Mandap saj gaya tha to fir bhaagi kyun?

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Posted: 5 years ago
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This is going to be a small rant.

Jab mandap saj hi gaya tha, to shaadi kara ke khatam karo na. We all know both of them are going to get married. Can they stop extending and delaying it? Ab to Big Ben bhi maan gayi. Just get it over with and move the story forward already.

We all know Mishbir are the main leads but the show is supposed to be about interpersonal relationships between family members and not just about these two who are inevitably going to be together. The back stories of all characters are so great. I mean, this is the first show where you ship brothers and friends and other relationships. Each character has so much potential for story development.

  • Wouldn't y'all want to know what Kuhu calls Jugnu? Is it Jugnu or Jugnu bhaiya or does she have cool ass nickname for him?
  • Where is Atul? Did he become an actor or did someone lock him in the office and forget?
  • Did Abir ever click pictures for Atul's portfolio?
  • Will Kunal ever not sleep while watching a rom-com with Ketu?
  • Kya Ketu kabhi Kuhu ka business join karegi?
  • Will Kuhu get to plan events for other people apart from her own family?
  • Will Jasmeet's husband ever come to visit her? Dude didn't even come for his own son's wedding.
  • Will Mishti ever make up with her Daadi who was supposed to come for the NishMish wedding?
  • Will Kunal ever make a genuine effort towards Kuhu's family?

Leave all of that. What will happen to the app deal between Abir and Nishant? (Hawww😲!! Plothole!!!) Who is even running the company and the NGO? Sab to Mishbir ke peechhe bhaag rahe hai jab ki inhe football ke game me bhaagna chahiye tha.

DKP, please remember that your show is not about hardships and problems in a love story. That is a Balaji show called KZK2.

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: aquaHP

This is going to be a small rant.

Jab mandap saj hi gaya tha, to shaadi kara ke khatam karo na. We all know both of them are going to get married. Can they stop extending and delaying it? Ab to Big Ben bhi maan gayi. Just get it over with and move the story forward already.

We all know Mishbir are the main leads but the show is supposed to be about interpersonal relationships between family members and not just about these two who are inevitably going to be together. The back stories of all characters are so great. I mean, this is the first show where you ship brothers and friends and other relationships. Each character has so much potential for story development.

  • Wouldn't y'all want to know what Kuhu calls Jugnu? Is it Jugnu or Jugnu bhaiya or does she have cool ass nickname for him?
  • Where is Atul? Did he become an actor or did someone lock him in the office and forget?
  • Did Abir ever click pictures for Atul's portfolio?
  • Will Kunal ever not sleep while watching a rom-com with Ketu?
  • Kya Ketu kabhi Kuhu ka business join karegi?
  • Will Kuhu get to plan events for other people apart from her own family?
  • Will Jasmeet's husband ever come to visit her? Dude didn't even come for his own son's wedding.
  • Will Mishti ever make up with her Daadi who was supposed to come for the NishMish wedding?
  • Will Kunal ever make a genuine effort towards Kuhu's family?

Leave all of that. What will happen to the app deal between Abir and Nishant? (Hawww😲!! Plothole!!!) Who is even running the company and the NGO? Sab to Mishbir ke peechhe bhaag rahe hai jab ki inhe football ke game me bhaagna chahiye tha.

DKP, please remember that your show is not about hardships and problems in a love story. That is a Balaji show called KZK2.

I agree.

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Posted: 5 years ago
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You are funny aqua.. 🤣

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Main soch hi rahi thi ki Mishti bhaag bhale hi jaaye par bhaag ke shaadi nahi hogi.. Lol.. Come on yaar leads ki shaadi means heavy TRPs and when it's Rajan Shahi shows it means one more round of naach gaana by MaheVanshi organisation.😎. Itna acha mauka mila hai.. Meenu maan gayi hai toh ab toh aur taabad tod naachenge sab.. 😆 abhi jab shaadi ki ceremonies start hongi, toh usme kabhi ring kho jaayegi, kabhi jaimaal jhoomer mein phans jaayegi, kabhi Meenu ka khaandaani kangan, Jo Meenu Mishti ko degi woh kho jaayega.. 😭 Uske baad poori team usko Mil ke dhoondi Meenu ko pata chalne se pehle... 😛🤣 Itna zyada drama ka scope hai.. And u are saying that they should do jhat pat shaadi.. Aapke paas Dil nahi hai kya... Abhi toh party shuru hui hai...

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Originally posted by: ZindagiCalling

Main soch hi rahi thi ki Mishti bhaag bhale hi jaaye par bhaag ke shaadi nahi hogi.. Lol.. Come on yaar leads ki shaadi means heavy TRPs and when it's Rajan Shahi shows it means one more round of naach gaana by MaheVanshi organisation.😎. Itna acha mauka mila hai.. Meenu maan gayi hai toh ab toh aur taabad tod naachenge sab.. 😆 abhi jab shaadi ki ceremonies start hongi, toh usme kabhi ring kho jaayegi, kabhi jaimaal jhoomer mein phans jaayegi, kabhi Meenu ka khaandaani kangan, Jo Meenu Mishti ko degi woh kho jaayega.. 😭 Uske baad poori team usko Mil ke dhoondi Meenu ko pata chalne se pehle... 😛🤣 Itna zyada drama ka scope hai.. And u are saying that they should do jhat pat shaadi.. Aapke paas Dil nahi hai kya... Abhi toh party shuru hui hai...

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: aquaHP

This is going to be a small rant.

Jab mandap saj hi gaya tha, to shaadi kara ke khatam karo na. We all know both of them are going to get married. Can they stop extending and delaying it? Ab to Big Ben bhi maan gayi. Just get it over with and move the story forward already.

We all know Mishbir are the main leads but the show is supposed to be about interpersonal relationships between family members and not just about these two who are inevitably going to be together. The back stories of all characters are so great. I mean, this is the first show where you ship brothers and friends and other relationships. Each character has so much potential for story development.

  • Wouldn't y'all want to know what Kuhu calls Jugnu? Is it Jugnu or Jugnu bhaiya or does she have cool ass nickname for him?
  • Where is Atul? Did he become an actor or did someone lock him in the office and forget?
  • Did Abir ever click pictures for Atul's portfolio?
  • Will Kunal ever not sleep while watching a rom-com with Ketu?
  • Kya Ketu kabhi Kuhu ka business join karegi?
  • Will Kuhu get to plan events for other people apart from her own family?
  • Will Jasmeet's husband ever come to visit her? Dude didn't even come for his own son's wedding.
  • Will Mishti ever make up with her Daadi who was supposed to come for the NishMish wedding?
  • Will Kunal ever make a genuine effort towards Kuhu's family?

Leave all of that. What will happen to the app deal between Abir and Nishant? (Hawww😲!! Plothole!!!) Who is even running the company and the NGO? Sab to Mishbir ke peechhe bhaag rahe hai jab ki inhe football ke game me bhaagna chahiye tha.

DKP, please remember that your show is not about hardships and problems in a love story. That is a Balaji show called KZK2.


Wish I could like this post a hundred times! I do agree with everything & have been thinking along these lines for a long time now. Thanks for bringing this up & for making this post.


Each character, I repeat, each character in this show is interesting in its own way, and evokes viewers' imagination (at least, mine). Unfortunately, individual supporting characters are not well-etched out or developed at all, over the course of the storyline till now.


For instance, initially & even now, Meenu keeps putting her brother Koshlu down, keeps taunting & berating him, and always acts in a very high-handed, insulting manner with him. Nidhi mami was also big-time angry & upset with her benba ( when she got to know that benba was about to allow Ketki to get married to someone who was already married, even after mishti & kuhu told her that they suspected the groom of something fishy ).


Nidhi & Kaushal are sticking with Meenu as they're financially dependent on her, but they've never shown any signs of continued resentment that can be developed as a story arc for them. They could include the mama-mami's story realistically & make these characters grey, instead of just using them as mere comic fillers to eat up a couple of minutes only to drag the time. They could tone down Meenu largely; they don't have to make her so all-pervading that genuine issues of her being too over-bearing are not discussed at all by other characters apart from Abir. She can continue to remain as manipulative as she is now, but they also need to show others' reactions & thoughts to her behaviour.


I remember Nidhi & Kaushal very correctly pointing out that she chokes them out & had taken ketki's life's decision ( a very wrong decision, that too) without consulting her parents. But there was no follow-up to that scene. She does so many things like this & has been this way all along. Nidhi & Kaushal can be shown trying to get some control over their lives by asserting themselves at home & at office respectively. Their insecurities can be shown in a reasonable way. Same with Ketki & Atul; they can be involved in the main leads' story or be shown doing something in their lives. But alas, these are just showpiece characters.


I, for one, would love to watch tracks and scenes devoted to each & every point mentioned above by the topic maker here.


In fact, the parallel leads Kunal & Kuhu have such poor development that I feel sorry for all the potential going waste. Kunal has just now shown some development with regard to trying to understand his brother & his love. But in my humble opinion, his transition from "I know (or mom says) mishti isn't right for my bhai, so I'll blindly do what she says to separate them" to "mishti will be the one to find my bhai" could have been done in a better manner. Kunal could have been shown trying to realize that trusting meenu blindly isn't right & that his bhai will always be his bhai regardless of mishti. He could have then understood his brother's love & preferences (for anything in general, not just for mishti) & learnt to respect them & still not feel bereft of his bhai's love & support. Instead, they brought in his birth truth & he changed after that. In my opinion, that wasn't needed as he already had doubts & was slowly coming around even at the time of mishbir's breakup. They could have built that up.


KuKu relationship needs to progress big time now. Kunal should have been shown in a big moral dilemma while he was lying to Kuhu & manipulating her before their marriage. He should have felt extremely conflicted for using her to separate mishbir all along the process 'cause he's not inherently evil; just wants his bro with him & does wrong things in that endeavour. That sort of introspection would have led to better character development of Kunal. We did get few dialogues like that but then again no progress.

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Unpopular opinion here: But I find Kuhu's character the most relatable in this show. She is really human, and whether or not the general audiences like her for being so true to real life, I appreciate the character for all its complexities, spontaneity & reality. This is 'cause I belive there is no black & white; just varied shades of grey in our lives. Kuhu is very much that way & her relationship with every character should be explored beyond the bare minimum scenes the character gets.


They have really good actors for parallel leads & good ones for supporting characters too.


For instance, Varsha has taken in her husband Shaurya's daughter with another woman into her household & is treating her as her own. Not like mishti who's constantly meted out very subtle step-treatment. They could explore Shaurya-Varsha dynamics with this angle in focus as they were a very solid couple in the parent show & now have a child from outside between them. How does Shaurya feel for what Varsha has done for him, his daughter & for the family? Have Shaurya-Varsha really gone back to what they were before this incident, or are there still thin walls between them that may show up from time to time?


But very sadly, I can only write these essays, nothing more would come out of this. ITV never seems to develop stories where more than 2-3 characters are in focus. They prolly don't know how to write the screenplay where EACH character has his/her own story.


I used to watch Kaira in yrkkh for their initial 7-8 months. The characters of Kaira were then totally changed & butchered beyond repair that I totally stopped watching. They were initially very good but later the writers focused everything on Kaira & destroyed their essence. That happened due to lack of side stories and plotlines involving all other characters which were very interesting but were ignored. The fandom was very toxic & arrogant & refused to give space to the makers to show the other characters. Show's still on as yrkkh has become a habit for trp audience in India & maybe due to the chemistry, which by the way, now looks forced & cringey without any sense in the story. I can't believe I'm saying this about Kaira as they were too good when they started but within 10 months they were butchered.


Thankfully, mishbir's characters have largely remained the same & I hope it continues for some more time. For all my rant above, this show is really very good & maybe the only sensible one out there now. They do have an idea & basic story in mind - that girls need to be given the freedom of choice, the respect, & the space that they so rightfully deserve. This is very very appreciable in the face of all the nonsense on ITV today where makers don't have a set theme / idea & even if they do, it all goes haywire very soon. This show completes 1 year next month & still makes some sense & is much better than all the others currently on TV. Mishti has very well brought out the aspect of empowerment in making choices right from saying no for goddhana with kunal to declaring she loves abir in yesterday's episode. I hope she remains this way & never becomes the mahan all-sacrificing female lead. And let Abir remain the perfect role model for a man that he is. Let mishbir also focus on their careers, along with KuKu on their office/business issues.


I also hope to see the other "rishtey" in "yeh rishtey hain pyaar ke"; only putting all this out here because this team has the potential.


DKP cast & crew made the initial part of yrkkh back in 2009-10-11 really good with stories focusing on all the characters; it used to run during childhood & I think it was engaging all of its characters. Hope they can bring that skill back in the creative department.


And really very sorry for such a long imposition. Please pardon 🙏

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Posted: 5 years ago
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And just one last thing - what a waste of great potential with regard to the Baba track!


Instead of making both Baba & Meenu pitch-black, they could have explored these 2 characters in grey shades, looking at interpersonal relationships with a grey background.


And I really think they could have done better with Nishant too - there was great potential there too!


But it's ending like a joke & they're back to square 1 again, with Meenu plotting against mishbir, bade papa concerned about mishti, song-dance-drama, blackmailing with some explosive/terrible secret *KuKu divorce*, and perhaps a new accomplice-bakra-munna for meenu which I fear will be Kuhu now!

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Sadly so much potential is going to waste.

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Originally posted by: thedramaqueen

You are funny aqua.. 🤣

Thanks DQ!😳

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