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Originally posted by: The_incredible

https://twitter.com/Angel_ST1210/status/1247839965393735681?s=09

Omg..Sha is gonna paint👏👏lagta hai Abir ka asar kuch zyada hi horaha hai😆😆

as sha said many times, sha is abir and abir is sha...😆

Originally posted by: The_incredible

I didn't even see Navya..😆😆my mother used to say that he did another show in starplus when she saw him as Arjun..see even she knew him before itself..I was so late..🤣🤣

Originally posted by: LetThereBeLight

haan you are not seeing the re run in TV n also vaishu post haina see that rhea is having shoulder length hair only... after leap was her original hair now she cut it short too 😆

nothing new jaan you say something 😆🤗

I didn’t like her cut 👎🏼

She looked weird

I loved her hair during the mandap decoration date but not this new haircut 💇🏻‍♀️ 👎🏼

Originally posted by: Onyourface

That's a brilliant analysis to mishti's character , I think you decoded most of it

Bold 1 and 2 - don't you feel these two statements are contradictory? I don't agree with the first statement, on the contrary I feel she expects a lot from people around , a constant validation that they won't leave her , that they will accept her the way she is , that's why sometimes she goes out of the way because she wants people to stay back , she has lived that life for some years where she was all lonely, technically no but emotionally yes , so dosent wish to go in those dark years again neither she wants people around her to go there ans spend a lonely life , the helping is her way of giving an assurance to others that don't be afraid , I won't let you suffer alone , I'm there with you....

I know a lot of the extreme reactions she assumes herself on her own like BP getting an heart attack if he gets to know about am rishta, abir getting totally mad at her spying on baba, but she is not wrong is assuming them, if you see from her side, people just left her one by one without giving her proper closures , the ones who adopted her never really tried to explain the big picture even when she became an adult, plus the constant taunts that she comes from a broken family, she doesn't deserve to stay here , she is responsible for 1000% of the miseries , all this leads a low self esteem and confidence beyond a point and that leads to a point where you seek out for the constant assurance and validation and that you deserve to be loved , you deserve to be respected and you deserve to be at this place ....her constant struggle to get a validation becomes a reason for her unhealthiness in relationships , plus mishti is generally a person who has a helping nature she tries to cross oceans for those who have shown no signs of crossing puddles for her , but what she fails to understand is that not all who ask for help are actually seeking out for her help , some are just manipulating her to create a blunder , meenu tops the list 😆 and some just wish to solve the matters in their own way like kuhu.

She feels so secured with abir , the main reason is her relationship with abir is something she formed out of her own will , she own desire to spend a life with him, to love him beyond infinity , all the other relationships were circumstantial for her , those relationships were formed because some people decided to leave her and that's why some accepted her ...she sees it that way , that's why the constant repayment of ehsaan goes there but with abir , he didnt adopt her , he didn't accept her because someone left her, he loved her because he accepted the kind of girl she is , just the way she is , and he acknowledged that aspects of her personality that somewhere she deeply loved about herself 😳 and now she is sure he won't leave her, so in truest form vo zidd karna seekh gayi hai 😃

Bold and italics - and this brilliant part just sums my post ❤️ - she is on the path of a beautiful realisation now, it's her path to be free from all the burden that she was unnecessarily carring on herself for all the years 😳 and I am so happy and proud of mishti , that this time, meenu constantly asked her to find about the coffee kaand person and inform her first but this time she broke the chain and decided to inform abir first and did that too 😎

Perfect.... perfectly put my gurujiiiiiiii 👍🏼👏😎🤗🤗

I agree to these amazing points you put👍🏼😳

mishtis love for Abhir is something which she accepted without any kind of baggage

2. Bade papa and badi maa ka love is beautiful but it’s like Baggage for mishti.. she has that thought of indebtedness in her which applies for everyone in Maheshwari family

3. She never had her real parents around

4. I felt somewhere she didn’t care for anyone else’s attention

Before meeting abhir he sole intension was Badi maa and bade papa should never repent getting her home or for loving her

Frankly she didn’t even care about kuhu blabbering much.. Others never came in her radar... yes she is a sweet natured girl and is amazing with all .... but she never backed out from speaking her mind to others * not maheshwari family*

here she really has become ziddi and does throw Tantrums before abhir, Kunal, kuhu because here she does not have that baggage of being the ACCEPTED ONE......

This rajvansh house is her house

People there are her family

And abhir.... is a part of her.... and she has total right on herself ☺️☺️☺️
She need not prove anything as of now ....