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Originally posted by: Mimzy

Hmmmm......Maybe specs was never the problem....ppl will always judge you. Even I was judged because I was silent and overweight........After a period of time you will give zero fxxxks to what ppl will think abt you. Dnt let it get to you and dnt lose confidence. One thing I have learnt in my life is I am my biggest enemy. I am the one who had always kept me from growing.....even when other ppl had faith in me....I never had one.

Trust me when I say dnt take other ppl's opinions abt your looks seriously and tell to yourself that your are proud of your self. You will always have a distorted view of yourself if you let other people mess with your head.

I have read your posts enough to think you have understanding parents. Lol.....I am still figuring out how to communicate with my parental units.. ..😆

Sry I couldn't be more help.....but trust me when I say I get u.....🤗

Ohh Mini hifi dear i said something similar too... people judge you for every small thing its in us to overcome n start valuing ourself... 🤗

@bold - hifi even i had that problem but now i've come close to my mom so much that i can talk anything n everything with her... actually i dont even know how it started but we used to share small small talks n it became strong with time... mini try being casual n friendly with anyone dear its a long process from my experience but it just started casually i didnt try as in trying.. sorry if i'm being over advisory 😆

Originally posted by: Cool_wonder

Haan re😃

I would love I've to see Mishti in good modern sarees😳

Not like kuhus🤢

haan i want to see her in saree no way not kuhu kind of saree but flowy saree like in abir dream.. infact let abir choose mish dress he has good taste going by his dream 🤣

Originally posted by: Agrata23

Ohh again dulha pic... yaar they have already reached mah house come on anyone from cast post from mandap yaar... cant wait.. 😆

Originally posted by: The_incredible

Everyone wants Mishti's specs back🤗🤗i want to ask everyone here do u guys really prefer specs in real lyf..I mean as a girl who has specs,I want to simply know do u prefer girls with specs..or rather boys droolinv over a girl with specs seems far from reality ryt?? If u wear specs u r not normal.u r a typical bookworm..I want to know whether u guys believe in that..as a bespectacled girl, I was always considered bookworm..a person who doesn't have any other wirk other than studying..a person who is more or less like a robot..who has only one function that is studying..

I wish to hear from everyone regarding this.just becoz Mishti considered her specs as her identity,we love to see her in specs..but in real lyf,how many people will try to befriend a girl with specs..it's just my own personal experience,I'm questioning due to that🤗🤗

Hey I wear specs too ....actually people around me dont really bother about specs or no specs ...you have power ,you need to see properly , you got to wear them and that's all ...nothing more nothing less ...I haven't seen people having any opinion about me only because of me wearing glasses ....though I prefer wearing lenses for traditional clothes occasionally....that's my own choice

I have been extremely good in my academic life but was never labelled a book worm because of specs may be first impression aisa padta hoga but it just takes 1 min for me to change the perception .... there are people who are book worn but don't have specs and vice versa...I really don't know what's the whole idea of befriending someone because of the specs... I mean why not, I wouldn't even think specs as a criteria , oh for that matter even looks

I used to hate the narrative they gave about people having specs in the cinema world....they used to show them as too shy or too intelligent to too dumb But with YRHPK it kind a gave a different treatment to the whole narrative...mishti is as normal as any other girl , just like real life people with specs are ...

I know you are in college, just stepping into a different world, so I can understand all these thoughts very well , when I was living in hostel for some years , new set up , new area , new people....certain thoughts came in my mind too ,it happens, it's really natural ... it's a phase you aren't alone , we all go through all this ....right now don't think too much , just focus on your career You know once you enter a professional life , you will miss this student phase like anything so make good use of the amazing years that you have got

all I want to say is that try to be comfortable in your skin, you are talking about specs, there is a whole lot that judge others on the basis of their skin colour, hair and what not...beyond a point we can't stop people judging ...and trust me I have had such thoughts too.... beyond a point you will realise that it dosent matter what people say....at every stage you will find such people who will judge you on something, today this then something else

Even in this story if you see , abir didn't fall in love with mishti because she was a girl with glasses , it has more to do with her inner personality, he fell in love with a girl jo "genre dard mein bhi hasna jaanti ho " he fell in love with a girl who was a strong fierce woman...who never shies away from keeping her points across be it courtship or be it not going for eye surgery, a girl who is happy and confident in her own way ..that's her inner personality that has drawn abir towards her ....

So your real friends , the people who really love you will always admire your inner beauty and personality and will never judge you for all these things

Regarding the rest of the world , let them say whatever they want , who cares ...own your specs and be the boss

Sorry I don't wrote so much here but felt that I should tell you

read a rhesha story on whatpad and the sequence is of haldi romance... its awesome...and rhesha convo on that...

What happened to makers why they are not promoting..even nishmish shaadi was promoted why cant mishbir DKP😡

Originally posted by: Agrata23

link pls

https://my.w.tt/lgknQedL93

It was cute 😆

Originally posted by: MishBirStruck

https://my.w.tt/lgknQedL93

It was cute 😆

Thank you vaishu😃

Originally posted by: Agrata23

Thank you vaishu😃

🤗🤗

Originally posted by: Onyourface

Hey I wear specs too ....actually people around me dont really bother about specs or no specs ...you have power ,you need to see properly , you got to wear them and that's all ...nothing more nothing less ...I haven't seen people having any opinion about me only because of me wearing glasses ....though I prefer wearing lenses for traditional clothes occasionally....that's my own choice

I have been extremely good in my academic life but was never labelled a book worm because of specs may be first impression aisa padta hoga but it just takes 1 min for me to change the perception .... there are people who are book worn but don't have specs and vice versa...I really don't know what's the whole idea of befriending someone because of the specs... I mean why not, I wouldn't even think specs as a criteria , oh for that matter even looks

I used to hate the narrative they gave about people having specs in the cinema world....they used to show them as too shy or too intelligent to too dumb But with YRHPK it kind a gave a different treatment to the whole narrative...mishti is as normal as any other girl , just like real life people with specs are ...

I know you are in college, just stepping into a different world, so I can understand all these thoughts very well , when I was living in hostel for some years , new set up , new area , new people....certain thoughts came in my mind too ,it happens, it's really natural ... it's a phase you aren't alone , we all go through all this ....right now don't think too much , just focus on your career You know once you enter a professional life , you will miss this student phase like anything so make good use of the amazing years that you have got

all I want to say is that try to be comfortable in your skin, you are talking about specs, there is a whole lot that judge others on the basis of their skin colour, hair and what not...beyond a point we can't stop people judging ...and trust me I have had such thoughts too.... beyond a point you will realise that it dosent matter what people say....at every stage you will find such people who will judge you on something, today this then something else

Even in this story if you see , abir didn't fall in love with mishti because she was a girl with glasses , it has more to do with her inner personality, he fell in love with a girl jo "genre dard mein bhi hasna jaanti ho " he fell in love with a girl who was a strong fierce woman...who never shies away from keeping her points across be it courtship or be it not going for eye surgery, a girl who is happy and confident in her own way ..that's her inner personality that has drawn abir towards her ....

So your real friends , the people who really love you will always admire your inner beauty and personality and will never judge you for all these things

Regarding the rest of the world , let them say whatever they want , who cares ...own your specs and be the boss

Sorry I don't wrote so much here but felt that I should tell you

Thank u uru for the advice yaar..may be I need this to overcome my apprehensions...I am working on my fears and insecurities ,I'm confident but not confident enough to handle taunts from others..thinking too much was always my weak point..i am really sorry yaar,I never wanted to exclusively reveal my personal lyf..but seeing a tweet that Mishti should get her specs back made me post all nonsense😆😆