroyed performing pooja

4. Holi kaand mishku talks its created rift between mishbir

5 kuhu breaking mishbir photo frames again mishbir had rift

6 both the brothers decided to solve sis rivalry they went to resort

7 even in that resort becoz of kuhu mishbir had heated argument they had rift..then murder mystry

8 then magazine issue..

Now tell me guys what you people expect from abir???..he have already suggested living alone but mishti did not want that

even he tried in his own ways to make kuhu understand but he failed..now he realized its impossible to make kuhu understand..

Either Mishti agree with abir to live alone or to learn to ignore kuhu otherwise mishbir will always have to fight with each other..if you are in abir place what will you do???what will you expect from your parter.??

Geetu🤗🤗thankyou yaar.

You pointed out everything perfectly.👏

Many times Abir has asked Mishti to consider living away from home, par she has always been hesitant and rightly so expressed her fears of being tagged as 'home-breaker' - Abir has constantly fought against that tag and will never allow anyone (especially BB) to give blame that on Mishti.

He knows how much Mishti values family, and he does too ofcourse. Mishti knows he loves his family, and doesn't want him to sacrifice his bond with the rest of the family just for her. Fair enough. But she never understood the severity of consequences she would have to face, if she continues to live in RV house, where no one has fully accepted her (except for Parul, naanu and maybe Kunal). Other than that, she will always have to deal with Kuhu and BB constant taunts and negativity. Abir has tried to point that out to Mishti - BB will never accept her, he cannot trust her because he knows his mother will not do anything without an ulterior motif. But Mishti was too optimistic and always forgetting all that BB has done to them - she still wanted Abir to remain calm, try to understand Meenu as a mother right? So why can't Abir ask Mishti to understand WHY Kuhu constantly blames her? Talk to her as a sister, to find out where the real issue lies? *the glaring issue is the fact that NO ONE was suggesting Kuhu to do the same (awful writing 👎🏼)

Abir is still unaware of quite a few truths in regards to Kuhu and things that happened privately between the sisters. Is that his fault? NO. Because Mishti hasn't ever opened up about it.

The makers haven't allowed either Abir nor Mishti to open up about their childhood insecurities to each other since Baba's track😒😔

It's all so heart-breaking to watch mishbir constantly struggle, fight and find their pyaara sa ghar💔

When will they be truly happy and in peace?💔❤️

^^^

I totally support living separately and Mishbir home is ❤️

But If Abir's relationship with his mother, Kunal, Nanu, Mama, Mami and Ketu is good, when Mishti's relationship with Meenu is getting better, why should they leave the house?

The problem is Kuhu, not Mishti or Abir

Originally posted by: -Viji-

Seriously??

Itna Keencha yeh topic, as Mish said, but aisa climax!!

I still cannot find a reason, why we had this track

Ab aar raha hai the famous Bachcha track 🤣

Hey Ambe maa!!!!!!!!!!!!

#SistersRemainSameToSame

I guess this is the purpose of the track 👇

Makers: viewers, Hum kuchh bhi kare , kuhu apne faults kabhi nahi dekhegi , dekh liya na 😕 , ho sakta hai a baby track will change her life 😃 so we are going for it 😳

Viewers: haan but 😕

Makers: no ifs and buts let the real track unfold first 😃

🤣

Originally posted by: Sarcastic_me

Discussion abt living separately was discussed like ages ago. None Dicuss it after dat. Even abir also don't Dicuss it. Only fans r struck to it

3 month dey were staying seperately. We saw how abir was missing his family. Mishti is not dat selfish dat she will see abir missing his family but still stay seperately. Dat's not mishti's characteristics.

Regarding fight of mishbir though I enjoy their scenes but yesterday's one didn't make any sense at all. Whole sis track didn't make any sense 🤷‍♀magazine ko leke tandav really. It's too immature

Kunal had d best suggestion out of all to handle d fight.

It doesn't matter how long ago the topic was discussed. Abir has always been ready to move away, because he had already predicted that staying together in RV house, with unpredictable volcanoes like BB and Kuhu will only bring trouble, will only bring chaos and negativity. That's why he always advised Mishti to consider living away (important to note he never forced her). But Mishti never realised the consequences that would arise due to living under the same roof as BB.

Ofcourse we know Mishti is not selfish to make Abir leave his family...but Mishti never understood that Abir wasn't sacrificing his family, but rather trying to build peace. He always clarified to Meenu & RV family...that living away doesn't mean you cut off ties, doesn't mean you stop caring, doesn't mean you leave responsibilities....living separately just means you can give space, you can create a peaceful environment whilst still maintaining relationships...because he knew BB (and now understands Kuhu too) will not let them live in peace and harmony.

If Abir wanted to..he could've given an ultimatum that Mishti must choose between adjusting with Kuhu or leave the RV house/family to live separately. But he doesn't do that, because he knows he cannot make Mishti choose like that...he knows neither of them can choose between family and love.

That's why he was insisting to at least solve the sister's issue properly by getting to bottom, getting to the roots. That is the only way the will be able to survive living in RV house; both Mishti and kuhu need to come to a compromise. Once again, I repeat, it is not Abir's responsibility to make Kuhu understand where she went wrong and how to fix it, he doesn't not have that haq or authority - he knows where to draw a line with his sister-in-law. That's why he turns to Mishti, he knows he has that liberty and haq to speak to Mishti openly about where she went wrong, and try to explain how to fix it - he trusts her and believes in their love that Mishti will understand.

Abir probably didn't use the best of words to explain all these (in-between the lines) properly to Mishti, because he thought automatically assumed that his best-friend-wala Mishti bina kuch kahe understood his intentions. Unfortunately both of them were too emotional to understand each other. That's ok. I'm sure given some time (2-3 more episodes) they would definitely explained their pov clearly and understood each other properly. Alas, the writers screwed it up by rushing to this kuhu accident...🤔

@Bold: you know at first, I also didn't understand why would they be make such a big drama on just a magazine cover page. But then I realised that...it wouldn't make sense if Kuhu blamed mishti with logic. Kuhu will take any small petty thing (with minimal logic) and blame it on Mishti. And so that's exactly what happened. And this time Mishti didn't take it lightly, she was fed up. Fair enough, I totally agree with that.

hehe wasn't aiming for such a long post...but oh well. 😆😆 It's a way of getting out these emotions

xxx

Originally posted by: Rope_of_Hope

Pooja he was missing his family becoz since 3 months he did not visit to his house..if they live separately that does not mean he cant visit his house na.

Moreover mishti is against living separately its becoz of her ghar tod tag.. abir is very much aware abt mishti insecurities so he did not force her to accept his idea if she wants abir will agree with mishti

In this whole sis track abir understood where the problem lies..but its impossible to solve its not in his hands that is why he said to mishti to find a solution..he indirectly told her to ignore

Do you think kunal has the best solution..Its kunal fault he did not handle it properly he is the one who got award and have talked with magazine people then why he did not call them and did not sort that issue..why he did not ask kuhu to shut her mouth while she was blaming mishti and cursing her..either kunal or meenu should have stopped..they both failed what will abir do??

Originally posted by: yrhpk_aus

Thankyou diya🤗

I'm just blown away...this maa-beta rishta is just so unique, complicated yet straightforward and just so so interesting.

THIS is the way TWO MATURE ADULTS discuss their difference in opinions👏👏👏

I frickin love the way these two talk, shout, argue about such REAL problems, yet still find a way to show care and concern for each other and the family together.

Seriously this Abir-Meenu bond is something else. I can't believe people like this can exist.

Kudos to the writers for such intriguing characters and big applause to Shah and Rupal ma'm for nailing these characters!👏👏

That last line: "Abir I don't agree with your method....Maa I don't agree with yours"

That's so simple and direct, they know they don't agree on something, but do you see them make a big rukus, yell, scream? NO, because they understand that both their intentions are for the well-being of the family, they just don't understand each other's methods that's all. They may not trust each other's methods/approaches...but deep down they believe in each other's intention, love and care.

Aghh I think this should be the highlight of the episode👏👏....but ofcourse, everyone one will be to busy creating fights between ML vs FL fandom fights🤔

Woah we have a meenu abir scene today? 😃 let me run to see the episode now 😎

Originally posted by: NoraSM

^^^

I totally support living separately and Mishbir home is ❤️

But If Abir's relationship with his mother, Kunal, Nanu, Mama, Mami and Ketu is good, when Mishti's relationship with Meenu is getting better, why should they leave the house?

The problem is Kuhu, not Mishti or Abir