ok let me say what i think... its entirely what i felt ok dear.. 🤗
mini i'm only comparing the reasoning of both situation... if she can do things for kuhu n her life why cant abir do this for kunal... thats what i said...
Abir has every right to do anything for Kunal. But my point is mishti didnt chose Kuhu ....she stepped back for the time being. But Abir in reality chose Kunal's pain over Mishti's.
mishti chose kuhu but only regretted after seeing his trust... mishti wanted abir to believe her haldi fiasco n leave her right... but seeing his trust she got back her confidence... what abir did was wrong there is no doubt but he was to choose between two he loves unconditionally n mishti was to choose between the person she doesnt share a good relationship with n the one she started to love..
mini actually she decided not to confess to abir n gave up first n chose kuhu n expected abir to understand her n come for her... after doing the haldi khaand and seeing abir trust on her even after that she regretted n wanted to give that one percent chance right... she realized only after doing everything... i only took the choosing part there that is to explain that the reason for break up is comparatively logical than the haldi fiasco... coming to humiliation there it was about family n mishti and here its about mishti n abir...
I agree, Mishti pulling the stunt was stupid and unreasonable and Abir had a better reason. Also its true she was hopeful only after Abir came to her for explaination. But she relented to him is my pt here whereas Abir was obstinate.
But Abir also should know that the truth will come out one day and it is inevitable......so him choosing Kunal over something which is not even guranteed to wrk is something which pricks me!!!
this we will know only after airport scene yaar.. he even thought right if mishti pushed him one more time he would've given in... and also there abir came after knowing truth only until then she keep going right... here too i except mish to know the truth first before we can think of second chance or anything..
and coming back mish expected to get back she wanted to take chance only after the shaadi happened right... its a short term thing n she expected him to somehow find truth n come for her.. and it was totally in abirs hand to come or not..
That we dnt know......maybe after coming back she would have talked to Abir...plus she left a letter with Jugnu (whats in that letter is still a mystery). The shaadi was priority for her at that time.....cant blame her.....since for Abir also the shaadi was priority ....he stalled his relationship so that Kuku shaadi happens first......they are both similar in that!!!
yes she left letter n abir waited for shaadi to happen... but mish kept pushing abir away through out kuku shaadi he even gave ultimatum.. he still went behind her and once he knew mish is going away he left his brother wedding n went after her...
here its about kunal secret which abir is trying to guard whole life so why will he want to take up the chance.. he wants to let go of mishti entirely not to get back after sometime... its a long term thing so he will not want to go back n he is firm in his decision... it can be solved only if mishti gets to know about the truth about what meenu did n kunal parul thing...
Exactly my point.....him protecting Kunal is temporary....he can only stall Meenakshi for some time ......the truth will come out ..its inevitable. Him letting go of Mishti for something which is not even guarateed is pretty stupid.
Plus the way he broke up with her was kind of distasteful. It could have backfired bigtime.....the thing is everyone takes it for granted that Mishti is strong and could take anything. Just imagine....suppose Mishti's strength is just a front she projects and if Abir's words would have seriously messed her up and if she had done something seriously harmful to herself. Would Abir's reasons suffice for whatever damage he would have done?
The truth would have been so much better!!
The thing is Abir seriously messed up this time and he didn't really think through his decison and the consequences
actually if you see both didnt have any guarantee what future beholds.. how did mish trusted meenu to let shaadi happen if she did all that... in fact meenu plan was to ditch kuhu n humiliate mah family after mish goes naa... what if shaadi stopped something happened in family... and abir too doesnt have any guarantee of when will truth come out infact meenu can use it any time... both did what they felt was right without thinking of the future...
she had time but still she was pressurized n went ahead n did that... here he didnt have time he was bombarded with truth n demand one after other n finally too he hesitated n then only after meenu tried to talk to kunal he decided to go ahead.. the time constraint was less...
she did it for the ehsaan she had on mah family and he did it for the unconditional love he has on kunal... both hads done their fair share of mistake... both did things for their family by keeping their life at stake... they need to change themselves,,... no one is better than other both did what they felt right to them...
the main point is the reasoning and understanding... fighting for the show put up n fighting for giving up is different... then the truth was out but it was not was redeemable but here after truth coming out only the actual redemption starts...
i dont want mishti to fight with abir to give relationship a second chance .. finding the truth is what is important... the understanding on why abir did this is important.. and then she can make it hard for abir to get back is ok with me.. but abir running behind her before truth is known or mish taunting abir before understanding why he did i dont want both..
What I meant when I said I want Mishti to fight is.....I want her to compel Abir fo tell the truth....not begging for their relationship.....exactly what you have written!!
exactly.. this..