Why is Mishti’s mistake forgotten so easily ? - Page 6

Originally posted by: The_incredible

I dont want to indulge in a fight..plz leave the matter here for good .

Originally posted by: yyyy

No one is justifying spiking of coffee atleast me but are asking one question .If Mishti can slap Kuhu for this why not extend the same treatment to her best friend or why didn’t she apologize to Abir for putting his life in danger because of her stupid jealousy plan in jungle .Its not about how wrong Kuhu is it’s about Mishti’s double standard which you clearly like to ignore and focus only on Kuhu’s mistakes .

If Kuhu is wrong in spiking the drink then Mishti was equally wrong in jungle scene period .

Well I would advise you the same pls watch the show again

Okay I do not want to get into this discussion, but thought I should clarify something.

The jungle incident, Mishti did apologize to Abir when they were trapped in the jungle itself.

Regarding slapping Nishant, unlike Kuhu he did admit that he was wrong and he did put Abir's life in danger unlike Kuhu who didn't own up to her mistake until confronted by Mishti. Then too she justified herself by saying it was intended for Mishti. Also, what was she supposed to do to a person who owned up to his mistake(remember here that he didn't actually hit Abir's car) and Abir too was treating it casually saying it was nothing. Should she have slapped the person who is admitting his mistakes which Abir hid, whom she herself ditched for Abir?

Mishti's mistakes are not hidden in the show nor from the viewers. She is wrong in interfering in kuhu's divorce matters, wrong in nishmish attack (though I dnt know why it is, since Abir broke their relationship...it was immature but not unforgivable), wrong in hiding about Baba and many things.

But all her mistakes only harmed herself more unlike Kuhu's.

You can disagree.......but just thought to put it out there

Originally posted by: yyyy

I really appreciate some of the post where people are discussion the characters without getting personal . I want to clarify one thing even if Kuhu is 100% at fault even then it doesn’t justify Mishti’s mistakes . Most of the mistakes from Mishti related to Kuhu like hiding about Meenu ,Kunal and poking her nose in Shwetha’s matter or divorce issue is because of her superiority feeling that she is better than Kuhu .She fails to realize that it’s easy to preach and when she was put in similar situation she screwed it up big time .No matter what her intention was nothing justify her silly jealousy plan which put Abir’s life in danger twice and her not questioning Nishanth like she did with Kunal and Kuhu shows how biased she is and she doesn’t stand for right thing always .

I dont justify Kuhu’s act of spiking the drink or her Mantap drama by her but does that hide Mishti’s mistakes ?

Lastly to those who are making it Kuhu vs Mishbir let me tell you I am a fan of Shaheer / Abir . I don’t blindly support any character just because he is my favorite.earlier I have criticized Abir as well .

Hey sorry for quoting if the discussion is already ended but the thing you said that mishti thinks she's better than kuhu it's not at all true, she never thinks about superiority, she always thinks about responsibility. She thinks she's or she'll be responsible for each and everything that will happen to mahs family members and now rjv too. Why she thinks that because everyone made her feel that And still Making her feel that. Her insecurity level has risen to the level where she could easily blame herself Even if kuku start a fight or meenu gets angry or some other silly reasons.

The plan was really silly, but the putting abir's life in danger was really unintentional. And it was only for one time, for the second we can't blame her . It was nishant's solo mistake. If the girl wants to be your friend but you want her to love you and you become obsessive about her Its not girl's but your mistake. Mishti was always clear in her stance that she loves abir, and she always said to Nannu that she's giving chance to friendship not love. Nannu came to know about truth, he came to know that mishti got to know about truth and he became meenu Ben male version

The question is who's hiding mishti's mistake, no one, OK I know I am including fandom again but the whole fandom has bashed mishti and abir when they did mistakes. Some of the fans Even said that mishti deserved that slap and they were all mishti's fan. So we're not hiding mishti's mistake to blame kuhu. And if you're saying that writers hide mishti's mistake, so I completely disagree, though they have kept mishti in good light after her comiting mistakes but she's the one who had got punished for each mistake of Hers. She and abir are the only one who had been punished for their mistakes in the show

Originally posted by: MishBirStruck

It's not about we forgot mishti's mistake

It's about did she forgot her mistake

She blamed herself for all the mistakes you mentioned above and asked sorry to each and everyone, for her stupid decisions. She also got punished because of this, almost losing her love, almost losing her family and she's still getting punished for it from a human called jasmeet aunty

Kuhu always try to justify her act, always, why I did this, should have not done, these are the self talk she has with her. After committing CRIME not mistakes, crime for 2 times, she's not at all guilty for what she did to mishti.

Mishti had felt guilty during divorce drama and came clean in front of everyone , I don't remember kuhu doing any of that.

The majority will not be abir to relate with kuhu until and unless she comes clean, she is actually going to badmouth mishti in front of abir then why should we understand her like we understand mishti.

Firstly , thanks for it taking it as a discussion .

Regarding Kuhu not repenting I will have to disagree .When she pushed Mishti during janamashastmi celebrations she did repent a lot after thag .Its different she didn’t open up to anyone but her behavior changed .

I do t remember Mishti ever acknowledging that she did a mistake by stealing divorce parts .Even today whenever she remembers she thinks she slapped for no mistake of hers .I don’t see any regret from Mishti either that she hid Meenu and Kunal truth from Kuhu and Kuhu had to go through a lot because she was not told what was her right .

I don’t remember Mishti ever apologizing or owning up get mistake of forcing Abir to come to jungle because of her plan .

I am unable to relate to Mishti unless and until her mistakes are acknowledged in the show and they stop saying she always does right

Originally posted by: Mimzy

Okay I do not want to get into this discussion, but thought I should clarify something.

The jungle incident, Mishti did apologize to Abir when they were trapped in the jungle itself.

Regarding slapping Nishant, unlike Kuhu he did admit that he was wrong and he did put Abir's life in danger unlike Kuhu who didn't own up to her mistake until confronted by Mishti. Then too she justified herself by saying it was intended for Mishti. Also, what was she supposed to do to a person who owned up to his mistake(remember here that he didn't actually hit Abir's car) and Abir too was treating it casually saying it was nothing. Should she have slapped the person who is admitting his mistakes which Abir hid, whom she herself ditched for Abir?

Mishti's mistakes are not hidden in the show nor from the viewers. She is wrong in interfering in kuhu's divorce matters, wrong in nishmish attack (though I dnt know why it is, since Abir broke their relationship...it was immature but not unforgivable), wrong in hiding about Baba and many things.

But all her mistakes only harmed herself more unlike Kuhu's.

You can disagree.......but just thought to put it out there

When she hid Meenu’s intentions during Kuhu’s marriage , the person who was harmed the most was Kuhu . By hiding Baba’s truth she harmed Abir and her relationship.

Originally posted by: yyyy

Firstly , thanks for it taking it as a discussion .

Regarding Kuhu not repenting I will have to disagree .When she pushed Mishti during janamashastmi celebrations she did repent a lot after thag .Its different she didn’t open up to anyone but her behavior changed .

I do t remember Mishti ever acknowledging that she did a mistake by stealing divorce parts .Even today whenever she remembers she thinks she slapped for no mistake of hers .I don’t see any regret from Mishti either that she hid Meenu and Kunal truth from Kuhu and Kuhu had to go through a lot because she was not told what was her right .

I don’t remember Mishti ever apologizing or owning up get mistake of forcing Abir to come to jungle because of her plan .

I am unable to relate to Mishti unless and until her mistakes are acknowledged in the show and they stop saying she always does right

Kuhu did felt guilty , but then after 2 or 3 days I think she again tried to create havoc in mishbir's life. And then she again felt guilty. You see you just can't do wrong and then feel guilty and then we will be able to relate to you because you feel guilty.

Mishti didn't felt guilty I agree and it's her mistake I agree on that too, she has the habit of helping others from childhood and she never feels guilty about it if the plan backfires because she thinks that she wanted to do a right thing by helping him or her. So it was her fault.

I will not blame mishti in kuku matter because before wedding mishti didn't knew about kunal's truth that he don't love kuhu, she didn't knew about meenu's plan too. She always thought meenu had problems with her and not with kuhu, and kunal also loves kuhu. After marraige only mishti doubted kunal's love for kuhu during that money giving scene still she was unsure, kuhu came to know about the truth on her wedding night, and the first thing she did in morning was to blame mishti . I know now this discussion will lead to why she did that haldi kaand, why she came back from airport but I have already discussed this with you and many others so not going in that direction again 😆

Mishti did apologize many time for jungle incident 😆

There are few numbers of people who say she's always right and few who say she's not right at all, you can go with the other few ,I'll go with the first few list 😆

Originally posted by: yyyy

When she hid Meenu’s intentions during Kuhu’s marriage , the person who was harmed the most was Kuhu . By hiding Baba’s truth she harmed Abir and her relationship.

According to her, giving into Meenu only harmed her. She gave up her love for Kuhu's love. When she gave up her love, was she aware that Kunal was faking his love and was in cahoots with his mother?? Then how in the way is she responsible for Kuhu's state?? According to her Kuhu was marrying Kunal who loved her back and not Meenakshi Rajvansh. Shouldn't Kuhu be even teeny weeny bit responsible for marrying a guy she knew nothing about except that he had a red sportscar?? Mishti might have wronged Abir though they were technically not in a relationship, but she is in no way responsible for Kuhu's state. By that logic isn't Abir more responsible for Kuhu's state by hiding that Kunal ran away from his own wedding?? But he cannot be hold accountable since he was also under the misconception that Kunal loved Kuhu and ran away because of Bb's manipulation.

If somebody is to be blamed, blame Kunal and Meenu for conspiring to destroy a girl's life just to keep Mishti away.

Coming to Baba's truth, I agree she should have confided in Abir. But, initially was she even sure that Baba was a culprit?? How was she supposed to accuse baba based on a hunch. Okay, after collecting proofs she should have confided and she tried also but Baba picked up the phone and intercepted the message too. After risking her life for saving Abir she should have confided in Abir instead of trusting in Meenu. But was she aware of the extent of hatred Meenu had for her and is she a person who will butt in and steal the credit when Abir was becoming closer to his Mom because of this.

From their relationship perspective was it ever her lies that broke the relationship?? When Meenu tried to manipulate him using these, did Abir believe that?? Wasn't it ultimately his love for his brother that made him sacrifice his love and not Mishti's lies ??

Mishti might lack judgement when it comes to people or situations. But she is not a manipulative person nor is she the only one who hides things in the show. The only difference is when she hides, the outcome is always against her.

The best solution to all of this.

Kunal goes to jail for spiking Nishant's drink.

Kuhu goes to jail for spiking Abir's coffee with a sleeping pill.

Meenu goes to jail for spiking Kuhu and Mishti's gol gappa pani.

Abir goes to jail for spiking Kunal's drink during the first holi.

Nishant goes to jail for causing Abir's accident and leaving him there.

The show can then focus on Ketu's marriage. Both Maheswaris and Rajvansh family members can look for ways to get all of these people out of jail.

Originally posted by: lopli

The best solution to all of this.

Kunal goes to jail for spiking Nishant's drink.

Kuhu goes to jail for spiking Abir's coffee with a sleeping pill.

Meenu goes to jail for spiking Kuhu and Mishti's gol gappa pani.

Abir goes to jail for spiking Kunal's drink during the first holi.

Nishant goes to jail for causing Abir's accident and leaving him there.

The show can then focus on Ketu's marriage. Both Maheswaris and Rajvansh family members can look for ways to get all of these people out of jail.

Very funny🤣

Originally posted by: Mimzy

According to her, giving into Meenu only harmed her. She gave up her love for Kuhu's love. When she gave up her love, was she aware that Kunal was faking his love and was in cahoots with his mother?? Then how in the way is she responsible for Kuhu's state?? According to her Kuhu was marrying Kunal who loved her back and not Meenakshi Rajvansh. Shouldn't Kuhu be even teeny weeny bit responsible for marrying a guy she knew nothing about except that he had a red sportscar?? Mishti might have wronged Abir though they were technically not in a relationship, but she is in no way responsible for Kuhu's state. By that logic isn't Abir more responsible for Kuhu's state by hiding that Kunal ran away from his own wedding?? But he cannot be hold accountable since he was also under the misconception that Kunal loved Kuhu and ran away because of Bb's manipulation.

If somebody is to be blamed, blame Kunal and Meenu for conspiring to destroy a girl's life just to keep Mishti away.

Coming to Baba's truth, I agree she should have confided in Abir. But, initially was she even sure that Baba was a culprit?? How was she supposed to accuse baba based on a hunch. Okay, after collecting proofs she should have confided and she tried also but Baba picked up the phone and intercepted the message too. After risking her life for saving Abir she should have confided in Abir instead of trusting in Meenu. But was she aware of the extent of hatred Meenu had for her and is she a person who will butt in and steal the credit when Abir was becoming closer to his Mom because of this.

From their relationship perspective was it ever her lies that broke the relationship?? When Meenu tried to manipulate him using these, did Abir believe that?? Wasn't it ultimately his love for his brother that made him sacrifice his love and not Mishti's lies ??

Mishti might lack judgement when it comes to people or situations. But she is not a manipulative person nor is she the only one who hides things in the show. The only difference is when she hides, the outcome is always against her.

Kunal did whisper in her ears after marriage that Kuhu will back home .Did she care to inform Kuhu and how did Mishti think that a person who is blackmailing can be fair to her sister .Whatever it is it’s Mishti duty to let Kuhu know and even after that if she had married Kunal then it’s Kuhu’s fault .I hold Abir equally responsible for hiding and forcing Kunal to marry . I remember opening atopic /commenting on someone topic about this ..I remember Mishti bragging that Kuhu’s marriage happened because of her and if that’s the case then Mishti should take the blame when the marriage failed . How many times Mishti tried to stop Kuhu from handling Shwetha’s case .Why was she getting involved when no one asked for her help .One day she decided to help and when she felt guilty she wanted to let family know .How convenient isn’t it ? She made it all about herself

Are we really blaming Kuhu for marrying Kunal ? Kunal was pretending to be in love with Kuhu and there was no red flags based on which Kuhu would have broken her marriage with Kunal .How do we determine if a love is true .Is there a standard which says if you know a person for so many days it’s love . Kuhu has time and gain proved she is really in love with Kunal and it’s not mere infatuation. Arrange marriage happen this way in our country where the bride and groom meet each other for few days /months or hours .