Are only women allowed to show their emotion? - Page 2

Originally posted by: Onyourface

Bang on post 👏 I am completely with you on this

First of all people who are judging on the basis of segments and episode which isnt aired yet 😆 I have always observed that in segments they show it in a dramatic way whereas in episodes it's quite milder

Secondly yes that's a fact that mishti dosent trust abir enough and that was very evident from the baba track itself , first she didn't trust abir enough to share her doubts on baba and second when she finally got the proofs, she trusted meenu to handle the situation Not trusting abir chalo I can understand that because abir was very close to baba but trusting meenu ? Even after all the kaands that meenu had done ?

After her break up she had met meenu and told her that what meenu did was wrong, means somewhere mishti had sensed that meenu had tried to create misunderstandings ....then why mishti 2.0 is concentrating on playing jealously games with abir to make him realise that he still loves her I mean directly go and say that your mom double played me ... if you trust abir, he will definitely believe you na ....so yeah there is a clear lack of trust from her side...because when we lie to someone that means we clearly dont trust them enough with our truth...simple as that ...

See it was I believe a kind of poetic justice that kunal's birth secret was made out through mishti for all the taunts that she had to listen from him ...more a karma kind of thing ... mishti didnt intend to do so ... she was worried about nannu's health and said it all in a spur of the moment...I would have appreciated more if she would have exposed kunal and benba's kaali kartoot in front of mahs and abir..right away instead she hid those things ...

mahs have all the rights to know who is behind all this right?

I appreciate the fact that she was also mature enough to realise her mistake and went there to apologise to abir , but the damage was already done , according to spoilers , kunal had tried to kill himself... so you can imagine abir's mental state by the time she comes to apologise.

So if mishti in anger all worried about nannu's health did what she wasn't supposed to do then abir in anger all worried about kunal's health did what he wasn't supposed to...

Also I saw the segment , I saw abir telling her twice to move away but still she wasnt leaving...the push was unintentional , he wanted to move her away ... imagine the same thing in opposite way , what if mishti had asked him to move away and he wasn't leaving her , she would have made attempts to move him away na ?? So in that case mishti becomes a strong girl but abir becomes a bad man ...hmmm.... also if you see in the segment ...abir did realise his mistake and takes a step to go back but by that time nannu arrives..

I am not aupporting anyone, both are wrong for me in various ways ...its sad to see my fav Jodi having problems of trust, understanding and communication to this level in their relationship ...they really need to work harder to get back there...n m sure they will someday

It's just that I didnt mishti to deal with the situation irrationally and I also didn't think that abir can be so rude when in anger ...its just different aspects of our personalities ( some good some not so good ) come out when life actually tests you 😊... don't be so harsh on judging them be it abir or be it mishti ❤️❤️

Having said that I would.request makers to not show the push thing n all ... the judgements go out of proportion and then of course no one likes to see such things 👍🏼

bang on post guruji... 🥳

no words to say or add more.. both are right and wrong in many ways.. now its upto them on how they handle it maturely atleast now.. 👍🏼

true i agree with last point i think its better they dont show such stunt as its being judged harshly n not taken well... 👍🏼

Originally posted by: MishBirStruck

So why she still wants abir to confess his love, why she still say ki Wo abir ko paake rahegi

She can't have it both ways

If she want his love for her, then trust him too, if not stop persuading, nobody will blame her

bang on vaishu 👍🏼 when it comes to trust issue i cant handle it when abir is being judged.. so much for the blind trust he showed.. 👏

Originally posted by: Onyourface

Bang on post 👏 I am completely with you on this

First of all people who are judging on the basis of segments and episode which isnt aired yet 😆 I have always observed that in segments they show it in a dramatic way whereas in episodes it's quite milder

Secondly yes that's a fact that mishti dosent trust abir enough and that was very evident from the baba track itself , first she didn't trust abir enough to share her doubts on baba and second when she finally got the proofs, she trusted meenu to handle the situation Not trusting abir chalo I can understand that because abir was very close to baba but trusting meenu ? Even after all the kaands that meenu had done ?

After her break up she had met meenu and told her that what meenu did was wrong, means somewhere mishti had sensed that meenu had tried to create misunderstandings ....then why mishti 2.0 is concentrating on playing jealously games with abir to make him realise that he still loves her I mean directly go and say that your mom double played me ... if you trust abir, he will definitely believe you na ....so yeah there is a clear lack of trust from her side...because when we lie to someone that means we clearly dont trust them enough with our truth...simple as that ...

See it was I believe a kind of poetic justice that kunal's birth secret was made out through mishti for all the taunts that she had to listen from him ...more a karma kind of thing ... mishti didnt intend to do so ... she was worried about nannu's health and said it all in a spur of the moment...I would have appreciated more if she would have exposed kunal and benba's kaali kartoot in front of mahs and abir..right away instead she hid those things ...

mahs have all the rights to know who is behind all this right?

I appreciate the fact that she was also mature enough to realise her mistake and went there to apologise to abir , but the damage was already done , according to spoilers , kunal had tried to kill himself... so you can imagine abir's mental state by the time she comes to apologise.

So if mishti in anger all worried about nannu's health did what she wasn't supposed to do then abir in anger all worried about kunal's health did what he wasn't supposed to...

Also I saw the segment , I saw abir telling her twice to move away but still she wasnt leaving...the push was unintentional , he wanted to move her away ... imagine the same thing in opposite way , what if mishti had asked him to move away and he wasn't leaving her , she would have made attempts to move him away na ?? So in that case mishti becomes a strong girl but abir becomes a bad man ...hmmm.... also if you see in the segment ...abir did realise his mistake and takes a step to go back but by that time nannu arrives..

I am not aupporting anyone, both are wrong for me in various ways ...its sad to see my fav Jodi having problems of trust, understanding and communication to this level in their relationship ...they really need to work harder to get back there...n m sure they will someday

It's just that I didnt mishti to deal with the situation irrationally and I also didn't think that abir can be so rude when in anger ...its just different aspects of our personalities ( some good some not so good ) come out when life actually tests you 😊... don't be so harsh on judging them be it abir or be it mishti ❤️❤️

Having said that I would.request makers to not show the push thing n all ... the judgements go out of proportion and then of course no one likes to see such things 👍🏼

Exactly Uru, words 👏👏👏

I really don't understand why Mish is playing jealousy game now, itne mahino se abir ko jaanti hai, itne signals kaafi nahi hai kya

ok everyone said many things... i wanna just ask one thing... is there anything called personal space?????

if a person enters your personal space n you dont want it lets avoid gender... what will you do when even after you repeatedly said them to leave you n they adamantly hold on to you n also you are angry if you try to get away or wait for them to leave your hand themselves... invading someones personal space n that person trying to get away is not intentional push... watch it carefully before you say anything...

Originally posted by: LetThereBeLight

bang on vaishu 👍🏼 when it comes to trust issue i cant handle it when abir is being judged.. so much for the blind trust he showed.. 👏

Exactly diyu, the trust he had shown on mishti, it was unbelievable, seriously, mall, email, baba's truth, saare proofs Mish ke khilaaf the and still he trusted her, she doesn't know about baba's one that doesn't mean she could distrust abir there's no connection between these two things. The most hated dialogue for me was this only when Mish asked kunal if abir asked him to do it

Originally posted by: LetThereBeLight

ok everyone said many things... i wanna just ask one thing... is there anything called personal space?????

if a person enters your personal space n you dont want it lets avoid gender... what will you do when even after you repeatedly said them to leave you n they adamantly hold on to you n also you are angry if you try to get away or wait for them to leave your hand themselves... invading someones personal space n that person trying to get away is not intentional push... watch it carefully before you say anything...

Exactly diyu 👍🏼

I and tm had a conversation at AT too about this topic and she had said ki if abir had revielled the truth of kuhu being illegitimate what would have been Mish reaction, wo to band hi Baja deti abir ki and that's really true

Originally posted by: MishBirStruck

Exactly diyu, the trust he had shown on mishti, it was unbelievable, seriously, mall, email, baba's truth, saare proofs Mish ke khilaaf the and still he trusted her, she doesn't know about baba's one that doesn't mean she could distrust abir there's no connection between these two things. The most hated dialogue for me was this only when Mish asked kunal if abir asked him to do it

add haldi too vaishu even her family failed to understand n trust her... and yaar actually i was not surprised tbh when she said that as even before break up her trust on abir was not consistent... she knows to love but then trust i dont know how much...

and like uru said her trust on meenu>>>>>>>> trust on abir... she trusted meenu to say truth to abir and she trusted meenu is the reason for breakup still we dont know what she thinks on this i mean whether she thinks abir was manipulated by meenu or any other reason...

anyway another thing is i still wonder what abir had to do to gain her trust n win her back again that he didnt do in 150 episodes.. i still dont know what abir gonna do as he gave his max in past... something new but what is it i dont know...

Originally posted by: MishBirStruck

Exactly diyu 👍🏼

I and tm had a conversation at AT too about this topic and she had said ki if abir had revielled the truth of kuhu being illegitimate what would have been Mish reaction, wo to band hi Baja deti abir ki and that's really true

haan saw that vaishu.. i totally agree👍🏼 mishti too would've reacted same infact more anger as she already has that attitude..

Originally posted by: MishBirStruck

So why she still wants abir to confess his love, why she still say ki Wo abir ko paake rahegi

She can't have it both ways

If she want his love for her, then trust him too, if not stop persuading, nobody will blame her

Vaishu, abir was ready to leave his family and live separately...for whom ? For mishti yaar ...wasn't this a proof enough already to trust and love him .. the trust issue is not something that has come up now , it was always there from the baba track itself

Originally posted by: LetThereBeLight

bang on post guruji... 👏👏👏🥳

no words to say or add more.. both are right and wrong in many ways.. now its upto them on how they handle it maturely atleast now.. 👍🏼

true i agree with last point i think its better they dont show such stunt as its being judged harshly n not taken well... 👍🏼

Haan... both of them should just cool down , give each other some space and time to think where they went wrong , of course they love each other immensely, it's just they need to rethink on certain things that's all ...

Time heals everything, they will definitely heal themselves and each other too