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Originally posted by: AreYaar

I had thought ki even if they aren’t happy, atleast they won’t be shown WEAK....weak-mindedness is what puts me off more. I am ok with them being sad given the family complications but why are they being made so weak and passive? Especially showing Mishti this stupid and passive is not working for me. I still can’t digest how quickly she is believing Meenu even after knowing what all Meenu did to throw her out of Abir’s life.

Can't agree more.That's why i am not able to relate with the character Mishti any more.😭

Never thought that makers will show MishBir's marriage like this. Everything looks forceful and rushed.May be NishMish sangeet's dance sequences are still in my mind,that's why i am not ready to watch MishBir's sangeet.

BTW koi mujhe batayega ab Mamu aur mami kiske side mei hei. They are like jidhar baarish ush aur chata.😡

Originally posted by: SheThought

Haan, definitely bura nahin tha. Par kuch kami thi... I couldn't enjoy it much.

I have hard time connecting with MishBir since they are so disconnected after the ambulance hug... so I watch the episode and then it's just a blur right away! Samajh main ata hai kuch kuch, par dil main nahin aata 😒

Arre pyar hai toh har din Valentine's day hi hai 😉

Kyun14th Feb ke peeche padke story hi vaat laga rahe hai

Kya yaar paaaliii🤗

Anyways, Nobody is enjoying whats been shown to be it real aur reel main bhi.

You’re feeling disconnected because right after the divine hug we got you thought all is well. Even mishbir be happy hua hoga but that happiness lasted just for a while. no one expected the change the events like nannu shooting off from middle of the road which in turn created more rucksack for Mishti. Added to that Uru’s saasu ma bhi change of heart ki act shuru kiya... Mishbir are totally lost in this web but I am happy that abir is wide and awake about his surroundings. All he wanted is to get married to mishti at any cost. He will literally do anything to accomplish that task.

Our Mishbir is unique , so should be their wedding. That is why Feb 14 ❤️ St Valentines Day...

Reel hi tho hain, so they could have showed some light hearted gradually progressing scenes between every relationship in the story and could have moved to mishbir wedding on the show calendar to be Feb 14. I wonder why the real wala Feb14 caught stuck to their heads. Why this rushing, what’s the next track or plan they have in store to keep us hooked to the show. More than the makers, I trust RheSha...they are capable of bringing the audience attention under their control. Let’s see...

Originally posted by: AreYaar

I’ve stopped watching these days but I think the real issue is how passive they’ve made AM immediately after the ambulance wala hug. The shift was so jarring and they’ve done nothing in subsequent epis to make up for it. 🤷‍♀️

I could have zoned out Meenu’s token sudden flip if there was a balance of AM interaction on the other side. But there is literally nothing. I don’t need to see them giddy over their shaadi or romancing or something....but they don’t even talk properly anymore.

It’s either them groveling in front of their obnoxious relatives or busy with dance practice. Lol

I’m especially put off by how passive and brainless they’ve made Mishti. She literally has no meaningful thoughts in her head anymore and seems to have lost her brains in believing Meenu ka flip so quickly 😕

The shaadi was bound to be random and rushed to be put in at this point in the story and leads hardly ever get focus in their own shaadis. There is always villain scheming and attacks going on. But the least the writers could have given was some continuity in AM convos. Sadly there is nothing on that front.

And no sign of Mishti’s chashme coming back either 🤔....I personally can’t connect to either her appearance or her personality right now 🤷‍♀️....in the previous track, even if she didn’t have her chashme, she was atleast mostly her regular self in the way she expressed and asserted herself. And now there is nothing.

Abir ka token suspicion of Meenu doesn’t do much for entertainment 🤷‍♀️ and I’m not interested in watching Kuhu ke random flips between venomous hate and dance practice 🤓

So all in all the show has become hell boring again.

Yeah, I have the same issue. It feels as if AM used up all the steam in stopping the NishMish wedding, so now they have no energy left for their own and they just want to be done with it… their disconnect with each other is spilling over to us and we too are struggling to connect with them.

AM talks are so superficial with no real substance! No meaningful conversation with each other except to either pacify Jas, discuss Meenu or worry about KuKu! Writers too suddenly want to evolve Kunal and show progress in his relationships with Kuhu, Parul and Mishti – all at once! Okay… but can we have it without devolving A&M? 😲

Planning Plotting is part and parcel of ITV weddings… but there needs to be some teasing, some flirting to balance it out and get us excited about the wedding! Right now, it appears as if AM are forced to get married! …and Mishti’s gloomy face and constant guilt-ridden demeanor during the rituals is putting me off big time 😵

God knows why they are showing her believing Meenu so easily… All the progress she had shown in the last few weeks regarding Meenu has gone down the drain! Maybe when the jhoomar falls, she will get her brains back! 🤔

On top of it, something is off with her hair/makeup/dressing... and that is adding to my overall annoyance. She looks and acts like a different person right now… chashme or not!

I seriously hope they change the overall mood of this shadi by next week! They can still salvage things before it’s too late…

Originally posted by: SheThought

Right now, it appears as if AM are forced to get married! …and Mishti’s gloomy face and constant guilt-ridden demeanor during the rituals is putting me off big time 😵

God knows why they are showing her believing Meenu so easily… All the progress she had shown in the last few weeks regarding Meenu has gone down the drain! Maybe when the jhoomar falls, she will get her brains back! 🤔 Haha how I wish that happens....but the writers seem to have totally sent Mishti's brains on vacation after this Nish wedding fiasco😔.....Yeah I get that they have eternal love for whitewashing Meenu and they can keep doing that but please don't make Mishti dumb to this extent, at this stage after paying such a heavy price thanks to Meenu's plotting.....it's beyond dumb for a show that claims it's trying to show relationships with more nuance. Only cliched mahaan ITV leads are this brainless. Mishti has generally been shown to be perceptive and strong about many things even if she gets vulnerable in front of her "ehsaan" waali family.....she can be vulnerable sometimes but to give Meenu such a BLANKET benefit of doubt after all this? Pathetically lazy writing👎🏼.....the writers clearly are least bothered about giving Mishti anything to do other than cry and grovel now.

On top of it, something is off with her hair/makeup/dressing... and that is adding to my overall annoyance. She looks and acts like a different person right now… chashme or not! THIS. I completely agree....I've totally lost connect with Mishti cuz of how they are making Rhea look these days too.....they generally haven't given her good styling in the show anyways, but right now is like the absolute worst on every front....from clothes, to hairstyle, to makeup....she is looking like an alien person rather than our familiar Mishti.....the connect is totally broken and the writers/makers are least bothered to try and salvage it. Chashma also seems like a lost cause right now.

I seriously hope they change the overall mood of this shadi by next week! They can still salvage things before it’s too late…

Oh they can flip at any time as they usually do in this show.....sudden switches...but sadly they wasted the momentum they had right after the ambulance hug....they could have maintained character connect despite the lame plot of "reformed" Meenu.....but they haven't bothered, sadly.

Frankly, the other characters don't even exist for me.....jo marzi karein randomness that they usually do.....but neglecting AM to this extent is a bad move by the writers.

How much would it have taken to simply show a scene of Abir gifting Mishti her chashme back? It would take barely 2 minutes in an epi and they can keep showing their half-assed plotting and dance practice baaki time.....but no, even that is too much work for the writers now🤔

All I can figure out from this is that the writers are just killing time till 14th Feb. But what's the guarantee that they will even manage to execute their grand 14th Feb "drama" or "plot twist" properly at this rate? lol this is why I'm on a break until they bother airing a dhang ka AM scene. I'm least interested in other characters.

Originally posted by: SheThought

Yeah, I have the same issue. It feels as if AM used up all the steam in stopping the NishMish wedding, so now they have no energy left for their own and they just want to be done with it… their disconnect with each other is spilling over to us and we too are struggling to connect with them.

AM talks are so superficial with no real substance! No meaningful conversation with each other except to either pacify Jas, discuss Meenu or worry about KuKu! Writers too suddenly want to evolve Kunal and show progress in his relationships with Kuhu, Parul and Mishti – all at once! Okay… but can we have it without devolving A&M? 😲

Planning Plotting is part and parcel of ITV weddings… but there needs to be some teasing, some flirting to balance it out and get us excited about the wedding! Right now, it appears as if AM are forced to get married! …and Mishti’s gloomy face and constant guilt-ridden demeanor during the rituals is putting me off big time 😵

God knows why they are showing her believing Meenu so easily… All the progress she had shown in the last few weeks regarding Meenu has gone down the drain! Maybe when the jhoomar falls, she will get her brains back! 🤔

On top of it, something is off with her hair/makeup/dressing... and that is adding to my overall annoyance. She looks and acts like a different person right now… chashme or not!

I seriously hope they change the overall mood of this shadi by next week! They can still salvage things before it’s too late…

@bold same with me yaar..I dont know why she looks different even her performance in recent episodes not up to the mark😒

Originally posted by: Npdeepa

Kya yaar paaaliii🤗

Anyways, Nobody is enjoying whats been shown to be it real aur reel main bhi.

You’re feeling disconnected because right after the divine hug we got you thought all is well. Even mishbir be happy hua hoga but that happiness lasted just for a while. no one expected the change the events like nannu shooting off from middle of the road which in turn created more rucksack for Mishti. Added to that Uru’s saasu ma bhi change of heart ki act shuru kiya... Mishbir are totally lost in this web but I am happy that abir is wide and awake about his surroundings. All he wanted is to get married to mishti at any cost. He will literally do anything to accomplish that task.

Our Mishbir is unique , so should be their wedding. That is why Feb 14 ❤️ St Valentines Day...

Reel hi tho hain, so they could have showed some light hearted gradually progressing scenes between every relationship in the story and could have moved to mishbir wedding on the show calendar to be Feb 14. I wonder why the real wala Feb14 caught stuck to their heads. Why this rushing, what’s the next track or plan they have in store to keep us hooked to the show. More than the makers, I trust RheSha...they are capable of bringing the audience attention under their control. Let’s see...

Moni 🤗

Haan, that's the thing.. MishBir are totally lost after that divine hug! They are showing everything else, but their emotions and I feel disconnected, mostly from Mishti 😒

Yeah, 14th Feb ke liye they are rushing like anything... thankfully it's not that far. So hopefully this week the story should come to it's next track... fingers crossed!!

Originally posted by: SheThought

Haan, definitely bura nahin tha. Par kuch kami thi... I couldn't enjoy it much.

I have hard time connecting with MishBir since they are so disconnected after the ambulance hug... so I watch the episode and then it's just a blur right away! Samajh main ata hai kuch kuch, par dil main nahin aata 😒

Arre pyar hai toh har din Valentine's day hi hai 😉

Kyun14th Feb ke peeche padke story hi vaat laga rahe hai

I completely understand that pali , everything looks forced , of course no one will enjoy that ...on top of that mishbir are behaving as if nothing major happened 😆

See even I was not happy with the way things were going , but I have made peace with that after some time

I don't know if you have read moni's post in the AT... explaining nishant's rush rush exit , AM's reactions , family's reactions and also the rush rush shaadi now ...with some real life examples..I think her post made complete sense and after that only I started enjoying the episodes again ...😳 please once ...just read her post , m sure you will feel better and you will be to connect with mishbir also ... atleast to a point 😳

Sometimes we get upset because things didn't turn out the way we wanted to , but as soon as we understand why it happened, everything falls in place...

Yes something in the execution is missing, which i said to moni also , that we need more POVs of mishbir to understand their actions because it gives a wrong message that they are being "compromised" ...which is not the case actually... so the message that the makers want to give isn't coming across because the execution is extremely poor

Regarding 14th Feb la fever Ab vo makers ko fancy lag raha hai toh vo karenge

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Yeah I get that they have eternal love for whitewashing Meenu and they can keep doing that but please don't make Mishti dumb to this extent, at this stage after paying such a heavy price thanks to Meenu's plotting....

Mishti has generally been shown to be perceptive and strong about many things even if she gets vulnerable in front of her "ehsaan" waali family.....she can be vulnerable sometimes but to give Meenu such a BLANKET benefit of doubt after all this? Pathetically lazy writing

How much would it have taken to simply show a scene of Abir gifting Mishti her chashme back? It would take barely 2 minutes in an epi and they can keep showing their half-assed plotting and dance practice baaki time.....but no, even that is too much work for the writers now

All I can figure out from this is that the writers are just killing time till 14th Feb. But what's the guarantee that they will even manage to execute their grand 14th Feb "drama" or "plot twist" properly at this rate? lol this is why I'm on a break until they bother airing a dhang ka AM scene. I'm least interested in other characters.

Yeah, Mishti has generally been shown to be smart and someone who doesn't hesitate to speak her mind - both qualities I like! But when it comes to Abir ki ma, don't know why she is willing to turn a blind eye and put up with things is beyond me!

If she is really worried about a mother not missing a son's wedding, they should also show her feeling bad about her father missing out on her wedding! Meenu may not be as bad as Naman, but she has burnt Mishti and her family enough number of times to qualify as someone who needs to be kept away from her marriage...

Meenu's whitewashing is definitely going to come if they are really going to have AM wedding on 14/15 Feb and they choose to live separately. Writers will make Abir feel too guilty and that will be enough to boil our blood again!

Oh that will be the day when Abir gifts chashma back to Mishti! I sincerely hope they are planning to bring it back... unless Rhea is done with wearing chashma! Though in her interview with Raj Baddhan, she chose Misthi 1.0 with her chashma than 2.0, so there is hope if writers do this meharbani on us!

I am able to enjoy all the other characters if MishBir are handled properly. Fortunately, it's only one more week before their big plot twist deadline... so hopefully this coming week is going to be better than this week! Let's see...

Originally posted by: Agrata23

@bold same with me yaar..I dont know why she looks different even her performance in recent episodes not up to the mark😒

Maybe she is not feeling well or overworked. She did have lots of scenes last few weeks...

I just wish they do better with her hairstyle and give her some good eye makeup. Don't understand why they don't give her eyeliner on top - it will instantly brighten up her face!

She looked so so pretty during NishMish functions! And now they are messing with her style during MishBir wedding 😒

Originally posted by: Onyourface

I completely understand that pali , everything looks forced , of course no one will enjoy that ...on top of that mishbir are behaving as if nothing major happened 😆

See even I was not happy with the way things were going , but I have made peace with that after some time

I don't know if you have read moni's post in the AT... explaining nishant's rush rush exit , AM's reactions , family's reactions and also the rush rush shaadi now ...with some real life examples..I think her post made complete sense and after that only I started enjoying the episodes again ...😳 please once ...just read her post , m sure you will feel better and you will be to connect with mishbir also ... atleast to a point 😳

Sometimes we get upset because things didn't turn out the way we wanted to , but as soon as we understand why it happened, everything falls in place...

Yes something in the execution is missing, which i said to moni also , that we need more POVs of mishbir to understand their actions because it gives a wrong message that they are being "compromised" ...which is not the case actually... so the message that the makers want to give isn't coming across because the execution is extremely poor

Regarding 14th Feb la fever Ab vo makers ko fancy lag raha hai toh vo karenge

Uru! Happy Saturday 🤗🤗

I had seen Moni's post and meant to read it too but then got distracted...

The thing is, at this point I feel so annoyed that I am unable to take anything in Nishant's defense! I was never able to connect that much with his character and then after makers butchered his character to this level, justifications in his favor just don't excite me to put it mildly😒

I will try and find that post and read it... shayad it will help me tolerate the episodes better...

My main problem at this point is not even AM trying to please Jas or praise Nannu. The biggest issue is AM not reflecting on things or even remotely excited about whats to come...