ये रिश्ते हैं प्यार के Live Updates/Episode Discussions 21 Jan 2020 - Page 9

Originally posted by: kin8

Yaar I was thinking the same and I want to believe that also but then today his dialogues didn’t support that. He said that abir has to lose. If he was testing abir’s love he wouldn’t have said that. But still crossing my fingers that Nish is positive.

That's because he is testing his perseverance

UFF the SWAG!! 😎👏🥳

https://twitter.com/lostAngelzx/status/1219451116582137856

Shah's style, walk and smile👏 *whistle*

Continuing with spectacular cinema camera work today!👏🥳❤️

So many beautiful caps today❤️

p.s Diya we thought Abir was wearing the maroon shirt. Luckily it turned out to be just dark purple😆👍🏼 Handsome as usual😳

Originally posted by: SheThought

Yeah, thank god they didn't show cliched Abir putting Mehndi on Mishti sneakily. So far so good.. tomorrow, let's see 😆

Haan, I mentioned the hospital theory in the AT earlier 😆. That way we will also get parallel with Abir hospital track earlier... he will take Mish's hand and ask her "tum mujko dekne kyun aayi? Bolo Mishti?" 😳

han just now read your theory pali... that looks much much better yaar 😆 much much better than abir coming to shaadi n mish finally decides to go with him after informing everyone like bepanah or groom swap... this hospital theory is much better pali,.. hailllaaa i hope Uru's saasuma does something 😆

Originally posted by: yrhpk_aus

UFF the SWAG!! 😎👏🥳

https://twitter.com/lostAngelzx/status/1219451116582137856

Shah's style, walk and smile👏 *whistle*

Nandu, I just made a similar post about this in the AT 😛

Originally posted by: LetThereBeLight

han just now read your theory pali... that looks much much better yaar 😆 much much better than abir coming to shaadi n mish finally decides to go with him after informing everyone like bepanah or groom swap... this hospital theory is much better pali,.. hailllaaa i hope Uru's saasuma does something 😆

Haan yaar Diyu,... ab toh sari ummeede Uru ki Sasuma se hi hai... please do some planning plotting against MishBir so that they can be successful 😆

Wahan BB ne Laxu se Abir ki taange toding

Yahan Mishti ke dil ne Abir se phir se rishta joding

😆

Originally posted by: Mimzy

Nannu considering it as a competetion and as a way to payback his family is even mre twisted.😆Atleast their marriage had sme probablity of wrking since he thought he loves her......but I dnt think he actually knws what love is?? He is mistaking his care and concern and attachment for mishti as love.😆 If he was in love he wouldn't act like a sentinal gurading his treasure....

Its now Abir's turn to experience disappointments I guess........Its good in a way.....otherwise it would have been too easy for him.......you will only value things/ppl whom u tried hard to keep in ur life.

I agree with u on BP.....It irked me too....he should have been her support....but he is been another reason of worry for her. Plus I dnt like the way the family treats her ......its looks so hypocritical when BP defends Mishti infront of RVs but he couldn't even keep his family members in line. The fact of the matter is, it hurts more when ur own family points fingers at u ......dusron ka kya hain??hamesha bolenge.......🤔

Plus the girl has sme serious self esteem/worth issues. She is not able to stand up for herself infront of her family nor is she able to maintain a healthy boundary with them. All of these ppl are trying to control her life and she lets them. She has got it in her mind to prove her worth by overcompensating for the little things done for her. Even with Abir also she got it in her mind that she should protect him and should make life easy for him.(its myt sound romantic ....but its nt really) She should have given herself the same priority she gave to others instead of jumping into life threatening situations for making life easy for others......

Even Abir has the same issue......he considers himself as weak when he is not.

this is seriously very twisted mini 😆 actually i dont think he accepted this rishta bcoz of his feeling, he was still not able get through those feeling n suddenly bp asked him, and his dialogue to jas that for first time bp is asking something they cant deny n his guilt of past mistake everything made him agree i think... but like you said bm words had imprinted in his heart n he has started seeing this as a game and competition on who is better for mishti n who will keep her more happy... very twisted love theory😆

exactly yaar i agree he as a father is right but then not seeing mishti's emotional state in name of protecting her from pain by giving her more pain is awful... being a grandfather he failed as a father... mainly i was so hurt when he let mishti apologize to jas when he was the same man to stop mishti from apologizing to meenu or stopped mish saying if they dont trust you they are not worth of you on break up day... they are family so they have rights to say anything to mishti??? in anger he is doing things which will regret heavily yaar..

true totally agreed mini... both of them have this self esteem issue... its like they can hurt themselves n give happiness to other... tbh i didnt like both mishbir doing things in name of protecting each other be it abirs hiding kunal run away truth or mish jaasoosi... its always in supporting each other and being each others strength not self hurting its actually gonna hurt people we love when they knew all this... first they need to be selfish like i said before they cant be with you always at that time you need to know to handle yourself... your theory on kuhu in this is absolutely right...

Originally posted by: kin8

Honestly first when BB started talking to Nish and Jas that how this is Nish’s first rishta and for Mishti third and if they are okay with it. I was like no way? Is she asking Nish to break the rishta for Abir? In a split second I had so many thoughts 😂😂😂

no she was instigating them to go ahead with the rishta soon rather than stretching with many rituals... she wants them to rush it before abir can stop it...

Originally posted by: SheThought

Nandu, I just made a similar post about this in the AT 😛

oh achaa? hifi!🤗

Yup worth double posting😆 Shah's screen presence is impeccable👏

Originally posted by: Mimzy

I think they still haven't shown Nishant's motive in this whole shaadi drama. He accepted this rishta becoz he thought he loved mishti. Plus I thought he was just giving an excuse to Jasmeet when he said he want to do it for family because he didn't want to expose his feelings since mishti isn't even aware of it.But now I think he is observing and trying to prove to himself and others that he is the better choice. Hence his open challenge to Abir, he wants to prove it he is better than him by making mishti choose. Its pretty twisted since he isn't considering what this is doing to mishti. But then I am thinking even Abir is also not considering her feelings while doing this tamasha.....😆

Haan mishti had this problem from the start....😆She wants to help evryone and make life easy for them. Its her way of proving her worth. Its one thing that no one has ever asked for her help.....phir bhi karti hain. And becoz of her bad luck everything gets messed up and she gets blame mre than appreciation😆

She is 100% truthful when she is asked directly or if she needs to admit to anything that will be considered wrong infront of her family. But she steps back when she has to take credit for anything like the mehul kaand or if she thinks she needs to protect anyone.

Her problem is not that she lies, her problem is she doesn't knw hw to maintain a facade like Kuhu does and handle her problems on her own without involving the whole of Rajkot.

Sometimes some things need time and space to sort out not impulsive decisions. Her problem is she is too much impulsive.

true this mini both the boys are not considering mishti's emotion thats a fact tbh... i thought maybe abir sees this shaadi is not good for her and she is not willinging doing it so doing all this but then even he is not able to see mishti's pain n facade yaar...

wow mini applauds for her perfect analysis of mishti... this actually makes alot of sense to many incidents where i fail to understand mishti... 👍🏼 mainly about her saying the truth other things totally agreed same thoughts... her impulsiveness is ok but there has to be a limit n time before she can act through it...