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Originally posted by: SheThought

Chalo, Abir made a choice under family pressure.

Tomorrow, Mishti will make a choice under family pressure.

Hisaab barabar between MishBir.

Can they start over from 0 now 😆😆

Technically Mishti almost sacrificed her love during Kuhu’s haldi. But since it was before official love confession. We can disregard that and call it a tie lol 😂😂

Originally posted by: LetThereBeLight

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haan yaar it was simple and good thank god it was dream that abir came n put mehndi on mishti hand... 😆 its so unlike of abir to do that...

true actually i didnt like his confidence since roka i want him to work hard and first stop this shaadi as its not right not bcoz of love but its not good for both nish and mish... but he is taking the love only thats ok but work hard naa the way he apologized to bm was love but he needs to work hard...

true now he needs this reality check.. he needs to see the actually depth of the situation and think of something good and work on it...

haha BB plans are always in favor of mishbir only 🤣 actually now seeing the way they are going bhaag ki shaadi this hospital theory is much better 🤣

Honestly first when BB started talking to Nish and Jas that how this is Nish’s first rishta and for Mishti third and if they are okay with it. I was like no way? Is she asking Nish to break the rishta for Abir? In a split second I had so many thoughts 😂😂😂

Originally posted by: Mimzy

Nannu considering it as a competetion and as a way to payback his family is even mre twisted.😆Atleast their marriage had sme probablity of wrking since he thought he loves her......but I dnt think he actually knws what love is?? He is mistaking his care and concern and attachment for mishti as love.😆 If he was in love he wouldn't act like a sentinal gurading his treasure....

Its now Abir's turn to experience disappointments I guess........Its good in a way.....otherwise it would have been too easy for him.......you will only value things/ppl whom u tried hard to keep in ur life.

I agree with u on BP.....It irked me too....he should have been her support....but he is been another reason of worry for her. Plus I dnt like the way the family treats her ......its looks so hypocritical when BP defends Mishti infront of RVs but he couldn't even keep his family members in line. The fact of the matter is, it hurts more when ur own family points fingers at u ......dusron ka kya hain??hamesha bolenge.......🤔

Plus the girl has sme serious self esteem/worth issues. She is not able to stand up for herself infront of her family nor is she able to maintain a healthy boundary with them. All of these ppl are trying to control her life and she lets them. She has got it in her mind to prove her worth by overcompensating for the little things done for her. Even with Abir also she got it in her mind that she should protect him and should make life easy for him.(its myt sound romantic ....but its nt really) She should have given herself the same priority she gave to others instead of jumping into life threatening situations for making life easy for others......

Even Abir has the same issue......he considers himself as weak when he is not.

I think writers probably wanted to take love and KKHH route but they saw lots of bashing on social media and changed into he is doing it for family.

And I agree about Mishti has some serious self esteem issue. But it was their from beginning she always had to prove her worth. If y’all remember during rishta exchange, courtship, Kuhu wedding drama.
Also in some manner she is 100% truthful and won’t hide or lie but important stuff she won’t open her mouth till it’s very late.

Originally posted by: LetThereBeLight

chalo lets start from the start... its perfect pali... scored settled.. now lets bagao mishbir and let them live in peace.. 😆

Originally posted by: LetThereBeLight

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actually hifi seeing the first scene i thought ohh god they are gonna end today epi with abir coming but thank god they completed half function 🤣

dont know mini but seeing this speed i hope they finish off ganesh pooja too this week and next week haldi n shaadi i hope we get a spoiler yaar cant handle this

yaar like you said he sees all this as a competition and like someone posted yesterday for him its a chance to prove himself to family... its his own feeling that he is better the comparison is what makes him stupid.. i dont even know what he thinks of love re its just a competition for him on who gives more happiness to mishti... 😆

haan 2 thappad and goes on knees once redemption over 🤣🤣 chaa what all we expected.. but i hope he works more even after this shaadi drama.. he needs to prove by action and work on building their relationship thats a proper way to redeem for both of them..

BM can see everything but voicing out is not her job nah 😆even shaurya can speak but not bm.. 😆

haan i even accepted bp anger and why he is doing all this... i even agreed with his decision of shaadi at one point bcoz of his fear and everything even though it was wrong as a father he was right... but then the responsibility he said yesterday n pushing her to explain when she just went out for 5 min was too much.. just think what if she actually went out for fresh air,, do they want to lock her up in house or have a body guard when she goes out... will this change after marriage.. this is what irks me.. today too she herself asked abir to leave, she is trying even if she doesnt want to she is being true to her commitment even if that hurt her.. like you said yesterday she can go to any extend to give her loved ones what they want, but still being hard on the girl..

Meri Light Good Morning🤗

@bold - true words yaara

I liked BM's thinking today but she is in the one who had sown the seeds of Nishmish in the head of bp😆

Poor Mishti😒

Originally posted by: SheThought

Exactly Mini!

Even if Mish chooses Nish, what will that prove anything?!

Nannu is taking it as a game now...

And Abir needs to get a reality check too. Mish will choose Nish and Abir will have to start thinking from grounds up...

Pali....🤗

I am trying to understand this guy, but I dnt knw if I am able to understand. I think he wants to prove to himself he is the better choice and mishti will be happy with him. He is pretty insecure.....is what I am able to understand. I dnt think even he is convinced abt this marriage and is searching ways to prove this is the right decision.

Abir certainly needed that reality check......he isn't thinking abt the complications involved and the consequences she would hve to face if this rishta breaks. She will be an outcast in the family. He needs smething solid for this marriage to brk🤔

Originally posted by: SheThought

Exactly Mini!

Even if Mish chooses Nish, what will that prove anything?!

Nannu is taking it as a game now...

And Abir needs to get a reality check too. Mish will choose Nish and Abir will have to start thinking from grounds up...

Yes most definitely Mish choosing nish over him is going to be a shocker for Abir. He needs to think out of the box now. But before that we have to sit through crying and sobbing Abirrrr😭😭😭

Originally posted by: LetThereBeLight

haan it was supposed to be after mehndi preeti but then shah went to indo naa so they shot mehndi first in that too there was BD used and ganesh pooja i think there will be no abir so they shot it after wards to the inter change of function...

That makes sense. ITV can interchange the sequence of functions as they want anyways🤦‍♀️

Originally posted by: SheThought

Preeti, bin maangi shaadi main sirf Add hi hota hai, delete nahin 😆

There is one picture of Kuhu in some funky outfit... haldi toh nahin laga. God knows what function is that now! Hen-chicken party? Pak pak Pakaoo😆

Hum zaroor pak gaye yaar ye shaadi ke functions se. ab to hadd hogaya really😡

Originally posted by: kin8

I think writers probably wanted to take love and KKHH route but they saw lots of bashing on social media and changed into he is doing it for family.

And I agree about Mishti has some serious self esteem issue. But it was their from beginning she always had to prove her worth. If y’all remember during rishta exchange, courtship, Kuhu wedding drama.
Also in some manner she is 100% truthful and won’t hide or lie but important stuff she won’t open her mouth till it’s very late.

I think they still haven't shown Nishant's motive in this whole shaadi drama. He accepted this rishta becoz he thought he loved mishti. Plus I thought he was just giving an excuse to Jasmeet when he said he want to do it for family because he didn't want to expose his feelings since mishti isn't even aware of it.But now I think he is observing and trying to prove to himself and others that he is the better choice. Hence his open challenge to Abir, he wants to prove it he is better than him by making mishti choose. Its pretty twisted since he isn't considering what this is doing to mishti. But then I am thinking even Abir is also not considering her feelings while doing this tamasha.....😆

Haan mishti had this problem from the start....😆She wants to help evryone and make life easy for them. Its her way of proving her worth. Its one thing that no one has ever asked for her help.....phir bhi karti hain. And becoz of her bad luck everything gets messed up and she gets blame mre than appreciation😆

She is 100% truthful when she is asked directly or if she needs to admit to anything that will be considered wrong infront of her family. But she steps back when she has to take credit for anything like the mehul kaand or if she thinks she needs to protect anyone.

Her problem is not that she lies, her problem is she doesn't knw hw to maintain a facade like Kuhu does and handle her problems on her own without involving the whole of Rajkot.

Sometimes some things need time and space to sort out not impulsive decisions. Her problem is she is too much impulsive.