Are only women allowed to show their emotion?

Firstly I would like to say sorry in advance if anyone gets offended by this.

Time and again I am getting to see posts where certain section of fans end up saying that Abir doesn't deserve Mishti.As long as he is all lovey dovey peole are like "Oh Abir is the man of anyine's dream" and as soon as He bursts out he starts getting rants like he doesn't deserve Mishti.

Most of the peole are making judgement on that so called push scene ,while the same people forgot that Mishti had shown trust issue again by assuming first that Kunal was instructed by Abir.Why only female leads are allowed ki vo gusse me male lead ko judge kre,uski family k sbse bade secret ko reveal kre,samne wala kisi matter ko lekar clueless rhe tb v use sunne ko mile ki Tmne bharosa tora.Pyaar hone na hone ka trust ni,intentions pe trust ni.

Kya sirf so called push he insaan ko hurt karta?Lack of trust ni?

I am not defending any of the leads.But the point is dono ek dusre ko kisi na kisi tareeke se hurt kr he rhe hain..Ek words and lack of trust k through aur ek actions k through.To fir deserve krne na krne ki baat aa he kyun rhi hai?

Originally posted by: shiningways2407

Firstly I would like to say sorry in advance if anyone gets offended by this.

Time and again I am getting to see posts where certain section of fans end up saying that Abir doesn't deserve Mishti.As long as he is all lovey dovey peole are like "Oh Abir is the man of anyine's dream" and as soon as He bursts out he starts getting rants like he doesn't deserve Mishti.

Most of the peole are making judgement on that so called push scene ,while the same people forgot that Mishti had shown trust issue again by assuming first that Kunal was instructed by Abir.Why only female leads are allowed ki vo gusse me male lead ko judge kre,uski family k sbse bade secret ko reveal kre,samne wala kisi matter ko lekar clueless rhe tb v use sunne ko mile ki Tmne bharosa tora.Pyaar hone na hone ka trust ni,intentions pe trust ni.

Kya sirf so called push he insaan ko hurt karta?Lack of trust ni?

I am not defending any of the leads.But the point is dono ek dusre ko kisi na kisi tareeke se hurt kr he rhe hain..Ek words and lack of trust k through aur ek actions k through.To fir deserve krne na krne ki baat aa he kyun rhi hai?

K

Meri Dil ki baat kehdi......y r the wrong doings of ml always lead to bashing and the wrong doings of fl is being put under the carpet...the moment when Mish questioned Kunal that was he being influenced by Abir to do this,my heart just broke...is trusting the kaam of only ml...and fl can put anything upon him...however gem he might be...in a way Abir was ryt...he should say to Mish that he hated the fact that he loves her..he asked her to go but she didn't she followed him...and his anger would hv probably its peak...y showing anger to someone is also a thing of fl..y can't ml show his anger...Abir isn't right doesn't mean Mish is ryt🤗🤗

On the contrary, male leads get away with almost anything on TV from abusing female leads to committing crimes. So, it's not true that only female leads lecture the male leads and the male leads just take it. Indian TV is legendary for female leads silently enduring abuse from male leads and their families.

Coming to Mishti asking Kunal if Abir put him up to it, I don't get why we're expecting that girl to trust Abir after he broke her heart. Yes, we know why Abir did it but she doesn't. To her, he humiliated her on their engagement. Why should she trust Abir after that? He hasn't given her any reason to. She believed Kunal once he said it was not Abir. She only revealed Kunal's truth to him because of his despicable actions. If Mishti lost her composure in a situation where she thinks Nannu could have died, I don't blame her for it.

Abir might have told her whatever he wants to Mishti without so called push or pull which looked so ugly. I did watch manhandling in many serials but now feeling weird after hearing so many crimes including burning/ raping women in this country. Now cannt stand smallest misbehavior like raising voice also on women, just become intolerant when comes to women.

For me, no explanation and justification on so called push...

Originally posted by: clarity

On the contrary, male leads get away with almost anything on TV from abusing female leads to committing crimes. So, it's not true that only female leads lecture the male leads and the male leads just take it. Indian TV is legendary for female leads silently enduring abuse from male leads and their families.

Coming to Mishti asking Kunal if Abir put him up to it, I don't get why we're expecting that girl to trust Abir after he broke her heart. Yes, we know why Abir did it but she doesn't. To her, he humiliated her on their engagement. Why should she trust Abir after that? He hasn't given her any reason to. She believed Kunal once he said it was not Abir. She only revealed Kunal's truth to him because of his despicable actions. If Mishti lost her composure in a situation where she thinks Nannu could have died, I don't blame her for it.

You explained well..Dont know when makers stop showing manhandling by male lead and toleranting same by FL and ending up together.

Originally posted by: shiningways2407

Firstly I would like to say sorry in advance if anyone gets offended by this.

Time and again I am getting to see posts where certain section of fans end up saying that Abir doesn't deserve Mishti.As long as he is all lovey dovey peole are like "Oh Abir is the man of anyine's dream" and as soon as He bursts out he starts getting rants like he doesn't deserve Mishti.

Most of the peole are making judgement on that so called push scene ,while the same people forgot that Mishti had shown trust issue again by assuming first that Kunal was instructed by Abir.Why only female leads are allowed ki vo gusse me male lead ko judge kre,uski family k sbse bade secret ko reveal kre,samne wala kisi matter ko lekar clueless rhe tb v use sunne ko mile ki Tmne bharosa tora.Pyaar hone na hone ka trust ni,intentions pe trust ni.

Kya sirf so called push he insaan ko hurt karta?Lack of trust ni?

I am not defending any of the leads.But the point is dono ek dusre ko kisi na kisi tareeke se hurt kr he rhe hain..Ek words and lack of trust k through aur ek actions k through.To fir deserve krne na krne ki baat aa he kyun rhi hai?

Bang on post 👏 I am completely with you on this

First of all people who are judging on the basis of segments and episode which isnt aired yet 😆 I have always observed that in segments they show it in a dramatic way whereas in episodes it's quite milder

Secondly yes that's a fact that mishti dosent trust abir enough and that was very evident from the baba track itself , first she didn't trust abir enough to share her doubts on baba and second when she finally got the proofs, she trusted meenu to handle the situation Not trusting abir chalo I can understand that because abir was very close to baba but trusting meenu ? Even after all the kaands that meenu had done ?

After her break up she had met meenu and told her that what meenu did was wrong, means somewhere mishti had sensed that meenu had tried to create misunderstandings ....then why mishti 2.0 is concentrating on playing jealously games with abir to make him realise that he still loves her I mean directly go and say that your mom double played me ... if you trust abir, he will definitely believe you na ....so yeah there is a clear lack of trust from her side...because when we lie to someone that means we clearly dont trust them enough with our truth...simple as that ...

See it was I believe a kind of poetic justice that kunal's birth secret was made out through mishti for all the taunts that she had to listen from him ...more a karma kind of thing ... mishti didnt intend to do so ... she was worried about nannu's health and said it all in a spur of the moment...I would have appreciated more if she would have exposed kunal and benba's kaali kartoot in front of mahs and abir..right away instead she hid those things ...

mahs have all the rights to know who is behind all this right?

I appreciate the fact that she was also mature enough to realise her mistake and went there to apologise to abir , but the damage was already done , according to spoilers , kunal had tried to kill himself... so you can imagine abir's mental state by the time she comes to apologise.

So if mishti in anger all worried about nannu's health did what she wasn't supposed to do then abir in anger all worried about kunal's health did what he wasn't supposed to...

Also I saw the segment , I saw abir telling her twice to move away but still she wasnt leaving...the push was unintentional , he wanted to move her away ... imagine the same thing in opposite way , what if mishti had asked him to move away and he wasn't leaving her , she would have made attempts to move him away na ?? So in that case mishti becomes a strong girl but abir becomes a bad man ...hmmm.... also if you see in the segment ...abir did realise his mistake and takes a step to go back but by that time nannu arrives..

I am not aupporting anyone, both are wrong for me in various ways ...its sad to see my fav Jodi having problems of trust, understanding and communication to this level in their relationship ...they really need to work harder to get back there...n m sure they will someday

It's just that I didnt expect mishti to deal with the situation irrationally and I also didn't think that abir can be so rude when in anger ...its just different aspects of our personalities ( some good some not so good ) come out when life actually tests you 😊... don't be so harsh on judging them be it abir or be it mishti ❤️❤️

Having said that I would.request makers to not show the push thing n all ... the judgements go out of proportion and then of course no one likes to see such things 👍🏼

Originally posted by: clarity

On the contrary, male leads get away with almost anything on TV from abusing female leads to committing crimes. So, it's not true that only female leads lecture the male leads and the male leads just take it. Indian TV is legendary for female leads silently enduring abuse from male leads and their families.

Coming to Mishti asking Kunal if Abir put him up to it, I don't get why we're expecting that girl to trust Abir after he broke her heart. Yes, we know why Abir did it but she doesn't. To her, he humiliated her on their engagement. Why should she trust Abir after that? He hasn't given her any reason to. She believed Kunal once he said it was not Abir. She only revealed Kunal's truth to him because of his despicable actions. If Mishti lost her composure in a situation where she thinks Nannu could have died, I don't blame her for it.

@bold Because Abir is not the kind of person who involves himself in planning and plotting

Originally posted by: Move_ON

Abir might have told her whatever he wants to Mishti without so called push or pull which looked so ugly. I did watch manhandling in many serials but now feeling weird after hearing so many crimes including burning/ raping women in this country. Now cannt stand smallest misbehavior like raising voice also on women, just become intolerant when comes to women.

For me, no explanation and justification on so called push...

Haath churane and push me difference hota.

Originally posted by: shiningways2407

Haath churane and push me difference hota.

Whatever I saw in IG clip, its rude push..

Originally posted by: clarity

On the contrary, male leads get away with almost anything on TV from abusing female leads to committing crimes. So, it's not true that only female leads lecture the male leads and the male leads just take it. Indian TV is legendary for female leads silently enduring abuse from male leads and their families.

Coming to Mishti asking Kunal if Abir put him up to it, I don't get why we're expecting that girl to trust Abir after he broke her heart. Yes, we know why Abir did it but she doesn't. To her, he humiliated her on their engagement. Why should she trust Abir after that? He hasn't given her any reason to. She believed Kunal once he said it was not Abir. She only revealed Kunal's truth to him because of his despicable actions. If Mishti lost her composure in a situation where she thinks Nannu could have died, I don't blame her for it.

So why she still wants abir to confess his love, why she still say ki Wo abir ko paake rahegi

She can't have it both ways

If she want his love for her, then trust him too, if not stop persuading, nobody will blame her