Spotlights - Aug 21 - Coolie Number 1 and 2 - Page 2

Originally posted by: pallavi25

This is what Abir said and Mish replied:

Abir - Mishti, Tumne realize bhi kiya hai, tumhari wajah se ghar pe sab kitne pareshan hai?

Mishti - Meri Vajah se?

Abir - Nahi, Tum dono ki vajah se

Mishti - To tumhe lagta hai ki sari galti meri hai?

Abir - Nahi, Galti sari meri hai. I am sorry Mishti, meri Galti hai, pata nahi Itna ladne ka stamina aa kaha se jata hai?

Mishti - Abir, tum mujhse aise kyon baat kar rahe ho, what's wrong with you?

Aur mujhse jhuti ummeed lagana band karo ki mai yaha sabki baat sunte baithungi

Abir didn’t ask her to say Sorry but he said Tumhari vajeh Se ghar mein sab pareshan hain

Really? Abir also joined in the MKVS gang? Was that fair of Abir? Did all that happen MKVS or because of Kuhu’s demented accusations?
Then Abir says Mishti has Ladne ki stamina ....again like their fight at the Resort when he said she fights too much!

Can’t he see what Kuhu is saying and doing? Like Mishti says why should she always sit muh mein dahi jamakar and take everyone’s abuse?
Abir also fought all the time with his mother against her injustices and Kunal was the referee stuck in the middle so why does he expect Mishti to accept Kuhu’s injustice?

I can clearly see writers are preparing us for the upcoming awful Surrogacy track where Mishti will be humiliated at every step but she will quietly accept all injustices for Abir’s sake!

Sorry pali and pallu for entering the conversation but just can't resist the oh so amazing judgements at abir on drop of a hat today !!

1. Abir and kunal involved the family because the family is already involved dude , mishti and kuhu fought it publicly in front of everyone, in front of mahs and RVs... abinal tried to calm them down privately in their own ways but nothing concrete happened cuz none of the girls cared to listen....they were in a mood to rant thats all , they had to include the family and other members because the girls were uncomfortable and they needed other close members to understand the situation and help them out ....

2. I don't know about others , it may be the case for varsha and kuhu but none of the members asked mishti to apologise or bow down , especially BP BM or abir, who happens to be her strongest supporters ..so stop victimising her , at least in the situation where she wasn't really a victim ...infact even abir apologised to kunal, let's make him a victim and try to understand him too

3. Abir saying he dosent want to be a referee means there is a limit to keeping up the fights , he had.enough fot himself, he needs peace ...he can't tolerate it anymore, if suffering from PTSD, he was also supporting her throughout and going through the trauma and struggles ...

he himself these fights are more intense and vile than his fights with meenu

that NO WHERE means he wants her to apologise ...that just means he wants to end the issue once and for all in a way that serves justice to everyone !! Simple as that ...

4. He did not blame mishti for the problems but yeah he did tell her that fight went over board ...and mishti too had a role to play there ...sorry I don't deny what he said ... kunal literally called her spoilt brat and showed her the place ... !! It's not like he was supporting kuhu and asked mishti to apologise, did he ?

5. What were abinal saying ,.that they expect situation to be handled calmly thats all ....have you ever seen abinal fighting and invoking their respective spouses like this and expect them to take stands?

6. This is not like the resort thing where boys are asking girls to shut up and put up with the situation, rather they are asking the girls to get into the roots of the issues and sort it out .... they themselves are there to help them ...

Do you want everyone to just fight or you want some people to remain calm and handle the situation too ?

tell me one thing how does it feel to see your spouse involving into an ugly cat fight in front of your big joint famlly, yes mishti was not wrong I throwing words at kuhu's face , but was she completely right? No , even she misunderstood kuhu ( not blaming mishti but just stating fact ) ...abir had 2 options , either fully support mishti, be a party to fight and make is messier for everyone or remain the calmer one and get into the root cause of the fight ..he choose to be the second one ... I don't know but when I see some one fighting or being angry, my first reaction is also to ask them to calm down, besides abir also doesn't know what exactly is the experience and level of bitterness between the sisters ...it ranges to their childhood , AM are yet to discuss this in lengths ...we can't expect abir to understand everything without being told about it

N this is something what mishti also does , meenu and abir ending up fighting a lot , but mishti doesn't get involved between throwing words and start fighting she remains the calmer one and asks abir to calm down , just like abir asked her to think from kuhu's pov for a while , mishti also asks him to think from meenu's pov for a while....that doesn't make abir a bro supporter or mishti a meenu's supporter

in a couple when one becomes an angry bird, the other one has to take up a role of being the calm bird ...that's what AM do ... they had difference of opinions because both of them were too pumped up to listen to each other thats all ...

He can't stop mishti from fighting, therefore he let her speak what she wanted to with kuhu but beyond a point he can't encourage her to go on and on and on ...so he asked her to calm down ...

He never asked her to apologise or bow down or even agree with him , he just asked her to calm down

If this gesture makes him a villain type of husband to mishti or makes him a blind bro supporter so be it then !!

This is my last attempt to write anything in defense of abir ...

Originally posted by: Onyourface

1. Abir and kunal involved the family because the family is already involved dude , mishti and kuhu fought it publicly in front of everyone, in front of mahs and RVs... abinal tried to calm them down privately in their own ways but nothing concrete happened cuz none of the girls cared to listen....they were in a mood to rant thats all , they had to include the family and other members because the girls were uncomfortable and they needed other close members to understand the situation and help them out ....

2. I don't know about others , it may be the case for varsha and kuhu but none of the members asked mishti to apologise or bow down , especially BP BM or abir, who happens to be her strongest supporters ..so stop victimising her , at least in the situation where she wasn't really a victim

3. Abir saying he dosent want to be a referee means there is a limit to keeping up the fights , he had.enough fot himself, he needs peace ...he can't tolerate it anymore, he himself these fights are more intense and vile than his fights with meenu

that NO WHERE means he wants her to apologise ...that just means he wants to end the issue once and for all in a way that serves justice to everyone !! Simple as that ...

4. He did not blame mishti for the problems but yeah he did tell her that fight went over board ...and mishti too had a role to play there ...sorry I don't deny what he said ... kunal literally called her spoilt brat and showed her the place ... !! It's not like he was supporting kuhu and asked mishti to apologise, did he ?

5. What were abinal saying ,.that they expect situation to be handled calmly thats all ....have you ever seen abinal fighting and invoking their respective spouses like this and expect them to take stands?

6. This is not like the resort thing where boys are asking girls to shut up and put up with the situation, rather they are asking the girls to get into the roots of the issues and sort it out .... they themselves are there to help them ...

Do you want everyone to just fight or you want some people to remain calm and handle the situation too ?

Abir clearly said Tumhari vajeh Se .... was that justified?

So Abir didn’t ask her to apologize but he did say MKVS which is totally unjustified

RJV house has fights and drama all the time, maximum times in the past Mishti has apologized to Meenu or others for no fault of hers in most cases, Abir knows this very well

He also knows Kuhu’s vindictive actions against Mishti like email hacking and blackmailing letters. Why does he expect Mishti to accept Kuhu’s abuses everytime?

I love Abir’s character and have better expectations from him than this!
1. The girls didn’t fight in front of the Mahs but BM and Varsha fought because of Mish Ku, that’s what infuriated Mishti again to do the 2nd round

2. Mishti apologized to BM already while Kuhu is still on her ego trip! Doesn’t Mishti apologize everytime even when it’s not her fault? Only BP supported her at that time when she was emotionally blackmailed to say sorry to Meenu for no fault of hers! Whether one admits or not Mishti is a charity case in Mah household! Only BP is on her side always and never lets her bend down before anybody!
3. Yeah we know Abir is a pacifist except when fighting with mommy dearest 😆 Again he didn’t ask Mishti to say sorry but he did blame her equally and expect her to conform and adjust! You can’t adjust to illogical hatred, it’s impossible! Best thing would have been to let Mishti calm down through the night and in the morning he should have called the publishers to clear the matter once and for all. Covering up stuff by shutting up is not the right way

It’s easy for Abir to tell Mishti to calm down but he should give her time and space to do so..,..instead of going to Mah house to snitch the boys should have gone somewhere else and given wives a scare or a chance to reflect and reconsider.

PS: Let us agree to disagree, I’m a fan of Abir, Mishti and Mishbir, if Mishti asked him to lower himself for ghar ki sukh shanti I would berate her too! Abir is not defending Bro or asking Mishti to say sorry but he’s placing equal blame on her and saying she fights too much, that is what I object to!

Pyaar jhukne nahin deta, Sar uthakar jeena sikhata hai 😊

Originally posted by: pallavi25

Abir clearly said Tumhari vajeh Se .... was that justified?

So Abir didn’t ask her to apologize but he did say MKVS which is totally unjustified

RJV house has fights and drama all the time, maximum times in the past Mishti has apologized to Meenu or others for no fault of hers in most cases, Abir knows this very well

He also knows Kuhu’s vindictive actions against Mishti like email hacking and blackmailing letters. Why does he expect Mishti to accept Kuhu’s abuses everytime?

I love Abir’s character and have better expectations from him than this!
1. The girls didn’t fight in front of the Mahs but BM and Varsha fought because of Mish Ku, that’s what infuriated Mishti again to do the 2nd round

2. Mishti apologized to BM already while Kuhu is still on her ego trip! Doesn’t Mishti apologize everytime even when it’s not her fault? Only BP supported her at that time when she was emotionally blackmailed to say sorry to Meenu for no fault of hers! Whether one admits or not Mishti is a charity case in Mah household! Only BP is on her side always and never lets her bend down before anybody!
3. Yeah we know Abir is a pacifist except when fighting with mommy dearest 😆 Again he didn’t ask Mishti to say sorry but he did blame her equally and expect her to conform and adjust! You can’t adjust to illogical hatred, it’s impossible! Best thing would have been to let Mishti calm down through the night and in the morning he should have called the publishers to clear the matter once and for all. Covering up stuff by shutting up is not the right way

It’s easy for Abir to tell Mishti to calm down but he should give her time and space to do so..,..instead of going to Mah house to snitch the boys should have gone somewhere else and given wives a scare or a chance to reflect and reconsider.

You judge abir on the basis of one "Tumhari wajah se ? " which was later corrected by him ....but oh well only mishti can indulge in cat fights and talk nonsense in the heat of the moment but abir cant 😃 so much because of the one line ...😳 Good validation for abir's character from your side 👏

So even abir has also apologised to mahs so many times in the past not just because of kuhu, because of nishant, because of kunal , because of meenu 🤣 Apologies ke basis pe sympathy leni aur victim hi banana hai toh abir coffee aage hai usme 🤣 infact abir also apologised for the incident in the beginning only ...but poor boy victim card nahi mila audience ka ...😆

He said accept kuhu's abuses? Kab kahan aisa ? After coming back to RVs hasn't abir warned mishti to stay away from kuhu ? Batao after lockdown warning nahi di thi abir ne ? Hasn't he called out kuhu ? Then sisters became all lovely dovey, then sisters fight on their own , mishti was strong enough and fought on her own...so abir didn't speak much as simple as that .. that doesn't mean he was against mishti 😆

Lol , bp asked her not to say sorry 😆 Chalo agreed , let's go back to that incident and also remind yourself that abir came back there and supported her and that was the actual day when he asked mishti to share the truth about anything that is bothering her ... yeah woh same BP hai na who later wanted mishti to forcefully marry nishant 😆

No abir isn't a real pacifist if that is what your understanding is then you are wrong....he calls out people only when he confirms the whole truth , he did call out kuhu when he knew the exact truth about her ...also saying tumhari wajah se was a mention to 2nd fight round which was done because mishti misunderstood kuhu when she said kuhu informed mahs , she clearly did not, we know that ...

Boys were equally upset , so they went where they felt they were comfortable...the ideal was to contact the publishing house of course , but no one did it , ek dusre ko blame karne se time milega toh karenge na 😆 Isiliye abir sahi kehta tha ke calm down ...😆

Originally posted by: Onyourface

You judge abir on the basis of one "Tumhari wajah se ? " which was later corrected by him ....but oh well only mishti can indulge in cat fights and talk nonsense in the heat of the moment but abir cant 😃 so much because of the one line ...😳 Good validation for abir's character from your side 👏

So even abir has also apologised to mahs so many times in the past not just because of kuhu, because of nishant, because of kunal , because of meenu 🤣 Apologies ke basis pe sympathy leni aur victim hi banana hai toh abir coffee aage hai usme 🤣 infact abir also apologised for the incident in the beginning only ...but poor boy victim card nahi mila audience ka ...😆

He said accept kuhu's abuses? Kab kahan aisa ? After coming back to RVs hasn't abir warned mishti to stay away from kuhu ? Batao after lockdown warning nahi di thi abir ne ? Hasn't he called out kuhu ? Then sisters became all lovely dovey, then sisters fight on their own , mishti was strong enough and fought on her own...so abir didn't speak much as simple as that .. that doesn't mean he was against mishti 😆

Lol , bp asked her not to say sorry 😆 Chalo agreed , let's go back to that incident and also remind yourself that abir came back there and supported her and that was the actual day when he asked mishti to share the truth about anything that is bothering her ... yeah woh same BP hai na who later wanted mishti to forcefully marry nishant 😆

No abir isn't a real pacifist if that is what your understanding is then you are wrong....he calls out people only when he confirms the whole truth , he did call out kuhu when he knew the exact truth about her ...also saying tumhari wajah se was a mention to 2nd fight round which was done because mishti misunderstood kuhu when she said kuhu informed mahs , she clearly did not, we know that ...

Boys were equally upset , so they went where they felt they were comfortable...the ideal was to contact the publishing house of course , but no one did it , ek dusre ko blame karne se time milega toh karenge na 😆 Isiliye abir sahi kehta tha ke calm down ...😆

Let us agree to disagree, I’m a fan of Abir, Mishti and Mishbir, if Mishti asked him to adjust and bend himself for ghar ki sukh shanti I would berate her too! Abir is not defending Bro or asking Mishti to say sorry but he’s placing equal blame on her and saying she fights too much, that is what I object to!

Pyaar jhukne nahin deta, Sar uthakar jeena sikhata hai 😊

Originally posted by: pallavi25

Let us agree to disagree, I’m a fan of Abir, Mishti and Mishbir, if Mishti asked him to adjust and bend himself for ghar ki sukh shanti I would berate her too! Abir is not defending Bro or asking Mishti to say sorry but he’s placing equal blame on her and saying she fights too much, that is what I object to!

Pyaar jhukne nahin deta, Sar uthakar jeena sikhata hai 😊

Yeah better 😆

Mujhe kabhi bolne ki zarurat nahi padi main kiski fan hu 😳 Bcoz I have never judged mishti or abir with separate set of standards it remains same for both...

You should have berated mishti then when he recently asked her to move out of the house and settle somewhere as the family keeps insulting her but she said she wants to stay with the family bcoz they are important to her as much as abir

Exactly pyaar jhookh ne nahi deta ...that's why abir asked her to calm down and not compromise...you can always disagree !

Originally posted by: Onyourface

Yeah better 😆

Mujhe kabhi bolne ki zarurat nahi padi main kiski fan hu 😳 Bcoz I have never judged mishti or abir with separate set of standards it remains same for both...

You should have berated mishti then when he recently asked her to move out of the house and settle somewhere as the family keeps insulting her but she said she wants to stay with the family bcoz they are important to her as much as abir

Exactly pyaar jhookh ne nahi deta ...that's why abir asked her to calm down and not compromise...you can always disagree !

We always want Mishti to move out but she and her family jaap 😔 She loves Abir too much so she sacrifices her own ego as she knows Abir missed his own family.

Besides that was her PTSD phase also and she said she felt better after coming home.....sometimes just ghar mein rehna feels better even if gharwale are tormenting her but Abir was solidly beside her and protecting her at all times!

If Mishbir moved out we know show is over 😆

If Abir only asked her to calm down then she would have eventually, but those added Tumhari vajeh Se and kitna ladti ho....triggered Mishti again instead of calming her! You know that....😆