ये रिश्ते हैं प्यार के Live Updates/Episode Discussions 25 Nov 2019 - Page 9

Originally posted by: LetThereBeLight

yaar thats the most irritating scene... i hated it so much yaar.. the whole RJV family scene was damn irritating...

i dont know what writers are trying to do by showing abir like this... are they trying to make him villain.. i dont know what to feel raji.. its as if meenu is the main lead of the show n others are just here to hype her n give trouble to her..

Originally posted by: LetThereBeLight

true yaar and i hate to admit that this is true... already didnt we had enough hurt abir during mishkun courtship track... why abir alone why... i dont like it yaar..

Vo hamesha hi akela that diyu..if we will strwight forward to leap from Tom..then when is the ngo Wala dream scene...ab yeh pakka hai yeh Abir ka dream hai...Mish ka nahi becoz she is going to London now...

The scene were two sisters were eating brownies and tried their best to smile but ended up crying at the end was the best scene of the episode! Rhea and Kaveri portrayed that very well!

BP-Abir confrontation

I loved what BP told Abir! He is such a great father and what he told Abir holds so true for anyone! Happiness should come from within, we should be responsible for our own happiness! Abir brought abundant joy and happiness in Mishti's life, she learnt to enjoy her life again, but now he is gone and she will have to learn to be happy again... BP told Abir that he is thankful to him because after what he did, the biggest take away for his daughter is to take charge of her happiness! And he is confident that she will eventually learn that she doesn't need anyone to be happy!

He told Abir he doesn't know what he has lost... Abir thinks "Sab Kuch! Mishti mera sab kuch hai"

It broke my heart to see Abir losing BP's respect! The one who was adored and cherished in Mishti's house for the character he had and the man he was is now looked upon with disgust! BB has reduced Abir to be this sorry figure in front of Mahs... and it is very painful to see!

I am not sure if Abir can ever regain Mah's trust and love...

And on the other hand Nannu will enjoy this supremacy over Abir in that household...

Arey today’s episode was so disappointing.. no continuity.. seems everyone including abir forgot mishti so easily😳👏only thing I liked wa BP to abir and mishti to BB.. rest all bakwas.. wish they had focused on this episode well than going to leap and hyping helly entry 😡

Originally posted by: Krpkab_superfan

Here is my take on this...

I think everyone in the RV parivar knows who lead Abir to break up with Mishti. They know that Bigben holds the reins to the house. However no one wants to address it possibly to not cause more hurt to Abir and also not to take on the head of the family.

Abirs true emotions have been hidden and I think that is to lead on to the numbness that he is going to show. There are people who deal with trauma by crying , screaming etc and then there are those who don’t cry, show emotion etc ( happens in real life too) and they try to numb themselves from the pain by not reacting because they know they cannot handle it.

Here Mishti is going to be able to move on in a way because she is processing the pain and sharing it. When pain cannot be shared with anyone like in Abirs case , it becomes trauma and Abir will not deal with it until Mishti is back and the pain comes back to haunt him when he sees her with someone.

That scene with BP and Abir was so critical because Abir says in that to not bring Mishti back here because if he sees her again and she asks him about his love, he will not be able to hold back...

I think this episode was rushed but I am happy in a way because I seriously could not go through more episodes of these two crying and Meenu floating in victory !

this looks so nice yaar.. i mean logical n nice way to look at episode... and yes i agree to the numbness part... she can move on as she vented it out n also he believed everything... no hopes to hold on... but abir he knew everything n will suffer alone.,.. actually in real life this numbness might lead to depression or anything ..

Originally posted by: LetThereBeLight

i feel you pali...

this is going overboard now... had a lot of expectation from painting scene but it was so dumb... n ashirvad scene was the most irritating... today for first time felt this like you said abir is unworthy of mishti they are trying to portray this... if someone new is watching show will definitely feel this,.... i dont know what are trying to say here...

and kunal we had so much hope on him and suddenly he is like back to i hate mishti mode... and mami was smiling n ketu was reaction less... like seriously... even parul showed some emotion but nanu he is more useless...

mah family scene was shown so elaborately and rjv scene was so dumb...

and yes like you said mishti believed abir is manipulated by his mother so only this breakup... sorry to say but yes abir deserves this for the blind trust n understanding he had (note the sarcasm)... sorry if anyone disagrees.. but then this is my opinion... Cvs are doing this purposely to show abir as villain of his own love story..

Both Abir and Mishti's promises seem of no value now! They actually made those promises to us too, so what about us?! We have been cheated Diyu!!

I had mentioned that earlier too... they want him to be a villain in his own lovestory... at least from Mah's point of view! Nannu will be this prince charming that at least I am not waiting for... ugh!

Originally posted by: tasnimrayian

Dont forget,this same RS ruined Kaira.

I can never hope for the good🤬

yaar dont remind of that disaster i stopped watching after their story started itself for me the first couple were love... they were so pure n had a unique story..

Originally posted by: SheThought

Both Abir and Mishti's promises seem of no value now! They actually made those promises to us too, so what about us?! We have been cheated Diyu!!

I had mentioned that earlier too... they want him to be a villain in his own lovestory... at least from Mah's point of view! Nannu will be this prince charming that at least I am not waiting for... ugh!

@bold is the most depressing for me in this whole separation track. What happened to all the promises Abir made to Mish and more importantly what happened to n number of times Mish said even if Abir leaves her she won’t leave him, she will marry him at gun point etc etc

Good morning everyone...

Have a wonderful day ahead... :) :)

Originally posted by: SheThought

Hi Varshu 🤗

Aaj toh main bahot jyada confused hoon... I am lost!

Episode na dil main aaya,

Na samaj main!

ohhh .. I wont watch todays episode..writers are too busy writing new track after leap. issliye they didnt paid much attention .. thats too bad yaar