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I really didn't want to say anything about episode because I love Abir and not trying to bash him 😶

Can anyone explain what does he want from Mishti?

Did he see Mishti fighting with Kuhu today? Like what do they want from her?

Originally posted by: NoraSM

I really didn't want to say anything about episode because I love Abir and not trying to bash him 😶

Can anyone explain what does he want from Mishti?

Did he see Mishti fighting with Kuhu today? Like what do they want from her?

The simple answer I have is TRP😆

They won't agree for romance or to become flirty taking couple .....

Next best thing for TRP is fight, blame n cry😆 they are doing that

Can abir just pack his bags n get lost?!

Let mishti and kuhu handle their issues.. Mishti aur kuhu se zyaada drama toh ye kar raha hai🤔

Yaar main sanskari hu bol bol ke kuch zyaada hi sanskari nikla ye abir🤓 itna sanskari toh gopi vahu aur Akshara bhi nhi the.. Aur itni mahaanta aaya kahan se hai iske paas? Gopi vahu Aur Akshara aur baaki dusre fl of Itv bhi itne mahaan nhi the jitna mahaan ye abir hai🤪

God thak gayi hu main Isse.. Bacha chahiye bachha chahiye.. Dimaag kharaab kar diya hai isne

The most unromantic ml I've ever seen.. I agree with cool even I want scenes where he praises mishti's beauty n flirts with her, gets desperate when he isn't able to spend time with her, when she's busy with family woh chupke se use door se dekhta n what not but kuch nhi mila😡.. Infact ye toh apni biwi ko chhod ke hi chala gaya n maze se uske sasural mein reh rha hai with his pyaar nanko n then he says to mishti that you think I'll leave you

Originally posted by: Cool_wonder

The simple answer I have is TRP😆

They won't agree for romance or to become flirty taking couple .....

Next best thing for TRP is fight, blame n cry😆 they are doing that

Its not making sense TBH

People do fight

Didn't everyone expect that half truth Varsha told Kunal and Abir getting to know full truth from BM will start conflict between two brothers?

Abir instigated Kuhu to fight, even if they had resolved issues, Kuhu would have fought thinking Mishti is going behind her back to put her down in Abir's eyes

Then Mishti didn't fight with Kuhu, Did anyone see Mishti fighting?

I am really not able to understand what are they expecting from them and what do they call fighting from Mishti's side? Are they expecting her to use Mr. India band whenever Kuhu comes in front of her?

Or I am confused, did Mishti fight with Kuhu?

Originally posted by: NoraSM

I really didn't want to say anything about episode because I love Abir and not trying to bash him 😶

Can anyone explain what does he want from Mishti?

Did he see Mishti fighting with Kuhu today? Like what do they want from her?

Abir wants her to have a talk with kuhu and understand the root cause of her issues from her perspective and try to sort it out. Which obviously is a Herculean task. This fighting won’t end any time soon. Might take a back seat due to mishti’a health

My two cents.... *warning this will be long*😵

• Mishti: Proud of her for trying to explain her long built-up frustration, guilt, dilemma and annoyance, in regards to her relationship with Kuhu. She is completely right, in saying that her relationship cannot be mended and fixed overnight. This is not something that will be solved just by forcing, pushing her and Kuhu together. This requires mutual and equal efforts from both parties in the battle, in order to come up with a suitable solution. THAT is what Mishti is trying to explain to Abir; no matter how much, how many or whatever Mishti tries to do and pacify, talk, discuss and make Kuhu understand - it just won't work. For Mishti, trying to explain anything to Kuhu has become like talking to a deaf person/to a brick wall. Kuhu has pushed and tested Mishti's patience way to much and so far that she's now pushed it over her breaking point. Well needed, there is only so much Mishti can put up with, she gains the strength and courage to not take anymore of Kuhu's tantrums because she felt she was safe and well supported by Abir and the rest of her family. And now seeing Abir's mixed reactions and BP emotional speech & Meenu's ultimatum - she's once again at cross roads of guilt vs frustration. We have seen numerous times over the show, when Mishti herself has brushed Kuhu's mistakes under the carpet for the sake of family and respect, but still given Kuhu her own-style of punishment (just scolding her). And each every time that happened, it goes through Kuhu's one ear and out the other - the only thing she holds on to is the fact that Mishti is still fighting with her, rather than remaining quiet. It is not sensible nor practical to expect Mishti to be the only mature one in the relationship, you cannot expect her to resolve the distance and hostility between the sisters one her own, when Kuhu herself doesn't even comprehend what she is doing is wrong and why? Mishti is finally coming to realise that she cannot keep on tolerating Kuhu, nor put up with her tantrums, because it no longer just affects her, but her relationship with Abir as well. It is great to see her have these open conversations (even if they are heated arguments) with Abir about her issues with Kuhu - THIS is a long overdue, given how much she's been hiding about their reality ever since kuku's haldi drama. She needs someone like Abir to be able to get all this off her chest, since she hasn't been able to complain about all this to BM and BP (due to her 'ehsaan' wala pyar). These are the kinds of things that make mishbir's relationship so intriguing, so realistic and so beautiful to watch unfold. Hopefully by the end of all this, either Mishti and Kuhu do find a way to be cordial with one another OR Mishti realises, that is it is better for them not to live under the same roof and is convinced to agree with Abir's long-time wish to stay away from family at least for sometime.
• Abir: Proud of him really trying to get to the bottom of this twisted dark hole, with the help of BM and BP. Like I mentioned a few days back, Abir is not used to handling fights and quarrels of this kind. His arguments with his mother are whole other ball-game - it is based on clash of ideologies and opinions on real issues, such as gender equality, family responsibilities etc. Unlike the sister's fights are solely based on blaming, misunderstandings and annoyance, 'she said this, she did that, how dare she say this, who gives her the right to do that, I didn't do it, she did it' and so on. Abir knows and understands that Mishti and Kuhu cannot be overnight besties, but at least they can remain genuinely cordial (similar to him and Meenu - they have their disagreements, but they do not allow those personal differences to cause rifts in the family, and when it comes to dire circumstances, they stand in support of each other). Yes, it's a practical and sensible expectation, and it's not out of character because that's how he has grown up and understood relationships. However, Abir cannot expect Mishti to keep up this level-headed responsible role, time n time again especially when Kuhu is being so unreasonable and unsporting. This is one of Abir flaws when it comes to relationships - he forgives way too easily, since he is just that innocent and kind-hearted soul. Although Mishti is also easy to forgive and forget, she doesn't let her big-heart be taken advantage for, past a certain limit. Especially when it comes to Kuhu, she has always put her sister back in her place, with solid scolding argument whenever she senses Kuhu crossing her limits. Abir isn't like that, he has never really fought for his own rights and self-respect against his family - except for only 2 occasions: 1. His quest to find Baba the missing piece to his childhood & 2. His fight to complete the missing piece to the rest of his life i.e bringing Mishti back into his life after breaking up with her. Those were the only 2 times he took stance against his family, for himself! Otherwise, he hasn't taken himself seriously at all. That's why Abir's little nautanki drama last week about feeling jealous of Kunal's achievement is such a intriguing topic. Even if he truly doesn't care whether his achievements are recognised and praised - the RV family honestly overlook his hardwork and achievements just because he works at his NGO rather than the family's business. Oops I digress...😆Anyway all I'm trying to say is Abir believes that each human has some goodness in them, which should not be taken away due to their flaws and mistakes. He believes, just because one commits a mistake, doesn't make them a horrible person; if the same person is willing to accept their mistake, seek genuine forgiveness and try to rectify it in the near future, then that's the best quality. There's no need to maintain a grudge on that person. He simply let's his anger go. Abir hasn't had any experience with dealing with someone of Kuhu's nature before - someone who doesn't accept her mistakes easily, and if somehow she does own up to it, she quickly goes back on her words/promises and returns back to her old mistakes. Abir is only now starting to learn about Kuhu's true character - The reasons for why she is quick to blame Mishti, why she doesn't realise the consequences of her deeds/mistakes & why she easily commits the same mistake again and again. He is now able to see and recognise how Kuhu feels the need to blame every small, petty issue on Mishti, he understands that Mishti has become her punching-bag. But Abir still unaware of the degree of hatred Kuhu has for Mishti, right now he still senses it's feeling of frustration, annoyance and jealousy - he is yet to find out about all the nasty insults she has thrown at Mishti's face (in their private fights); calling her a rescued puppy, taunting her she is not valued nor wanted "tu bas hai" and insulting her pyar for Abir. Unfortunately, Abir does not realise how deep-rooted hatred Kuhu has for Mishti, and that's not his fault. How is he supposed to understand the complications of this sister relationship, when Mishti and Kuhu themselves don't even know what it is. That's why he is making these efforts to learn about their childhood with the help of mah family.
• Kuhu & Kunal: Proud of nanko, trying to be the practical, rational yet still compassionate one in this whole fiasco. Kunal as usual is again assuming the role of a mediator between two cIashing horns. He has done a wonderful job of understanding Mishti's plight, but now it is time for him to step up his game as a empathetic husband. Simply being annoyed, and getting angry at Kuhu for her tantrums is not going to help at all. He needs to have more calm discussions with his wife, being a good active listener, by getting her to open up about WHY she feels the way she feels about Mishti.
• I honestly have no idea who will be the ideal person to sit with Kuhu and talk through her issues and sort out her insecurities with Mishti, because frankly anyone who says anything in favour of Mishti, is understood as bias in Kuhu's mind. She immediately feels that that the other person is favouring Mishti whilst, she is left out and misunderstood unfairly. Abir is capable of putting sense in to her head, but it is not his job to do so. Sure he shared a friendly bond with Kuhu, but at the end of the day Abir knows to draw the line at Kuhu is my brother's wife. Whereas Kuhu doesn't draw that line in her mind; for her, Abir is her friend, and so he should support her, but anytime he doesn't support her, he immediately becomes Mishti's husband. Why is that Kuhu forget this important title, when she plans, plots and curses against Mishti? How does she forget that automatic connection between Mishti and Abir as soulmates, if she harms Mishti, she is harming Abir. Abir is right to refuse the role of being a constant referee between the girls. Kunal can be a very important helper in getting Kuhu out of her insecurities and issues, but again we've seen it happen before - ever since Kunal has accepted Mishti whole-heartedly, Kuhu quickly names him as 'devar of the year'. That's why it's important for Kunal to distinguish that for Kuhu, he needs to show Kuhu that he is trying to be good husband by listening and helping her overcome her problem, rather than just siding with his bhabhi. BUT how will Kunal make her understand, when Kuhu herself is yet to understood nor accept that she has a problem. You cannot expect either of the husbands to be make Kuhu understand why she is wrong and how to solve her problem, when they themselves don't know why Kuhu is like this. Whenever someone tries to make her understand where she went wrong she immediately loses control over her rational senses and allows her deep emotions of jelousy and ager to take over. THAT is where the Varsha and Shaurya's parenting has gone wrong. Kuhu has never been taught nor understood the value of taking responsibility for your actions, nor accepting your mistakes or trying to rectify them. Neither has BM or BP called out Varsha for pampering Kuhu too much, nor put a full-stop to Jasmeet's constant Mishti taunts.
• That is why solving (or at least attempting to resolve) the sister's bond has to be done by the maheshwari family only. Only BM, BP and Varsha together can bring the girls together, and if that means the parents have to apologise for their poor parenting, then so be it. Both girls have suffered due to their twisted childhood, it's not fair to push them both away from the house, to sort these issues out like adults, when it actually roots from their childhood. This is where Meenu can be of help (instead of her dhamki), if she gave BM, BP and Varsha a good lesson about raising siblings with proper guidance, values then maybe, just maybe the maheshwari will be able to see why Mishti and Kuhu are not and cannot be like Abir and Kunal.

Okay that's enough for today. Yikes, I'm sorry for rambling on. Hope I made sense somewhere at least

🤗

xxx

Originally posted by: Appu1981

Mishti feels abir might leave her and BP/BP has ehsaan on her.. is she wrong??

Abir wants her to believe he will never leave her by leaving at the drop of a hat.. during resort and now

BP talks to mishti.. only mishti and guilt trips her into sorting differences with kuhu and to patch up with her.. and expects her not to feel obligated

👏👏👏👏

Noone confront Kuhu and her behaviour😡

Muh me Jo Aaye Woh BHI Kuhu bole phir bhi Mishti needs to say sorry ..I just hate the fact that Kuhu for not once have guilt in her eyes ..but every possible one is making Mishti guilty for something she never committed 👏👏👏👏👏

Originally posted by: NoraSM

I really didn't want to say anything about episode because I love Abir and not trying to bash him 😶

Can anyone explain what does he want from Mishti?

Did he see Mishti fighting with Kuhu today? Like what do they want from her?

Seriously Abir argument was senseless😆

Originally posted by: yrhpk_aus

My two cents.... *warning this will be long*😵

• Mishti: Proud of her for trying to explain her long built-up frustration, guilt, dilemma and annoyance, in regards to her relationship with Kuhu. She is completely right, in saying that her relationship cannot be mended and fixed overnight. This is not something that will be solved just by forcing, pushing her and Kuhu together. This requires mutual and equal efforts from both parties in the battle, in order to come up with a suitable solution. THAT is what Mishti is trying to explain to Abir; no matter how much, how many or whatever Mishti tries to do and pacify, talk, discuss and make Kuhu understand - it just won't work. For Mishti, trying to explain anything to Kuhu has become like talking to a deaf person/to a brick wall. Kuhu has pushed and tested Mishti's patience way to much and so far that she's now pushed it over her breaking point. Well needed, there is only so much Mishti can put up with, she gains the strength and courage to not take anymore of Kuhu's tantrums because she felt she was safe and well supported by Abir and the rest of her family. And now seeing Abir's mixed reactions and BP emotional speech & Meenu's ultimatum - she's once again at cross roads of guilt vs frustration. We have seen numerous times over the show, when Mishti herself has brushed Kuhu's mistakes under the carpet for the sake of family and respect, but still given Kuhu her own-style of punishment (just scolding her). And each every time that happened, it goes through Kuhu's one ear and out the other - the only thing she holds on to is the fact that Mishti is still fighting with her, rather than remaining quiet. It is not sensible nor practical to expect Mishti to be the only mature one in the relationship, you cannot expect her to resolve the distance and hostility between the sisters one her own, when Kuhu herself doesn't even comprehend what she is doing is wrong and why? Mishti is finally coming to realise that she cannot keep on tolerating Kuhu, nor put up with her tantrums, because it no longer just affects her, but her relationship with Abir as well. It is great to see her have these open conversations (even if they are heated arguments) with Abir about her issues with Kuhu - THIS is a long overdue, given how much she's been hiding about their reality ever since kuku's haldi drama. She needs someone like Abir to be able to get all this off her chest, since she hasn't been able to complain about all this to BM and BP (due to her 'ehsaan' wala pyar). These are the kinds of things that make mishbir's relationship so intriguing, so realistic and so beautiful to watch unfold. Hopefully by the end of all this, either Mishti and Kuhu do find a way to be cordial with one another OR Mishti realises, that is it is better for them not to live under the same roof and is convinced to agree with Abir's long-time wish to stay away from family at least for sometime.
• Abir: Proud of him really trying to get to the bottom of this twisted dark hole, with the help of BM and BP. Like I mentioned a few days back, Abir is not used to handling fights and quarrels of this kind. His arguments with his mother are whole other ball-game - it is based on clash of ideologies and opinions on real issues, such as gender equality, family responsibilities etc. Unlike the sister's fights are solely based on blaming, misunderstandings and annoyance, 'she said this, she did that, how dare she say this, who gives her the right to do that, I didn't do it, she did it' and so on. Abir knows and understands that Mishti and Kuhu cannot be overnight besties, but at least they can remain genuinely cordial (similar to him and Meenu - they have their disagreements, but they do not allow those personal differences to cause rifts in the family, and when it comes to dire circumstances, they stand in support of each other). Yes, it's a practical and sensible expectation, and it's not out of character because that's how he has grown up and understood relationships. However, Abir cannot expect Mishti to keep up this level-headed responsible role, time n time again especially when Kuhu is being so unreasonable and unsporting. This is one of Abir flaws when it comes to relationships - he forgives way too easily, since he is just that innocent and kind-hearted soul. Although Mishti is also easy to forgive and forget, she doesn't let her big-heart be taken advantage for, past a certain limit. Especially when it comes to Kuhu, she has always put her sister back in her place, with solid scolding argument whenever she senses Kuhu crossing her limits. Abir isn't like that, he has never really fought for his own rights and self-respect against his family - except for only 2 occasions: 1. His quest to find Baba the missing piece to his childhood & 2. His fight to complete the missing piece to the rest of his life i.e bringing Mishti back into his life after breaking up with her. Those were the only 2 times he took stance against his family, for himself! Otherwise, he hasn't taken himself seriously at all. That's why Abir's little nautanki drama last week about feeling jealous of Kunal's achievement is such a intriguing topic. Even if he truly doesn't care whether his achievements are recognised and praised - the RV family honestly overlook his hardwork and achievements just because he works at his NGO rather than the family's business. Oops I digress...😆Anyway all I'm trying to say is Abir believes that each human has some goodness in them, which should not be taken away due to their flaws and mistakes. He believes, just because one commits a mistake, doesn't make them a horrible person; if the same person is willing to accept their mistake, seek genuine forgiveness and try to rectify it in the near future, then that's the best quality. There's no need to maintain a grudge on that person. He simply let's his anger go. Abir hasn't had any experience with dealing with someone of Kuhu's nature before - someone who doesn't accept her mistakes easily, and if somehow she does own up to it, she quickly goes back on her words/promises and returns back to her old mistakes. Abir is only now starting to learn about Kuhu's true character - The reasons for why she is quick to blame Mishti, why she doesn't realise the consequences of her deeds/mistakes & why she easily commits the same mistake again and again. He is now able to see and recognise how Kuhu feels the need to blame every small, petty issue on Mishti, he understands that Mishti has become her punching-bag. But Abir still unaware of the degree of hatred Kuhu has for Mishti, right now he still senses it's feeling of frustration, annoyance and jealousy - he is yet to find out about all the nasty insults she has thrown at Mishti's face (in their private fights); calling her a rescued puppy, taunting her she is not valued nor wanted "tu bas hai" and insulting her pyar for Abir. Unfortunately, Abir does not realise how deep-rooted hatred Kuhu has for Mishti, and that's not his fault. How is he supposed to understand the complications of this sister relationship, when Mishti and Kuhu themselves don't even know what it is. That's why he is making these efforts to learn about their childhood with the help of mah family.
• Kuhu & Kunal: Proud of nanko, trying to be the practical, rational yet still compassionate one in this whole fiasco. Kunal as usual is again assuming the role of a mediator between two cIashing horns. He has done a wonderful job of understanding Mishti's plight, but now it is time for him to step up his game as a empathetic husband. Simply being annoyed, and getting angry at Kuhu for her tantrums is not going to help at all. He needs to have more calm discussions with his wife, being a good active listener, by getting her to open up about WHY she feels the way she feels about Mishti.
• I honestly have no idea who will be the ideal person to sit with Kuhu and talk through her issues and sort out her insecurities with Mishti, because frankly anyone who says anything in favour of Mishti, is understood as bias in Kuhu's mind. She immediately feels that that the other person is favouring Mishti whilst, she is left out and misunderstood unfairly. Abir is capable of putting sense in to her head, but it is not his job to do so. Sure he shared a friendly bond with Kuhu, but at the end of the day Abir knows to draw the line at Kuhu is my brother's wife. Whereas Kuhu doesn't draw that line in her mind; for her, Abir is her friend, and so he should support her, but anytime he doesn't support her, he immediately becomes Mishti's husband. Why is that Kuhu forget this important title, when she plans, plots and curses against Mishti? How does she forget that automatic connection between Mishti and Abir as soulmates, if she harms Mishti, she is harming Abir. Abir is right to refuse the role of being a constant referee between the girls. Kunal can be a very important helper in getting Kuhu out of her insecurities and issues, but again we've seen it happen before - ever since Kunal has accepted Mishti whole-heartedly, Kuhu quickly names him as 'devar of the year'. That's why it's important for Kunal to distinguish that for Kuhu, he needs to show Kuhu that he is trying to be good husband by listening and helping her overcome her problem, rather than just siding with his bhabhi. BUT how will Kunal make her understand, when Kuhu herself is yet to understood nor accept that she has a problem. You cannot expect either of the husbands to be make Kuhu understand why she is wrong and how to solve her problem, when they themselves don't know why Kuhu is like this. Whenever someone tries to make her understand where she went wrong she immediately loses control over her rational senses and allows her deep emotions of jelousy and ager to take over. THAT is where the Varsha and Shaurya's parenting has gone wrong. Kuhu has never been taught nor understood the value of taking responsibility for your actions, nor accepting your mistakes or trying to rectify them. Neither has BM or BP called out Varsha for pampering Kuhu too much, nor put a full-stop to Jasmeet's constant Mishti taunts.
• That is why solving (or at least attempting to resolve) the sister's bond has to be done by the maheshwari family only. Only BM, BP and Varsha together can bring the girls together, and if that means the parents have to apologise for their poor parenting, then so be it. Both girls have suffered due to their twisted childhood, it's not fair to push them both away from the house, to sort these issues out like adults, when it actually roots from their childhood. This is where Meenu can be of help (instead of her dhamki), if she gave BM, BP and Varsha a good lesson about raising siblings with proper guidance, values then maybe, just maybe the maheshwari will be able to see why Mishti and Kuhu are not and cannot be like Abir and Kunal.

Okay that's enough for today. Yikes, I'm sorry for rambling on. Hope I made sense somewhere at least

🤗

xxx

Love love love you for writing this🤗🤗

You've written so beautifully about Abhir n Mishti.......I will refrain calling them MishBir..... Because I don't see the point frankly

Agree to every point you've told Nandu..... Abhir is trying to handle this just the way he handles his conflicts with Meenu.. But this is a different ball game........

Him calling Mishti a kid really got me in a wrong side......... I've no idea what Abhir wants

N I don't understand why Mishti is blaming herself hearing bade Papa n Meenu n Abhir..... Family is enough to do that.... Infact kuhu alone is enough.......

I really don't want Mishti to talk to anyone..... Just run away..n let Abhir to run away somewhere else coz all this is effecting him

Anyway..... Sirf namesake couple banne ka kya faidaaa.....

Originally posted by: LetThereBeLight

Nandu panda 🤗 aagaye meri jaan...

Totally I love all this discussion, I feel our show is yet again giving some amazing episodes with some reality n message... And focusing on important things... Ofcourse we like always have issue with execution with bby thing mix up... But over all this is so good...

But nandu involving mah family is not good I feel... See kuhu gets liverage as she has support there n mish guilt trip with bp/bm... Like Abir said she will only think of bp/bm ehsaan, varsha jas like Meenu said to influence kuhu...

Rjv can handle this alone n better way, they won't be biased like how Meenu pointed even abir was in picture which kuhu seems to forget everytime... To see whole picture n hear them both out without bias rjv must only be involved..

And about bby I have written something in pg 6 see it... Hope I made sense...

Haan diyu, I'm always here but trying to be silent observer for the most part😆 There are soo many stakeholders and different pov in this situation, I cannot make a judgement based on each episode. Like Uru says, one track at a time👍🏼 But I do love the discussions happening here. Much much better than the chaos on sns since last few days🤔 (better not to talk about it).

I actually think it is most important to have maheshwari involved. The extent to which the sister's relationship as snowballed in to, is a result of the seed they have sown when they were kids. Without trying to resolve their issues, they got these girls married into the same house. They constantly use the band-aid theory of patch-up. They cannot leave their responsibilities as parents, and expect the girls to patch-up just for the sake of in-laws and their family reputation, that won't happen overnight. Like you said there is bias for Mishti from BP and BM and then bias for Kuhu from Varsha (And Jas), but that glaring flaw needs to be called out. And who best than Meenu?😎😆 I wish instead of this dhamki and ultimatum drama, Meenu and BP have an actual real tashan about parenting. Both Meenu and BP&Varsha have made their fair share of mistakes in parenting, but right now, BB has all the rights to voice her anger, as she has seen her nightmare come to life with her two sons choosing to stay away from home due to her bahus. I really want a fiesty tashan between BP and Meenu (it's long overdue), but dekh kar aise nahi lagta

Haan I saw your post about the baby mention. I see what you're trying to say, in general i too feel Abir was trying to make a statement to make Mishti see the aftermath and consequences if these kinds of petty fights kept re-surfacing even later in life. That makes sense, and given mishbir have started to talk about having a family of their own, it makes valid sense he would bring something up like that. I didn't really pay much attention to that last dialogue of Abir. Once again the writers are purposely trying to rile up the fandom by making Abir say contentious things like pre-lockdown, in mishbir fight he said "tumse baat kar lagta hai, jaise main Maa se baat kar raha hu", then a couple episodes ago he said to Mishti "tum hari wajse...tum dono" and now this "tum abhi bhi bachi ho" - these are all marketing and drama-build up techniques yaar. They always say these kinds of high-voltage drama dialogues towards the end of the episodes, to keep the viewers glued to see what happens next. I just choose not to focus on them.

p.s I wrote my two cents on pg 11